How many other Aces are there here?

[Glennie]

AWWWWW thanks.. The two of you are some of my best friends on daily diapers.. I enjoy hearing how happy you are together both sexually and non sexually. Marriage is so much more that just physical sex. The two of you are adorable together. I too have a lot of respect for your relationship. The two of you know exactly what you want and go for exactly that. Its nice to see a couple that knows each other and really love one another. My wife and I have been married 31 years. Not all of it has been perfect but We have grown up together. We married young and we are not even close to the same young people that create a union so many years ago. Kids came into the picture.. mortgages happened. life gets in the way. I tell people all the time its easy to have sex.. its complete different to find the time to walk with each other hand in hand at the beach or a park. The bills and dragging the kids to soccer practice gets in the way far too easy. Sadly so many marriages don't survive the kids. We are now older and the kids are grown and gone. Our union has gotten 300 times stronger now that we can spend time with each other. Lots of people say.. they are married. We can say we are happily married. My wife is not only my love and confidant. She is my Best friend. Love you guys, have a great Christmas

[Gentle Gemma]

I'm happy to see so many Aces here!!

I'm definitely a sex repulsed asexual, but I still want a family with kids. I think it's going to take a very special woman to fall in love with me. lol.

[kasarberang]

6 hours ago, Gentle Gemma said:

I'm happy to see so many Aces here!!

I'm definitely a sex repulsed asexual, but I still want a family with kids. I think it's going to take a very special woman to fall in love with me. lol.

It can happen. I was told all my life that I was fairly undesirable by friends and family due to medical stuff that I have to deal with as well as my personality which I've been told can be "off putting" and "too direct". My wife to this day when she tells people about my condition gets comments such as "you're so brave", "you're so generous" and "I could never do that" which makes her about as angry as can be.

Anyway despite what people told me and despite my obstacles I found someone who loves me for me. On top of all that she's willing to indulge me in my AB/DL side whenever and is often very encouraging when it comes to me trying to do more 'little' things.

There's someone out there for everybody, I'm sure you'll find your special somebody!

[~Brian~]

On 12/25/2020 at 5:44 AM, Glennie said:

AWWWWW thanks.. The two of you are some of my best friends on daily diapers.. I enjoy hearing how happy you are together both sexually and non sexually. Marriage is so much more that just physical sex. The two of you are adorable together. I too have a lot of respect for your relationship. The two of you know exactly what you want and go for exactly that. Its nice to see a couple that knows each other and really love one another.

@Glennie@Evelyn Dellcerro@Transfusionelle

@Glennie has said it ALL with the above quote, and he has SAID VOLUMES in those sentences.  I am also proud to call ALL 3 of YOU my close friends as well:  Eve and Elle personify a relationship where they LOVE EACH OTHER, and they know what they want, and they GO GIT it!  They are NOT afraid to tell you STRAIGHT up what is going on, and they DON'T Mess around - A relationship can have LOVE, sex and other things, but LOVE is the first building block:  You need TRUST, UNDERSTANDING, EMPATHY and COMPASSION as well, and Eve and Elle seem to have that as well:  They have taught ME a lot, and I wish that there was a way I express what I am feeling emotionally in words that don't make me sound like a sappy old shoe:  They helped me to realize that you may have to, or choose to wear, or use diapers, but that does NOT mean that your LIFE STOPS, and that you should NOT be afraid to wear and use them, because you are the one that makes the decision, and You CAN have a GREAT time in Diapers:  No one is gonna think any less of you because of the choice you make, and if they do, then you just roll on - But most of the close family I spoke to understand that, and I am grateful - I am more comfortable with myself because Eve and Elle welcomed me, and helped me to process what I was thinking, what I was doing, why I felt like I did, and other members have helped me as well, but well, as @Glenniesaid, Eve and Elle are special, and they DO know each other, and they DO love one another, in a way that reminds me of my Grandparents marriages, or my own parents marriage.  They take care of each other, they pull no punches, they support each other, teach their nephew, and well, THAT is what it is about - Friends to the end, and when the chips are down, friends like them, and others are ones that I can count on.  This Pandemic has been wild, and I am glad to have the safety of Daily Diapers, and I am glad that they @Elfy, @DailyDi@Glennieand others, made the rules they did to keep all the conspiracy theorists, and other wackiness outta here:  News is DEPRESSING, and I need the solace and support of a place where I don't have to see my world crumbling under my feet.  Daily Diapers is /home, and that is THAT - I tell Eve and Elle:  They are "New York TOUGH", but I and "VERMONT STRONG!" 

Thank You for being who you are:  I Love you to the MOON and back!

On 12/25/2020 at 5:44 AM, Glennie said:

My wife and I have been married 31 years. Not all of it has been perfect but We have grown up together. We married young and we are not even close to the same young people that create a union so many years ago. Kids came into the picture.. mortgages happened. life gets in the way. I tell people all the time its easy to have sex.. its complete different to find the time to walk with each other hand in hand at the beach or a park. The bills and dragging the kids to soccer practice gets in the way far too easy. Sadly so many marriages don't survive the kids. We are now older and the kids are grown and gone. Our union has gotten 300 times stronger now that we can spend time with each other. Lots of people say.. they are married. We can say we are happily married. My wife is not only my love and confidant. She is my Best friend

@GlennieMy parents recently celebrated 37 Years of marriage on December 30th.  They were  married in 1983 - They personify the same thing as what my grandparents marriages did:  That they stay together, and that they truly LOVE each other.  My grandparents were together for 61 years (1948 - 2009) and my moms parents for a little more than that:  Throughout that marriage, they had their troubles, they dealt with family issues, but they were IN LOVE, and dealt with the challenges they faced. 

When I asked my Mom and Stepdad what the "secret" of their marriage was, I believe he said "we have none, we talk about EVERYTHING!" They make decisions the same way:  They have shown me what strong and steady guiding hands they can be, because sometimes its hard to admit, that it isn't easy out here, but I push for everything I got, and I am NOT a QUITTER - I don't stop - I grew tired of people telling me that I couldn't do something, because it made me want it more:  I even got asked NOT to go to college, and do another senior year of High School - I told them to pound GLASS SHARDS - It takes more than that to get me down - 2.998 GPA at Champlain College (Champlain College - Burlington VT) NO one is gonna take THAT from me, one of my crowning achievements:  second ONLY to the day I became an UNCLE for the first time - I had PULLED off the best achievement - the second Baker to attend and COMPLETE a 4 year business degree, and I had the people that meant the MOST to me:  My Mom, My Dad, My Stepdad, My Grammy Baker: The ones that guided me into the runway for the final landing in 1995 - with me: beginning to END, and it meant the WORLD to me:  Not only that, but I GOT a STANDING OVATION from the whole auditorium - NOTHING beats that!

Glennie:  I have the UTMOST respect for you as well:  After all the Hell  you have gone through, you have shown me that it does indeed take a special person to make things happen.  You said that things get in the way, and you deal with them, and each day, week, year you are married, you grow closer, you mature, you GET it - A marriage is a partnership, and its not just the words "I DO"  One you say those words, the idea is to "DID" it - and you continue to do this:  You and your wife have fun together, and do what it is you want to do, and you don't have to worry about what anyone thinks, believes, and says:  You just roll on.

I want to say that I am more comfortable with myself NOW than I was in August of 2019 - I am still tying to understand things on my journey, which has led me to accept myself for what I am, and I am not afraid to BE who I AM - An Incontinent DL - I could NOT have gotten to that conclusion without the help of many.  Always remember, you have ONE Life, so live it to the FULLEST!

Thanks Guys,

Brian

Edited January 13, 2021 by ~Brian~
added bolding and underlining

[Evelyn Dellcerro]

1 hour ago, ~Brian~ said:

@Glennie@Evelyn Dellcerro@Transfusionelle

@Glennie has said it ALL with the above quote, and he has SAID VOLUMES in those sentences.  I am also proud to call ALL 3 of YOU my close friends as well:  Eve and Elle personify a relationship where they LOVE EACH OTHER, and they know what they want, and they GO GIT it!  They are NOT afraid to tell you STRAIGHT up what is going on, and they DON'T Mess around - A relationship can have LOVE, sex and other things, but LOVE is the first building block:  You need TRUST, UNDERSTANDING, EMPATHY and COMPASSION as well, and Eve and Elle seem to have that as well:  They have taught ME a lot, and I wish that there was a way I express what I am feeling emotionally in words that don't make me sound like a sappy old shoe:  They helped me to realize that you may have to, or choose to wear, or use diapers, but that does NOT mean that your LIFE STOPS, and that you should NOT be afraid to wear and use them, because you are the one that makes the decision, and You CAN have a GREAT time in Diapers:  No one is gonna think any less of you because of the choice you make, and if they do, then you just roll on - But most of the close family I spoke to understand that, and I am grateful - I am more comfortable with myself because Eve and Elle welcomed me, and helped me to process what I was thinking, what I was doing, why I felt like I did, and other members have helped me as well, but well, as @Glenniesaid, Eve and Elle are special, and they DO know each other, and they DO love one another, in a way that reminds me of my Grandparents marriages, or my own parents marriage.  They take care of each other, they pull no punches, they support each other, teach their nephew, and well, THAT is what it is about - Friends to the end, and when the chips are down, friends like them, and others are ones that I can count on.  This Pandemic has been wild, and I am glad to have the safety of Daily Diapers, and I am glad that they @Elfy, @DailyDi@Glennieand others, made the rules they did to keep all the conspiracy theorists, and other wackiness outta here:  News is DEPRESSING, and I need the solace and support of a place where I don't have to see my world crumbling under my feet.  Daily Diapers is /home, and that is THAT - I tell Eve and Elle:  They are "New York TOUGH", but I and "VERMONT STRONG!" 

Thank You for being who you are:  I Love you to the MOON and back!

@GlennieMy parents recently celebrated 37 Years of marriage on December 30th.  They were  married in 1983 - They personify the same thing as what my grandparents marriages did:  That they stay together, and that they truly LOVE each other.  My grandparents were together for 61 years (1948 - 2009) and my moms parents for a little more than that:  Throughout that marriage, they had their troubles, they dealt with family issues, but they were IN LOVE, and dealt with the challenges they faced. 

When I asked my Mom and Stepdad what the "secret" of their marriage was, I believe he said "we have none, we talk about EVERYTHING!" They make decisions the same way:  They have shown me what strong and steady guiding hands they can be, because sometimes its hard to admit, that it isn't easy out here, but I push for everything I got, and I am NOT a QUITTER - I don't stop - I grew tired of people telling me that I couldn't do something, because it made me want it more:  I even got asked NOT to go to college, and do another senior year of High School - I told them to pound GLASS SHARDS - It takes more than that to get me down - 2.998 GPA at Champlain College (Champlain College - Burlington VT) NO one is gonna take THAT from me, one of my crowning achievements:  second ONLY to the day I became an UNCLE for the first time - I had PULLED off the best achievement - the second Baker to attend and COMPLETE a 4 year business degree, and I had the people that meant the MOST to me:  My Mom, My Dad, My Stepdad, My Grammy Baker: The ones that guided me into the runway for the final landing in 1995 - with me: beginning to END, and it meant the WORLD to me:  Not only that, but I GOT a STANDING OVATION from the whole auditorium - NOTHING beats that!

Glennie:  I have the UTMOST respect for you as well:  After all the Hell  you have gone through, you have shown me that it does indeed take a special person to make things happen.  You said that things get in the way, and you deal with them, and each day, week, year you are married, you grow closer, you mature, you GET it - A marriage is a partnership, and its not just the words "I DO"  One you say those words, the idea is to "DID" it - and you continue to do this:  You and your wife have fun together, and do what it is you want to do, and you don't have to worry about what anyone thinks, believes, and says:  You just roll on.

I want to say that I am more comfortable with myself NOW than I was in August of 2019 - I am still tying to understand things on my journey, which has led me to accept myself for what I am, and I am not afraid to BE who I AM - An Incontinent DL - I could NOT have gotten to that conclusion without the help of many.  Always remember, you have ONE Life, so live it to the FULLEST!

Thanks Guys,

Brian

@Glennie @~Brian~ We all come from a long line of happy marriages and strong family values. I loved my father dearly and I still cry when I look at his picture. Although his loss was devastating to our family we struggled on. In my heart I know this would have been what my father wanted. My father and mother were married on December 12, 1960. I came five years later. My father passed just seven years shy of his 50th anniversary. Glennie you are so right when you say "we know what we want and we go for it" Yes marriage is about love and doing for each other and not giving up hope. So many failed marriages that shouldnt be. Only because people gave up loving and living. You are so right in saying that you talk about everything, because that is the way it should be. I wish you and your wife a speedy recovery and both of you will be in our prayers. Brian you have the odds stacked against you but you won't give up a fight. In my book that means you have heart and balls of brass. In spanish we call it cojones. Courage and fortitude run through your veins. I feel the same way. There is no such thing as giving up or quitting. That is the key that brings us closer. We love you guys and wish you all a long long prosperous life.

[Elbs]

On 1/12/2021 at 2:09 PM, Gentle Gemma said:

I'm happy to see so many Aces here!!

I'm definitely a sex repulsed asexual, but I still want a family with kids. I think it's going to take a very special woman to fall in love with me. lol.

I'm an ace who wants kids, too! I've actually been trying to conceive with sperm donation. I took a break because of money issues followed by the COVID shutdown, but I'm going to resume trying next cycle.

It's easier for a woman, but if you want to go the assisted reproduction route, that's an option. You'd need an egg donor and a gestational surrogate - can be the same woman or two different women.

[BabyJoseph]

I am an ACE. I have no interest in sex at all. I just want a loving caring mommy or diaper girlfriend  to share this lifestyle with

[babykuri]

I'm ace as well. I've had sexual relationships in the past but sex just isn't something that I enjoy. I know for sure I don't want kids for a lot of reasons. I like them but being a parent just isn't for me. 

[BabyJoseph]

17 hours ago, babykuri said:

I'm ace as well. I've had sexual relationships in the past but sex just isn't something that I enjoy. I know for sure I don't want kids for a lot of reasons. I like them but being a parent just isn't for me. 

I know the feeling. the last year I was married to my ex. sex did nothing for me. I like kids and I feel the same I dont think I can be a parent 

[canuckistan.who]

@babykuri - For a very long time, I wanted to be a parent. I helped with many younger people in my life, and I still hope to take other young people on my life on fun adventures. I've learned though that you don't have to be a parent to be a role model or to help young people. I think that's the balance I've found.

[Hannah YMS]

On 9/16/2019 at 7:17 PM, canuckistan.who said:

heh, so part of me felt bad about my husband leaving me, and I mostly felt relief. I liked my life with him, but the constant stress of knowing he wanted sex was ... oppressive. When he left me, a part of me was really relieved knowing I wouldn't have to feel guilty anymore. So to that extent, I hear you, I'd say I'm "meh-romantic"... I'd like to have someone in my life, but as a diaper-wearing, fiercely independent woman, I've more or less settles into the idea that I'm going to be single, probably for life. And that's OK, I've been learning to really enjoy life on my terms, ya know?

Thanks for replying, cute_kitten. It's really nice to not feel like the only person who feels a certain way.

I am demisexual. I spent much of my life not knowing why I wasn't interested in vanilla porn, naked men or women, etc. I was a virgin until I got married to my first wife. She thought sex for the first time would turn me straight and cure me of my diaper fetish. Like you, one of the biggest stressors in our relationship was she wanted sex and I didn't all that much. It was so bad that we even scheduled sex. I hated it and it also felt oppressive to me. We were married just under 5 years and the lack of sex was no small part of that. So, you're definitely not alone as I've had a similar experience to you.

I married my second wife about 10 years ago. She's ABDL and 100% asexual which for me is perfect. We've never had sex (two times orally tho) and we never talk about sex or think about it. My diapers and vibrator takes care of everything (I may not enjoy sex but I still need to get off once in a while).

[prideful]

Not entirely sure about me. I tell people I am ace. I have had sex and it was so lame. I do get turned on, mostly by gender play or age play. In the e.d however I can satisfy myself better than anyone else. Yet I crave a romantic relationship where sex isn't a priority. I do occasionally get a little horned up, but so rarely it wouldn't even matter. I do want to expirament a little. In the end the only relationships That I do well with is either VERY little sec or none at all. 

I just yearn for a life friend that just wants to cuddle as much as possible and possibly do some diaper stuff occasionally but I could take it or leave it as long as I got my cuddles. ❤️

[Clr224]

it’s only recently that I learned that there’s a name for what I am.  Ace (asexual) describes me perfectly.  Sexual intercourse has no appeal to me.  I’d have to say that I was relatively naive to sex while growing up.  When I discovered what a penis was for, I was thoroughly repulsed by the thought of what I was expected to use it for as an adult.  Close personal relationships are fine, but actual sex is a complete turnoff. I’ve always been rather confused by the actions of other males who seem to think with their balls rather than their brains.