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Do you think discovering your ABDL side has made you a happier person?


Mindylou

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  • 1 month later...

I've never put much though into being abdl has made me happy up to this point. I guess I dont really care either if it didnt even cross my mind.

My wallet would be happier. Spending 100s on printed thick plastic diapers bibs pacifiers and adult sized baby clothes makes for a sad wallet 

I probably wouldnt know how to draw since the first thing I wanted was to draw abdl stuff since I wasn't 100% satisfied with just looking at other artists content.

My music writing has slightly improved when I started making little techno lullabies.

Sometimes I can get addicted to abdl (like a porn addiction since it's mostly sexual for me) and I have to pull myself back and tell myself to do things more productive with my life (draw something nonabdl, play a game, watch youtube, ect. Since I dont have a BF and never had anyone I could ever call a mate the sexual urges just get in the way most of the time.

No I dont think I'm happier, but I am a more creative person and if I feel like a sexually repressed loner I can just relieve myself using my fetish.

BUT there was this one experience just a few days ago where after showering and shaving and cleaning my room up I got myself into my rearz diaper and baby clothes hugging my huge stuffy and got into bed and just felt a peace as I slept. Not sure if that's little space but I felt like I was high soo...

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Not simply the “discovery” of it so much as the acceptance of it. Since I learned to accept it about myself, rather than trying to get rid of it or just wallowing in my shame and embarrassment about it. I truly believe it’s only that which has allowed me to genuinely find enjoyment in it and work through it with my wife. She is accepting of it, but doesn’t participate.

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  • 2 weeks later...

Probably, yeah.

I've had multiple continence episodes throughout my life. I discovered my AB/DL side sometime between the second most recent one (ended approx. 2008) and this one (started approx. 2012).

When I went into diapers to deal with this one, I was under the impression that I was in control of it and that I was choosing to "untrain". With more medical advice, it looks like whatever effort I put in simply accelerated something that was already going to happen.

Certainly as someone who is now severely incontinent, I think I would be a lot less happy if I weren't AB/DL.

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  • 3 weeks later...
On 9/6/2019 at 1:13 AM, Mindylou said:

Since discovering my inner child in ABDL, I have felt happier and more complete than ever before. I love the escape that Little space gives me, the diapees,  the pacis, the diapees, the smell good powder, my baba, watching cartoons, oh did I mention the diapees?? ???

It is an intriguing post because for some - and probably a lot - they never 'discovered' their ABDL side, but were aware of it from their earliest memories. It is a reminder that the strength of the regressive drive and how it evolves in people can vary enormously. Some people 'discover' their ABDL side in their teens but when asked a lot of questions, we discover that there were a lot of signs well before then but never really made a big change.

When there is a strong ABDL drive then yes, expressive it and allowing it to 'breathe' does bring happiness, comfort and a sense of peace. My baby's EARLIEST memory as a 3yo was wanting to wear nappies. But for some, it doesnt evolve into a significant drive until the teens, even tho the idea of it has always been present.

 

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2 hours ago, rosalie.bent said:

When there is a strong ABDL drive then yes, expressive it and allowing it to 'breathe' does bring happiness, comfort and a sense of peace. My baby's EARLIEST memory as a 3yo was wanting to wear nappies. But for some, it doesnt evolve into a significant drive until the teens, even tho the idea of it has always been present.

My first outward act that could be indicative of my ABDL proclivities was in the 7th or 8th grade when I was walking home from a nighttime band marching practice and messed my underwear, intentionally.  I don't remember ever desiring to wear diapers during that time or even earlier but deliberately messing my underwear has got to be a sign of what was to come in adulthood.

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9 minutes ago, DL-Boy said:

My first outward act that could be indicative of my ABDL proclivities was in the 7th or 8th grade when I was walking home from a nighttime band marching practice and messed my underwear, intentionally.  I don't remember ever desiring to wear diapers during that time or even earlier but deliberately messing my underwear has got to be a sign of what was to come in adulthood.

it was probablly all there beforehand but took a few triggers and some time to come out.

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To hear my mother tell it (my wife outed me to her back in the 90s), I didn't have a real childhood because my parents divorced when I was five and I immediately felt the responsibility to take care of my two younger sisters and my soon to be born baby brother.  That's her reasoning on why I feel a sense of calm and stress relief when I wear and use diapers and babyish clothing and the like.

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i think so, honestly. i don't think it ever left me from when i was potty trained. it waned a good amount for many years, but it never really went away. for me, i felt happier after i discovered that i wasn't alone in my interests (thank you, internet!)

before i found out about this all, i think i was kinda down on myself for liking diapers. not in a real hard, self-loathing kinda way, but more of a "i don't know why i like diapers... is this right?" sort of way, more sort of confused and unsure, really. 

then i stumbled onto this whole thing one day in college while looking for adult diapers and it was like an entire new world was shown to me. i no longer felt alone, i felt some encouragement and reassurance that i wasn't so odd (in that aspect, anyway lol), that liking diapers was ok, and life is good. 

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1 hour ago, diaperguy85 said:

i think so, honestly. i don't think it ever left me from when i was potty trained. it waned a good amount for many years, but it never really went away. for me, i felt happier after i discovered that i wasn't alone in my interests (thank you, internet!)

before i found out about this all, i think i was kinda down on myself for liking diapers. not in a real hard, self-loathing kinda way, but more of a "i don't know why i like diapers... is this right?" sort of way, more sort of confused and unsure, really. 

then i stumbled onto this whole thing one day in college while looking for adult diapers and it was like an entire new world was shown to me. i no longer felt alone, i felt some encouragement and reassurance that i wasn't so odd (in that aspect, anyway lol), that liking diapers was ok, and life is good. 

Even now here are still people who think they are alone. 30 years ago, EVERYONE felt they were alone. And weird.

Its a new world, but ABDLs are still restricted to the shadows, but at least, no longer in the shadows alone.

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I do not know if "discoveringf" would help. What if my parents had wished that I was born a girl? I think I would be crushed

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22 hours ago, rosalie.bent said:

Even now here are still people who think they are alone. 30 years ago, EVERYONE felt they were alone. And weird.

Its a new world, but ABDLs are still restricted to the shadows, but at least, no longer in the shadows alone.

yes, we're still in the shadows, but the light is changing. ever so slightly, but it is B) 

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33 minutes ago, diaperguy85 said:

yes, we're still in the shadows, but the light is changing. ever so slightly, but it is B) 

The light hasnt so far helped very much. ABDLs that get outed still face discrimination abuse and ridicule. Some have lost obs and careers. It will be quite a while until it is even remotely fiar and decent.

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20 hours ago, rosalie.bent said:

The light hasnt so far helped very much. ABDLs that get outed still face discrimination abuse and ridicule. Some have lost obs and careers. It will be quite a while until it is even remotely fiar and decent.

it will take time, it will never be an overnight thing. progress has still been made, however. but as you said, it will still be quite a while until it's an accepted lifestyle/fetish

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17 hours ago, diaperguy85 said:

it will take time, it will never be an overnight thing. progress has still been made, however. but as you said, it will still be quite a while until it's an accepted lifestyle/fetish

Yes, it will happen eventually, but until it does, every ABDL needs to behave knowing that it is not accepted and comes with reputational risks.

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6 hours ago, rosalie.bent said:

Yes, it will happen eventually, but until it does, every ABDL needs to behave knowing that it is not accepted and comes with reputational risks.

I'm sure most people on here would fully agree with that statement :) 

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Coming to terms with it has definitely helped me. I struggled with part shame and confusion thinking "why do I feel this way?" After I decided to act on how I felt, I realized that there's no shame to be had. Accepting who you are at heart will definitely bring a level of happiness and self respect like no other feeling, whether it be adult baby or diaper lover.

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Hard to say. More I feel like what has really helped me is knowing that I’m not only one with interest for diapers. I could compare it to wearing glasses. Certainly at first I didn’t like it, but due to them helping me to see it grew as part of my identity in a way. Much in same way while initially recognizing I might have love/fetish for diapers felt abstract, I have learned to accept it, though I think it is still ongoing progress. 

What doesn’t kill, makes one stronger and as ABDL isn’t something that would cause harm to me or others, I’m fine with way I am. Would I choose not to have ABDl-side if I could? Maybe. Then again, there are so many things that could be better or worse and having this as inconvenience is far from the biggest ones. And as it is something that makes me happy it’s hard to say whether it is even inconvenience or just way of living. Certainly spending money on diapers is also little burden on wallet but then again I don’t use alcohol or smoke so there is that I guess.

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  • 2 weeks later...
On 9/7/2019 at 11:38 PM, dlsafrica said:

Discovering, with the onset on the Internet, that I wasn't the only one in the world, made me a happier person

...yep, have that same feeling. It's now amazing to see all the the people on the internet that have come out. Imagine all the thousands that could still be out there yet?

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  • 1 month later...

I would say discovering my baby side has made me much happier. I feel more complete, I feel like I can be myself. It wasn't always that way though, for the longest time I just wanted to be normal. Whenever my baby side would come up I would feel bad. I didn't want people to make fun of me or judge me, I wanted to fit in just like everyone else. I always wanted other people's love and respect. And I think that comes from the fact that I was bullied as a kid by my brother. He's a mean-spirited d*ck. He would bully me for liking comics, movies and pretty much anything. He's gotten better about it but still, it's a pain in the ass. Anyways, moving on, once I got older I realized "you know what? Who cares normals boring" it took too much energy out of me to care what people thought of me. And now I'm free, and I enjoy being an ABDL. I only wish that I had the power to turn myself into a actually 1 year old baby, nothing beats the real thing. The ability to be little, wear cute outfits, be picked up by the pants and wear onesies, I would LOVE THAT! I got into diapers when I was 14. At first it was just diapers but then it gradually turned into pacifiers, baby bottles, baby toys and other things. And I couldn't be happier! I like who I am.? I'm a baby at heart.♥️?

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It's made me ridiculously happy. :) I started exploring it  in late 2017 after finding out a friend I'd known for like 7 years was into padding, and it immediately felt like a missing part of me had been found. I've made so many great friends in the community, and had such awesome times. :D
 

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