cookiemonster23 Posted December 5, 2018 Share Posted December 5, 2018 So, my significant other knows I'm an adult baby. He's pretty accepting of it, but I'd like to ask him to maybe participate in it. We've done "daddy" roleplay a couple of times, but it didn't last, and I took on the role of a little girl rather than a baby. How do I go about asking him for this? Link to comment
Baby Girl Sarah Posted December 5, 2018 Share Posted December 5, 2018 Sadly based on how the last tries went i would say the chances of said person wanting to try this again is very small dear . So if i were you i would try to see if i could find another way to get this part of youre life satisfied my dear. If you try pushing youre significant other to hard on this & to participate in this further you risk loosing said person im afraid ? Link to comment
horrorfan Posted December 5, 2018 Share Posted December 5, 2018 It sounds like he does not want to participate, but as far as asking him for it, a direct approach would probably be better than beating around the bush. It may be that he just can't get into it and you'll both have to decide how to proceed with your relationship from there. Link to comment
cookiemonster23 Posted December 5, 2018 Author Share Posted December 5, 2018 11 hours ago, horrorfan said: It sounds like he does not want to participate, but as far as asking him for it, a direct approach would probably be better than beating around the bush. It may be that he just can't get into it and you'll both have to decide how to proceed with your relationship from there. Maybe I should’ve mentioned this earlier, but the reason it didn’t go well during the daddy roleplay was my doing. I got nervous both times and ended it. He said he’d be ok with doing it again but I was too scared to initiate it. Link to comment
Angela Bauer Posted December 5, 2018 Share Posted December 5, 2018 27 minutes ago, spider8itch69 said: Maybe I should’ve mentioned this earlier, but the reason it didn’t go well during the daddy roleplay was my doing. I got nervous both times and ended it. He said he’d be ok with doing it again but I was too scared to initiate it. I notice that you are 20, which can be a good thing. I'm not clear how old your potential 'Daddy' is? Sadly a whole lot of guys just have no interest in diapering or feeding a baby bottle. However, a lot of big baby girls your age have managed to bring around younger adult men by having them watch as you change your diaper, explaining you enjoy it more when a man does the changing. The same goes with baby bottles. Suckle a bottle while he watches as if you were performing oral sex with the bottle. If he has any imagination He will be eager to hold the bottle, perhaps hoping there is something else he wants to suckle. Link to comment
cookiemonster23 Posted December 5, 2018 Author Share Posted December 5, 2018 1 hour ago, Angela Bauer said: I notice that you are 20, which can be a good thing. I'm not clear how old your potential 'Daddy' is? Sadly a whole lot of guys just have no interest in diapering or feeding a baby bottle. However, a lot of big baby girls your age have managed to bring around younger adult men by having them watch as you change your diaper, explaining you enjoy it more when a man does the changing. The same goes with baby bottles. Suckle a bottle while he watches as if you were performing oral sex with the bottle. If he has any imagination He will be eager to hold the bottle, perhaps hoping there is something else he wants to suckle. I appreciate the advice, though I prefer not to sexualize it. For me, it’s more about returning to a simpler time in my life than sex. Link to comment
horrorfan Posted December 6, 2018 Share Posted December 6, 2018 Does he do anything that makes you uncomfortable (groan, roll his eyes, comment, give you overall impression he's kind of dragging his feet through the experience)? If you just feel awkward about the whole scenario perhaps you should ease into it, as if this is the case you're probably not accustomed to exposing this side of yourself to someone else. Talk to him about it for sure, but maybe you can mix in one of your little activities with a nonsexual activity you do with him (like wearing a diaper and watching TV). That's all I can come up with. Does anyone else that you personally know know about your little side? Link to comment
cookiemonster23 Posted December 6, 2018 Author Share Posted December 6, 2018 1 hour ago, horrorfan said: Does he do anything that makes you uncomfortable (groan, roll his eyes, comment, give you overall impression he's kind of dragging his feet through the experience)? If you just feel awkward about the whole scenario perhaps you should ease into it, as if this is the case you're probably not accustomed to exposing this side of yourself to someone else. Talk to him about it for sure, but maybe you can mix in one of your little activities with a nonsexual activity you do with him (like wearing a diaper and watching TV). That's all I can come up with. Does anyone else that you personally know know about your little side? He doesn't at all, and that's a good idea. We will see. Link to comment
Baby Girl Sarah Posted December 6, 2018 Share Posted December 6, 2018 13 hours ago, spider8itch69 said: Maybe I should’ve mentioned this earlier, but the reason it didn’t go well during the daddy roleplay was my doing. I got nervous both times and ended it. He said he’d be ok with doing it again but I was too scared to initiate it. A well in that case id say just ask him straight up dear when YOU feel its the right time. And BEFORE you try this again you both need to talk about what YOU want and how you feel and youre boundaries etc.... Same with his side Also the thing with adding in sexual gestures etc... Is not the right way to go as in AB /Little life for the majority is based on a NON sexual act of submission towards youre Mommy /Daddy /caregiver. Good luck dear and above al DONT try to stress this hon let it take the time it needs The fact that it was you that felt uncertain and had to stop should tell you it was to soon and you need to get al that straight in youre head as well before trying again . (i should ad that its perfectly natural for hesitation at the beginning ) and also you will feel it it from within youre self when the time is ready dear Link to comment
cookiemonster23 Posted December 10, 2018 Author Share Posted December 10, 2018 On 12/6/2018 at 4:57 AM, Baby Girl Sarah said: A well in that case id say just ask him straight up dear when YOU feel its the right time. And BEFORE you try this again you both need to talk about what YOU want and how you feel and youre boundaries etc.... Same with his side Also the thing with adding in sexual gestures etc... Is not the right way to go as in AB /Little life for the majority is based on a NON sexual act of submission towards youre Mommy /Daddy /caregiver. Good luck dear and above al DONT try to stress this hon let it take the time it needs The fact that it was you that felt uncertain and had to stop should tell you it was to soon and you need to get al that straight in youre head as well before trying again . (i should ad that its perfectly natural for hesitation at the beginning ) and also you will feel it it from within youre self when the time is ready dear Thank you! May I DM you? Link to comment
Wannatripbaby Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 Is it possible that it was specifically the role of "Daddy" that made you uncomfortable? I have several Littles myself. Some call me Daddy. Some call me Uncle. And one calls me Big Brother. I treat them all with the same love regardless of their name for me. Perhaps a simple title change would be enough to put you both a little more at ease? Link to comment
babytom2 Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 Did you join the fetish late in life?Maybe such a rapid shift will confuse him.Always surprises me that the younger generation hasn't scouted that ahead of time. Link to comment
Baby Girl Sarah Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 6 hours ago, spider8itch69 said: Thank you! May I DM you? Ýoure very welkome dear Go ahead dear Link to comment
cookiemonster23 Posted December 14, 2018 Author Share Posted December 14, 2018 On 12/10/2018 at 1:07 AM, babytom2 said: Did you join the fetish late in life?Maybe such a rapid shift will confuse him.Always surprises me that the younger generation hasn't scouted that ahead of time. What do you mean “late in life”? Link to comment
babytom2 Posted December 15, 2018 Share Posted December 15, 2018 8 hours ago, spider8itch69 said: What do you mean “late in life”? In your 20s or whatever.Usually that group gets attached to vanillas then kinda falls into the life after. Link to comment
cookiemonster23 Posted December 20, 2018 Author Share Posted December 20, 2018 On 12/15/2018 at 1:28 AM, babytom2 said: In your 20s or whatever.Usually that group gets attached to vanillas then kinda falls into the life after. Nah, I started it in my teens. I didn’t really participate in the community until recently, though. I created this account 2 years ago and was rarely on until about a month ago. Link to comment
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