DailyDi Posted September 15, 2018 Share Posted September 15, 2018 Do you have ABDL Regrets? With the negative news stories of ABDL behavior, it makes me wonder.... how many of us, especially in our younger days has done things as an ABDL that they regret. You can choose to share or not. Mine: While working at a pizza place I hid my spare diaper in the paper towel dispenser (I was asst. manager and had the key) a good friend ended up finding it and I blamed a co-worker. Word spread and he was mocked behind his back for quite a while.... though I don't think he ever knew about it. I also regret being involved with teen baby content when I was a teen myself and didn't yet realize it wasn't okay. Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted September 15, 2018 Share Posted September 15, 2018 I don't have any real regrets with this save for waiting so late to get back in diapers ? But I would have done a few things differently than I did and I wish now that I had. Like when I watered the lawn at night wearing only a diaper, then the neighbor switched her light on. I could have worn shorts over the diaper but I didn't. And my not going into the local stores who had begun advertising that they now had adult diapers. And my not trying premium diapers sooner. No big deal with any of that, but it is something I'd do differently today. Bettypooh Link to comment
Stroller Posted September 15, 2018 Share Posted September 15, 2018 I've never hurt anyone else intentionally with anything from my AB side. Unintentionally, of course, & I regret it at the time, but there's no way I'd dwell on it. Don't look back, don't worry about what might have been, is the way I live my life generally. Cue Edith Piaf... Link to comment
dyperbole Posted September 16, 2018 Share Posted September 16, 2018 Regrets? I've had a few, .....but then again, too few to mention. I did what I had to do. 1 Link to comment
willnotwill Posted September 16, 2018 Share Posted September 16, 2018 13 minutes ago, dyperbole said: Regrets? I've had a few, .....but then again, too few to mention. I did what I had to do. I've paid my duesTime after timeI've done my sentenceBut committed no crimeAnd bad mistakes I've made a fewI've had my share of sand kicked in my faceBut I've come through 2 1 Link to comment
Warmwetandcozy Posted September 16, 2018 Share Posted September 16, 2018 The only abdl thing I did and regret was let my girlfriend dump Vaseline in my diaper to simulate a messy it was darn well near impossible to get that stuff off other than that I have absolutely zero regrets Link to comment
grayfile Posted September 16, 2018 Share Posted September 16, 2018 Once in a while I regret that I have spent to much money on buying diapers, but other than that, no I have no regrets. Diapers are a part of my life and I have accepted that. Have I spent too much money on them that I could have done something else with yes, do I regret it? No. Link to comment
Wet Knight Posted September 16, 2018 Share Posted September 16, 2018 The time that I have wasted. 1 Link to comment
rusty pins Posted September 16, 2018 Share Posted September 16, 2018 When I was in my very early 20's I went Christmas shopping out of town at the mall. I was discreetly diapered under my jeans and while walking through the mall on the way to the bookstore, I pooped in my diaper. At the bookstore I selected a book to give as a Christmas gift and went to the check out counter. A woman probably in her 50's came up behind me with her book and then immediatly walked down to the end of the counter and waited for me to check out. I felt terrible. I very rarely poop in my diapers and I don't remember why I did it that time. I know the woman behind me had to have smelled me and I'm sure she was thinking I messed my pants. I was young back then and just didn't think about any smell or how it might affect someone else. That's one big reason I now say it's just not right to make others around you have to smell your messy diaper for your personal jollies. It's one thing if you are truly incontinent and it happens (those people usually change right away), but different if you purpously mess your diapers in public around people who can smell it just to get your own enjoyment. Link to comment
dressupDV Posted September 17, 2018 Share Posted September 17, 2018 only intermittent regrets, lol! I've gone through phases of tossing clothes and diapers only to realize they are part of who I am. I had to learn to accept this fetish - DD and the net have definitely helped, because I know I'm not alone. I've told one person - face to face - and that person is still my friend! Link to comment
AbabeBill Posted September 17, 2018 Share Posted September 17, 2018 Nothing much of interest out of me, I don’t really have any big regret stories. I do have some from regrets here and there. I guess my biggest, is the amount of money I have spent over the years, clothes, diapers, plastic pants, AB items. But, I don’t know what I would do different, if I had it over again. I’d still feel the same, and still want those things. Link to comment
Sailor Snow Posted September 17, 2018 Share Posted September 17, 2018 Dont have any regrets regarding abdl stuff. Link to comment
Dubious Posted September 20, 2018 Share Posted September 20, 2018 Most likely have some, but none that would impact others Link to comment
willnotwill Posted September 20, 2018 Share Posted September 20, 2018 One door closes, another opens. If I hadn't had some DL things I regretted I probably wouldn't have left my first job to move to be with someone else in NJ. That relationship didn't work out, but it led me to my current wife (who'd I'd have not met otherwise). Link to comment
foreverdl Posted September 21, 2018 Share Posted September 21, 2018 My regret has to do with my wife, I really shouldn't have waited soo many years to tell her, I was sable to do it secretly because she worked a hr or so later than me. So I had time by myself, to enjoy it. We were married I think 10-11 yrs it was rough, and still has its rough moments, but I respect her for working with me over the yrs and it sucks that she wants no part of it, but we Love each other and we cross each bridge as it comes, I am very thankful to her and God for her consistently forgiving me. I do now as I have gotten older have to wear because of leaks, so it is a little easier for her to somewhat accept it. 2 Link to comment
Dookey Posted September 22, 2018 Share Posted September 22, 2018 I don’t have any regrets, my current girlfriend is very accepting of my wearing. I don’t wear as much as I would like, but that’s okay for now. Link to comment
suzuki2011 Posted September 23, 2018 Share Posted September 23, 2018 my regret is how many diapers ive thrown in the trash because i wasnt accepting of this i dont know how many unused diapers ive thrown away. Link to comment
willnotwill Posted September 23, 2018 Share Posted September 23, 2018 1 hour ago, suzuki2011 said: my regret is how many diapers ive thrown in the trash because i wasnt accepting of this i dont know how many unused diapers ive thrown away. Yeah, I sort of regret a few of my early purge cycles. There were a few things I threw out that I wish I hadn't. Link to comment
GhostGirl Posted September 23, 2018 Share Posted September 23, 2018 No regrets related to my DL stuff... I mean I do regret how young I was when I first had sex, and I do regret using sex to hide my discomfort with my own sexuality... I also regret wrecking my car... the bus sucks... the heat sucks, walking, bus, pregnancy and incontinence plus heat REALLY sucks. Link to comment
stevewet Posted September 27, 2018 Share Posted September 27, 2018 None of my regrets relate to being dependant on nappies 24/7. Becoming incontinent was actually one of the better things in my life. It has made me a much more relaxed and contented person. (Pun intended) Link to comment
le Hollandais Posted September 27, 2018 Share Posted September 27, 2018 I ticked "Yes." I regret that I only found out about this whole DL thing a year ago. Sure could have used the encouragement and information. But at least it's all here now, thanks to the internet.? Link to comment
dlinmsp Posted September 30, 2018 Share Posted September 30, 2018 I have no regrets. I have been in diapers since my early teens and am now in my mid 60s. I wish I had gone 24/7 earlier but I'm happy with where I am. Link to comment
wearer24/7 Posted October 2, 2018 Share Posted October 2, 2018 The only thing I regret is not accepting my DL status when I was younger, I found it very difficult to accept myself. Now I'm older and diaper dependent (urinary incon) I just get on with life and thank the universe that I am a DL who's dream came true. Link to comment
rubbersheetmike Posted October 4, 2018 Share Posted October 4, 2018 On 9/16/2018 at 7:15 AM, Wet Knight said: The time that I have wasted. I totally agree and might add the time I wasted feeling guilty about being a DL. Link to comment
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