Generally, I wear a BetterDry to bed and that actually works well most night.  As a side sleeper and someone that tosses and turns a lot at night they work but can really fail if I have more than a small leak within a period of time.  I usually wear a pair of training pants/light cloth diaper and PUL pant over it and that helps with any problems.  My other go to is ABUs and those have a cloth sheet inside that I find wicks urine out the top readily and are horrible for my use at night.  They roc