Dubious Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 OK. Its not actually sleeping with my mother, but we gonna share a hotel room this weekend.. Hopefully there will be separate beds and I will use diapers, so I'll change in the bathroom and wear a boxer over it I will have car parked outside so I don't have to throw away diapers inside the hotel, but I might not even use the diaper on the trip, as just having it on helps a lot My sister is also going and she has 2 kids in diapers, so avoiding the pee smell is a must (They can smell it from far away..), in fact its a family weekend and since only I'm single... I drew the short straw and "have" to share room with my mother The trip is a birthday gift to my mother, and I had birthday earlier this month and got all expenses paid Link to comment
raekun Posted August 28, 2018 Share Posted August 28, 2018 i am going to reach out on a limb here and say that your *mother* is unaware of your AB/DL status? Link to comment
Dubious Posted August 28, 2018 Author Share Posted August 28, 2018 9 hours ago, raekun said: i am going to reach out on a limb here and say that your *mother* is unaware of your AB/DL status? AFAIK, Yes Link to comment
Stroller Posted August 29, 2018 Share Posted August 29, 2018 Good luck with that. I'd leave Teddy at home if I were you! Link to comment
drynot Posted August 29, 2018 Share Posted August 29, 2018 Might want to leave the diapers at home for this one.... 1 Link to comment
DailyDi Posted August 29, 2018 Share Posted August 29, 2018 Yeah, might have to go without the diapers. I've shared a room with my Mom many times back when we worked together and traveled to music events, and a diaper crinkle like an earthquake in a silent hotel room at night! 3 Link to comment
horrorfan Posted August 29, 2018 Share Posted August 29, 2018 You could also get a less audible brand if you just can't go without, although I am also of the opinion that this trip might be a good time to hold off. I personally tend to refrain from wearing when relatives/guests are visiting. 1 Link to comment
Dubious Posted August 29, 2018 Author Share Posted August 29, 2018 "Sadly" I can't sleep without the diaper and my diapers don't really crinkle that much when I have a boxer over it The boxer even hides it so even if I stand in middle of the room with just the boxer it gonna take a lot of looking to see that I'm wearing a diaper, when dry of course, and I'll try to not pee in it Link to comment
raekun Posted August 29, 2018 Share Posted August 29, 2018 1 hour ago, Dubious said: "Sadly" I can't sleep without the diaper and my diapers don't really crinkle that much when I have a boxer over it The boxer even hides it so even if I stand in middle of the room with just the boxer it gonna take a lot of looking to see that I'm wearing a diaper, when dry of course, and I'll try to not pee in it if you *need* them then you need them. If you ask me, I think its time you and your mom have a sit down. What's the worst that could happen. I had to tell mine a couple years ago, and it went better then I thought it would Link to comment
horrorfan Posted August 29, 2018 Share Posted August 29, 2018 Before you have that conversation, make sure it's something that won't make her uncomfortable, seeing as the two of you will be sharing a room. Personally, I don't think that this would be an ideal time to come out, as there are many ways your message could be interpreted and this trip is not supposed to be about you. If it's really going to be that big a deal though, you could just make other sleeping arrangements, but I would highly recommend just going a few days without wearing a diaper, if at all possible. Link to comment
EasyGoinGuy1224 Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 3 hours ago, raekun said: if you *need* them then you need them. If you ask me, I think its time you and your mom have a sit down. What's the worst that could happen. I had to tell mine a couple years ago, and it went better then I thought it would I agree with raekun, you need to have sit down with your mom, you could tell her it is for medical purposes it is a recent development and your still shy about it and tryign to figure it out - IDK just an idea 1 Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 If you wear for strictly emotional/psychological reasons, or you leak slightly, then wearing a Depends pull-up would be something that could be hidden. As much as I love crinkly plastic I wear something similar here at home for reasons of economy. But if you wet in your sleep, then you will need far more protection, and even cloth like diapers may not be easy to hide. I advocate honesty, but sometimes a harmless lie works better in not causing someone else needless grief or worry. So you could tell her that you had a UTI or bladder infection or an intestinal bug which is almost through with successful treatment but it caused you to leak and you will need diapers for a few more days. Put some aspirin or Tylenol in a medicine bottle and take one on a regular schedule to make it look more legitimate. Bettypooh Link to comment
rusty pins Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 14 hours ago, Dubious said: "Sadly" I can't sleep without the diaper Is the reason you can't sleep without them is because you would wet the bed, or is it because you are used to the bulk between your legs and the feeling of a diaper when you sleep? If the latter, I agree with Bettypooh. Maybe it would be a compromise to wear disposable underwear that pull on and off. They are much more discreet and still give you some of that diaper like feeling between your legs. Depending on what disposable underwear you buy, you could even pass it off as regular underwear (Depends briefs like Bettypooh said) or if caught just say now and then you drip a little and in a hotel you don't want to take any chances with the bedding. Link to comment
Dubious Posted August 30, 2018 Author Share Posted August 30, 2018 I get the urge to pee when not wearing and I usually fall asleep slow, so by the time I'm ready to sleep, I have to pee I had this long before I started wearing all the time and when I started wearing a diaper every night I slept so much better Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 Would a pull-up be adequate in absorbency? Do you always wake up when you need to pee? If so, can you be OK with getting up and using the toilet? There has to be some kind of viable solution to your unusual dilemma. Bettypooh Link to comment
horrorfan Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 Either way you go about resolving your dilemma, I would recommend avoiding beverages of any kind (including water) four hours before you go to bed. Link to comment
horrorfan Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 Also, focusing only on your breathing can help you fall asleep faster. It really helps if there's a source of background noise like a clock to synchronize your breathing with, but the trick I learned was to cycle through tensing various muscle groups while inhaling and exhaling (the number of breathes is up to you, but I was taught to do ten). If you finish all your muscle groups, start over. Every time I use this trick I never make it through two cycles. However you choose to handle your trip, good luck and enjoy yourself. Link to comment
Dubious Posted September 1, 2018 Author Share Posted September 1, 2018 I can't not drink water before bedtime as I also have another problem, acid reflux +more Seems like I got all the problems in the family Link to comment
Brudda Voodu Posted September 1, 2018 Share Posted September 1, 2018 You will be fine. Wear a slim diaper with a cloth-like outter cover. Like a Tena overnight or something. Wear boxers over it and only diaper up right at bed time. Turn the shower on to hide the sound of diapering if you are really nervous. Bag your morning diaper in a plastic grocery bag and either store it in your backpack/bag untill safe disposal or stuff it in the bottom of the bathroom garbage with some tissue over the bag. Or don't wear the diaper Or tell your mom you have some bed wetting issues and leave it at that. Or Tell your Mom you have a kinky compulsion to wear diapers 24/7 and you must obey or suffer emotionally. Either way dude good luck and don't worry so much. Its just a diaper, not like you gotta hide your heroin needles or something. Link to comment
Dubious Posted September 2, 2018 Author Share Posted September 2, 2018 For my trip to the hotel (4 hour drive), I used a diaper for its intended purpose, then I took it off and went without the rest of the day/evening, where the first hour was "bad" as I had urge to pee almost all the time, but it got better over time. In the evening I put on a diaper and wore it during the night and most of the next day, but peed in the toilet, never got the urge to pee and didn't use the diaper until I got home.. So it went just as I had planned and hoped for it to go 1 Link to comment
ppdude Posted September 2, 2018 Share Posted September 2, 2018 Why the boxers? My mother heard my noisy diaper and insisted I wear vinyl pants to help cut down the noise (which they did nicely) and to wear them at night to minimize wetting the bed! So, no matter what kind of diaper I wear, they're covered with vinyl. Never slept in the same room though. Got my own room. Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted September 3, 2018 Share Posted September 3, 2018 Glad to hear that it went smoothly Bettypooh Link to comment
Dubious Posted September 4, 2018 Author Share Posted September 4, 2018 On 9/2/2018 at 10:11 PM, ppdude said: Why the boxers? My mother heard my noisy diaper and insisted I wear vinyl pants to help cut down the noise (which they did nicely) and to wear them at night to minimize wetting the bed! So, no matter what kind of diaper I wear, they're covered with vinyl. Never slept in the same room though. Got my own room. To hide the diaper of course.. My diapers are not noisy Link to comment
Pete671 Posted September 4, 2018 Share Posted September 4, 2018 I would suggest using Tena Silhouettes under boxers, they don't hold a lot, but not noticeable under boxers, and they are silent,,, also, you could check with the hotel that you have a twin room, not a double, Link to comment
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