Loren Posted August 12, 2018 Share Posted August 12, 2018 Hello. I’ve only just discovered this site today. It looks really cool, and I love seeing how thoughtful, articulate, and polite the posts all seem to be. A little about why I do look forward to spending some time here: I’m extremely curious ablout the whole diapers lifestyle thing. I often fantasise about going about my day wetting a nappy and even have diapered myself with towels and similar to do exactly that. And love looking at DL porn. Not a AB person, honestly. I’m not much of an age play fan (no problem with it, just not generally my cuppa). So … What lead me to the site was trying to find the real life version (and term, I suppose) for something I found browsing the Nifty archives. I pray maybe some of you kind people could help me find this rabbit hole to see if it leads to insanity or fun. In this story (I won’t link, its writings is criminally awful) the characters take a habit of not holding their pee, and just wetting themselves instead at all times, dressed or naked, in bed, on the couch, at the dinner table … even in public. What was different was that it WASN’T simply bed & pants wetting which I’m fully familiar with. They also never diaper. They just swear off peeing in the toilet, getting off to the feel of letting go – a voluntary kind of incontinence. Sorry to be long winded but I wanted to be clear what part was so fascinating. It turned me on and intrigued me so profoundly I wanted to find more because (for obvious, practical reasons) while I could never take it to the extreme that the realm of fantasy allows and simply release whenever and wherever the mood strikes, it could be a fun twist on my existing (and more irl livable) wet diaper fantasies & play. thank you so much. ps: about me, I am absurdly shy and often lurk forums more than posting because the posting often includes horrible social anxieties and mild panicking. So hello, but I’m a very quiet one. Pps: lesbian if anyone takes in their head to serious flirt (just a note because fending away the horny boys and men is tiresome … playful, friendly flirting is a whole other matter … I used to flirt with my male best friends just for the look on their faces). And far as I’m concerned if you’re a woman, you’re a woman … I don’t care a whit how the gods arranged your plumbing. Flips side is a dude’s a dude even if he’s got stereotypical lady-plumbing. 2 Link to comment
Diaperedrider Posted August 12, 2018 Share Posted August 12, 2018 Hi Loren! That story sounds really cool and a situation that would be right up my alley. I prefer to just pee whenever and hardly ever use a toilet in the warm months when at home and if I lived in a secluded area you could bet that I would just walk around naked outside and just pee whenever. That is really very cool!!! Link to comment
Loren Posted August 12, 2018 Author Share Posted August 12, 2018 Hello Mr CT Man ? Yeah. It was pretty awesome; the only redeeming value that erotica had. I mean just that idea that they wet themselves regardless of when or where. At the mall, in the car … unashamedly going about their lives in wet pants. ? But of course that’s the fantasy. Which takes very little to enjoy in a daydream. But that has got me just dying to learn about the reality version. Because I’m familiar enough with it as a kink/fetish but … as a lifestyle?! ? 1 Link to comment
AbabeBill Posted August 12, 2018 Share Posted August 12, 2018 Hi and welcome Loren. Please do come in, and make yourself at home. There’s plenty of respect and understanding here, for whatever your likes are. And, feel free to roam, and take away what you want, from the site in general. I don’t know, at the moment, how I might help you on your journey down the “rabbit hole”, but I’m always willing to lend my help, wherever I can. I support your journey, though. I do say, it should be lots of fun! That’s always my closing line here, “have fun, and enjoy! Any other questions, just ask. Link to comment
Loren Posted August 12, 2018 Author Share Posted August 12, 2018 Thanks. I look forward to making some new friends. Assuming my silly shy arse can keep a conversation going long enough ? Link to comment
AbabeBill Posted August 12, 2018 Share Posted August 12, 2018 No worries, we’re all a bit shy to one degree, or another. Why else, would we always cover are arses so much? 1 Link to comment
Wannatripbaby Posted August 12, 2018 Share Posted August 12, 2018 4 minutes ago, AbabeBill said: Why else, would we always cover are arses so much? Because Indecent Exposure is a crime. ? Link to comment
Loren Posted August 12, 2018 Author Share Posted August 12, 2018 N 14 minutes ago, Wannatripbaby said: Because Indecent Exposure is a crime. ? Not in a naturist community. And, surprisingly public nudity isn't a criminal offence in as many places as people reckon, it's "lewd and lascivious behaviour" which simply being nude isn't though western culture has so conflated nudity with lasciviousness that it's automatically assumed that someone who is nude is nude for sexual reasons. I encounter this in some of the criticisms of my novels because while the characters aren't naturists, per se, they aren't body shy with one another either so -- for example -- communally bathe despite being modern American teenagers (for reasons I suspect are obvious I am not publicly going to reference which author(s) and title(s) I am, but anyone who cares may DM me and ask very politely and swear they won't connect the two publicly in any way I will direct the genuinely interested. I merely refernce my writing because it so phenomenally illustrates my point) Oh … hey, that's sort of a thing about me. Despite being exceedingly shy around strangers and being too insanely body shy to, I think, go to any nudism resort, I am rather a nudist and spend much of my private life unclothed. That's a Thing About Me, and this is my introductory thread ... I should probably also mention I'm absent-minded, quirky, eccentric, and most people think I'm quite weird (just sometimes people find that endearing about me ... others don't like to talk to me) Link to comment
AbabeBill Posted August 12, 2018 Share Posted August 12, 2018 “The best dress for walking is nakedness.” Colin Fletcher. 1 Link to comment
lily~nyan Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 Hi!! Fellow wlw diaper lover/wetting kinkster here who's tired of her space being invaded by gross boys too. ^^ Sadly you're going to encounter that pretty much anywhere you go in online abdl space. 1 Link to comment
Logan T Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 Hi I'm sure you'll find it a lot of fun on here asking questions is the best way to find things out everyone is really nice and you love it here 1 Link to comment
Diaperedrider Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 On 8/26/2018 at 2:03 PM, lily~nyan said: Hi!! Fellow wlw diaper lover/wetting kinkster here who's tired of her space being invaded by gross boys too. ^^ Sadly you're going to encounter that pretty much anywhere you go in online abdl space. If anything pisses off the most it is this fact because it totally hinders the chance of a decent straight male who just happens to have this kink from birth to meet a quality likeminded woman with the same kink. I know in my heart that if that ever happened it would be an amazing relationship. Christ, it is hard enough to locate one, then you have to hope you have mutual attraction, then you have to hope you have other things in common outside of the kink. Throw in the fact that women are scared off from pursuing finding a guy to share their kink by such people and your chances diminish drastically. I do like to think that for the most part I am very respectful and somewhat “normal” and hope that I am never perceived as one of these “gross boys” that you speak of. To those “gross boys”......thanks dudes!! 2 Link to comment
Babyqtboy Posted September 5, 2018 Share Posted September 5, 2018 On 8/30/2018 at 7:58 AM, Diaperedrider said: If anything pisses off the most it is this fact because it totally hinders the chance of a decent straight male who just happens to have this kink from birth to meet a quality likeminded woman with the same kink. I know in my heart that if that ever happened it would be an amazing relationship. Christ, it is hard enough to locate one, then you have to hope you have mutual attraction, then you have to hope you have other things in common outside of the kink. Throw in the fact that women are scared off from pursuing finding a guy to share their kink by such people and your chances diminish drastically. I do like to think that for the most part I am very respectful and somewhat “normal” and hope that I am never perceived as one of these “gross boys” that you speak of. To those “gross boys”......thanks dudes!! I concur with this whole statement. I am an educated, intelligent, easygoing gentleman who lives a whole respectable life outside the bedroom and I have wide range of interests, Diapers are a minuscule part of my life in the grand scheme of things. I have been looking for a like minded woman for years but all I seem to attract are mommies or nannies for hire Link to comment
Diaperedrider Posted September 5, 2018 Share Posted September 5, 2018 47 minutes ago, Babyqtboy said: I concur with this whole statement. I am an educated, intelligent, easygoing gentleman who lives a whole respectable life outside the bedroom and I have wide range of interests, Diapers are a minuscule part of my life in the grand scheme of things. I have been looking for a like minded woman for years but all I seem to attract are mommies or nannies for hire Yes I have similar results as well as scammers. Let me just add a bit more of what it’s like on our end. We are at a catch 22. I’m sure when a woman posts she gets totally bombarded with messages like flies on shit so when we send out a simple “hello” message we are pretty much always going to be looked at negatively right off the bat. Even if we try our best to cut through there are others that talk a good game but end up full of shit. They are only after one thing. Look, I’m a guy and yeah we all mostly focus on the sexual aspect at first but there are some of us that really do want a deep connection with someone just like a woman does. I’d love to be part of a closed group of great guys where there is an initial vetting process of some sort that would be a guaranteed safe place for an AB/dl or incontinent woman that was serious about finding a likeminded guy. Link to comment
lily~nyan Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 If y'all really want to land a dream diaper girlfriend... a good start might be not commenting on a post made by a lesbian in solidarity with another lesbian about how hard it is for you as a straight man to get a date. ? 1 Link to comment
Billyboy Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 THAT made me laugh! True, but too funny! Giggle. Billyboy ☺ Link to comment
Diaperedrider Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 Oh I apologize I’ve been responding on my little iPhone and forgot that that’s where this thread even started. Tough crowd. I’m here all week LOL! Link to comment
Billyboy Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 Diaperedrider, where do I get tickets for your next show?? Giggles. You folks are the best!! An you gals who likes gals, come on...give 'em lost lonely "typical males" a break! They just don't know any better!! As a guy who grew up with a gay sister and a lesbian brother (or sumpin), I learned WAY more than some "in the business" might know! It's hard to be different...whether gay, lesbian, incon, likes smokin pot while riding a goat naked down mainstreet everyday at 3:30am with candles on front and back playing LedZepplin!! Different is different and we all struggle. Advice is a great thing, understanding compassion is triumph (not the motorcycle though). Hugs Miss Loren (HOLEY MOLEY YOU WRITE WORDS GOODER-N-SHE-IT!!WOW!!), and hugs Miss lily~nyan, from a not "gross boy", just a friendly person who is male by birth! (didn't choose). Solidarity is great. Isn't that what we are in here for? Just sayin ???? Link to comment
Diaperedrider Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 3 hours ago, Billyboy said: It's hard to be different...whether gay, lesbian, incon, likes smokin pot while riding a goat naked down mainstreet everyday at 3:30am with candles on front and back playing LedZepplin!! Dude, do you live in my town? I was just out on the goat last night and it was so fucking hard trying to keep those candles lit! Link to comment
Billyboy Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 Ya halfta put lantern globes on 'em! ? BTW, please, next time ya use the goat, couldya please notfeed him chili? Thanx ? Link to comment
Diaperedrider Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 1 hour ago, Billyboy said: Ya halfta put lantern globes on 'em! ? BTW, please, next time ya use the goat, couldya please notfeed him chili? Thanx ? Sorry man it's recommended fuel on a 2016 MMG. (Mexican Mountain Goat) I prefer to buy american but things are a bit tight since the divorce. Link to comment
Billyboy Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 And we've worn out our welcome on this thread. For further depravities, we should politely move our conversation to another area? Been fun though! Thanx fer thuh chat Diaperedrider! ? Link to comment
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