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Coming out as AB/DL stories


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The other day I got to thinking about when I came out as AB/DL and wondered how other peoples stories may compare. 

I came out as AB/DL to my wife 4 years ago, a year before we got married. We had just moved in together and I decided I needed to talk to her before we tied the knot. I took her on a drive and started talking about it. She took things well and was pretty cool about it all but was not interested in being involved. We have talked about it from time to time over the yeara but it was always something that was kept secret-ish out of respect fot her. Over the last 6 months she has been showing interest and getting more involved, a real dream come true for me. We havn't gotten to anything diaper related but I am happy to see things are going in that direction.

What is your story? Who did you come out to? Did things go well? How have things changed since then?

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After 1 marriage & 1 long-term live-in relationship I decided I wouldn't get into another serious relationship without my partner knowing I was an AB.  I came out to a girlfriend about 30 years ago, & that was pretty disastrous, although I'm not aware she told anyone else, so it could have been worse. Then 25 years ago I met my current wife.  As soon as it looked like getting serious I told her about it.  She took it OK, but kept it at arm's length.  I had my baby things in a bag in the bedroom, & she knew about that, but I didn't wear when she was around, just when she went away.  When we got together we both wanted kids, & I knew I had to show I was responsible enough not to let my AB side affect our ability to raise a family properly.  So things stayed like that for 20 years.

Now we have 2 girls, & the younger is about to follow her sister & go off to college.  I've been spending the past year getting ready for more of an AB life, which I've had to keep on hold for so long.  My wife's being very understanding & tolerant, but is not yet involved in the nappy side of things.  I'm in nappies whenever she's not around (I'm retired, she works), and she knows and accepts that.  We sleep together, & I have my teddy and dummy in bed, & I get breastfed nightly.  Whether she'll accept me in nappies when she's around come September when there'll just be the two of us in the house I don't know, & I don't think she does either.  She's not ready to talk about that yet, but I think she's hoping she'll be OK with it.  I doubt it'll ever get to her changing my nappies, but you never know.  And I doubt she'll be that happy about sharing a bed with me in a nappy, but again I could be wrong there too.

So, I feel very lucky, & I'm treading carefully, to keep my wife as comfortable with it as I can.  Things are changing for us, and it's a big exciting journey for me.  I'd love to be wearing all the time, but I've got two people to think about, so it may not ever happen.

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  • 3 weeks later...

Well it all started when I went to my grandmas house when I was 11 so my cousin was maybe 2 and had diapers all around the room so I snuck a few and tried them on (I had a REALLY small waist so they fit) and they felt so amazing so that was my life goal for a while I started looking up online if there were others like me and sure I found this place all though I live with my parents I keep this undercover :) I buy ring pops to satisfy myself until I can get enough money to move out so yeah also a whole back I started to find different websites where people can let their true age come out :)

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I came out to my best friend since the year i moved to America during my sophomore year of high school a few months after we started dating. She would always lovingly/jokingly refer to me as a big little kid because i was always super excitable, always slept with a stuffy from my ever expanding collection,  always sucked my thumb when i had the chance, and myriads of other things she would cite. I was always super embarrassed by this because of how spot on she actually was; she never tried to discourage me though, sure a playful joke here and there but nothing mean, in fact she made it a staple to get me a stuffed animal for my birthday every year. My confession happened when she was spending the night at my place over the weekend just hanging out and it was late like brain stops functioning late and our conversation somehow came to porn we liked. (you know, normal girl stuff) It started pretty tame as far as porn goes anyway (no way in hell was i gonna just come out and say diaper girls) but then porn became a segway into fetishes. Now i, ladies and gentlemen am a horrible liar; i ramble and stutter a lot when i try to lie especially when put on the spot and my girlfriend having known me for so long knew this too. She had to pry it out of me but i eventually gave in and told her everything about ABDL, CGL, and how i fit into it. when i told her how everything works she was gobsmacked but not for the reason you might expect but because she confessed she had similar feelings but on the other side of the spectrum; she figured herself a dom in the traditional sense however she turned out to be very much intrigued by the things i described. We did a lot of experimenting and boundary finding through our 5 years together and today she's my mommy and i her little princess.

It almost seems like a story book doesn't it? (epic announcer voice) Two lovers bound by destiny to share the same fetish :roflmao: We figured we became such good friends and fell in love because of our natural inclinations that contrasted yet complemented each other so perfectly. Her being the mature outgoing one always looking out for me, and me being the immature shy girl that needed to always be looked out for. What are the chances?

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I came out to my boyfriend several months ago. He’s the first person I’ve dated who I’ve told. I remember being ultra nervous and refusing to look when he replied at first, but it went fine. He said he had to Google it but he was ok with it. It was such a relief.

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I came out to my now husband as soon as we moved in together. He was okay, but didn’t really want anything to do with it. Fast forward a decade and we evolved into a more power exchange relationship with him as the Dom and me the sub. That continued to keep going with him getting more and more power and control (freely given of course). Part of this was him saying I was to be diapered 24/7 (wet only) unless he says otherwise. That lasted about a year...he discovered he liked changing (indulged me once) and then found out he likes the idea of a paci and bottle and snap crotch pants, and me in a onesie for bed. I’ve never thought of myself as a little or AB before. I could see that treatment as a form of submission and/or humiliation. Now I’m being guided in that direction. I don’t know what it will entail, but the journey is the fun part. 

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I came out to my girlfriend a few years ago when I was 19 just after we first started living together I told her around 6 pm we talked for about 30 minutes then went on with our normal night time routine I went to bed while I was asleep she went through my stuff and found a box with some bambino bellissimos,a pacifier,a onesie and a bottle I got up went to the chair where she always laid out my clothes for the next day but there was a diaper and my onesie on the chair so I went looking for her she was in the shower she told me to go ahead and get dressed so I went and put on my normal clothes when she got out of the shower she saw I was wearing my normal clothes grabbed my hand and walked me to the bedroom where she told me take off my clothes and lay down on the bed then she diaperd me up put my onesie on me and we ate breakfast and watched the news when the news was over she told me to lay down next to her on the couch where she bottle fed me like a little baby it felt so great it was so relaxing so soothing it was like all my problems were gone and I was truly happy from that day on we've been together ever since she still treats me like a little baby almost every night all I have to do is wash the dishes and rub her back and feet she says taking care of me makes her fill empowered we occasionally take turns being the care taker I enjoy taking care of her when she wants to be taken care of and she likes taking care of me when I need it we both get the best of both worlds and we are both happy 

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