BBoy Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 I don't want to act like a baby. I never poo in diapers. I rarely like peeing in diapers. I just enjoy a nice dry comfy diaper. I feel like I am in a very small minority of diaper lovers. Am I being overly sensitive? Link to comment
FunTime Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 There's every type out there, don't worry there's many more such as yourself. It's just the messy ones are the most vocal Link to comment
Wannatripbaby Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 If you break anything down far enough you'll find we all fall into a very small minority. The important thing is that you love diapers. How you love them isn't necessarily all that important. Link to comment
Glennie Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 no I would go with you in the minority here..lol Link to comment
AbabeBill Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 I’d advise some of the same. Relax, give yourself a break. You don’t have to fit into some sort of a mold, and there really isn’t any anyway. Enjoy what you enjoy, and how you like! And lastly, if anybody tells you, it’s wrong, what your doing, get away from them. 1 Link to comment
Permanently Pampered Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 2 hours ago, BBoy said: I don't want to act like a baby. I never poo in diapers. I rarely like peeing in diapers. I just enjoy a nice dry comfy diaper. I feel like I am in a very small minority of diaper lovers. Am I being overly sensitive? Actually I'd say you are not in that small a minority. There are a huge number of diaper lovers out there that are non-ABs. For those there is far less enjoyment in wetting or messing themselves Don't forget ABs are about being a baby and the incontinence that goes with it. Diaper Lovers are more interested in the wearing and far less in the helpless wetting/messing themselves. Link to comment
DiaperedAllTheTime Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 8 hours ago, BBoy said: I don't want to act like a baby. I never poo in diapers. I rarely like peeing in diapers. I just enjoy a nice dry comfy diaper. I feel like I am in a very small minority of diaper lovers. Am I being overly sensitive? Not at all. The only thing we all have in common is we desire to wear diapers. After that, we all seem to be different in what those desires actually entail. Of course this is what makes us human. If we were all the same we would be very boring. 5 hours ago, Permanently Pampered said: Actually I'd say you are not in that small a minority. There are a huge number of diaper lovers out there that are non-ABs. For those there is far less enjoyment in wetting or messing themselves Don't forget ABs are about being a baby and the incontinence that goes with it. Diaper Lovers are more interested in the wearing and far less in the helpless wetting/messing themselves. An adult baby is defined as a person that likes to regress back to an infantile state. They want to "act" as a baby in varying forms. Sexually feelings do not have to be present in anyway and neither does using your diaper. Maybe an Adult Baby only wants to suck on a pacifier or play with blocks. Using diapers does happen a lot with adult babies but many adult babies have no desire to be incontinent. A diaper lover is defined as someone who is sexually turned on by diapers. I would argue that majority of the diaper lovers use their diapers in large part because of the physical feeling a used diaper brings when they are masturbating or sexually enjoying diapers with a partner. Both sexes that are diaper lovers usually hump their diapers in some fashion to receive sexual pleasure when masturbating and a wet diaper I find way more stimulating than a dry one. For me wearing diapers permanently is more for me to curb my sexual desires for them than to feel like a baby. I feel my desire to be unpotty trained is sexual as well because I desire the humiliation of it. Like I said we are all different. A lot of us like myself are a hybrid of both. Only you know what diapers mean to you and there are no wrong or right feelings or answers . Link to comment
BabyAriel16 Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 We like what we like, so long as you don't judge anyone else it's all good! Link to comment
Somelildude Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 14 hours ago, Wannatripbaby said: If you break anything down far enough you'll find we all fall into a very small minority. The important thing is that you love diapers. How you love them isn't necessarily all that important. This! Link to comment
Permanently Pampered Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 57 minutes ago, Somelildude said: 15 hours ago, Wannatripbaby said: If you break anything down far enough you'll find we all fall into a very small minority. The important thing is that you love diapers. How you love them isn't necessarily all that important. This! I disagree. Its a weak argument that really doesn't make sense when we are discussing the community at large. He is asking that within the diaper lover community (not ABs) they really all want to mess and wet themselves. 7 hours ago, MarkSmith said: A diaper lover is defined as someone who is sexually turned on by diapers. I would argue that majority of the diaper lovers use their diapers in large part because of the physical feeling a used diaper brings when they are masturbating or sexually enjoying diapers with a partner. Both sexes that are diaper lovers usually hump their diapers in some fashion to receive sexual pleasure when masturbating and a wet diaper I find way more stimulating than a dry one. This argument does make sense although I'm not completely in agreement however I will admit that masturbation is a wet diaper is nice but I do prefer a dry one for that. Link to comment
Wannatripbaby Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 5 minutes ago, KinsyInRibbons said: Fuck labels. Seriously. If you enjoy wearing and peeing, then that is cool. Don't worry about not being extreme enough for some people. You will NEVER please everyone, and the more you try, the more screwed up you will become. Seriously, do what you want to do, and don't let people tell you you are doing it wrong. (I do advise having a close group of friends who can at least question and comment on what you are doing, helps keep you grounded in reality when dealing with Fetish stuff.) Exactly! That's what I was trying to say. Kinsy once again swoops in and drops a wisdom bomb into the discussion. Link to comment
Permanently Pampered Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 8 minutes ago, KinsyInRibbons said: Fuck labels. Seriously. If you enjoy wearing and peeing, then that is cool. Don't worry about not being extreme enough for some people. You will NEVER please everyone, and the more you try, the more screwed up you will become. Seriously, do what you want to do, and don't let people tell you you are doing it wrong. (I do advise having a close group of friends who can at least question and comment on what you are doing, helps keep you grounded in reality when dealing with Fetish stuff.) I do mess mine, but that is because I enjoy sitting on a toilet less. I don't really like doing either :-p Other than the term Diaper Lover (which you like to use) what label was used here? You are missing the point of the discussion. Also what is suggested by others in the statement "and don't let people tell you you are doing it wrong" What are people saying is wrong? Link to comment
mamabug Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 I don't think there is really a right/wrong to use diapers and even if you were a 'minority' why would that matter? I consider myself to be a rare breed around here. I have yet to find another person who is like me, but like, why does it matter? Does it make my experience and enjoyment out of it any less real? Am I considered less than a mommy just because I never had a little before and the fact I don't wear diapers? NO. So why does it matter if you don't actually like using your diapers? Simple - it doesn't matter. lol Link to comment
rosalie.bent Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 I think the OP is correct in that among the ABDL community, those that wear only and dont wet are a small minority. The majority and probably the VAST majority, wear diapers and wet into them. For many, a diaper isnt being worn properly until it is at leas a bit wet. Link to comment
WetDad Posted February 12, 2018 Share Posted February 12, 2018 IMO, the only wrong way to wear a diaper is when it leaks. Relax and be yourself. Link to comment
dressupDV Posted February 12, 2018 Share Posted February 12, 2018 everything from sexuality, preference and fetish is on a spectrum. Labels are confining. So, enjoy however you wish! Link to comment
Permanently Pampered Posted February 13, 2018 Share Posted February 13, 2018 3 hours ago, dressupDV said: everything from sexuality, preference and fetish is on a spectrum. Labels are confining. So, enjoy however you wish! Well put. Thanks Link to comment
Dartplayerinwvc Posted February 13, 2018 Share Posted February 13, 2018 I know 2 people locally that just use them to get off and take them off. Never wear them but have them in between their legs. Do what you want and what makes you happy Link to comment
dlnoir Posted February 13, 2018 Share Posted February 13, 2018 I guess no two people are exactly alike, best thing to do is the enjoy jour diaper just the way see fit and feel comfortable with. And indeed if you break it down completely we are all a minority. Link to comment
DemocraticDL Posted February 13, 2018 Share Posted February 13, 2018 We're all minorities when it comes to the particulars of our behavior. I'm a diaper lover who likes wetting and messing, but I don't use suppositories or enemas, as some DLs do, and I don't masturbate in my diapers either. A messy diaper feels naughty, but I don't like sitting in my mess, or even staying in a messy diaper at all (I'd rather get cleaned up). I could go into even greater detail, but the point I'm trying to make is that no two DLs are exactly alike, so attempting to generalize is pointless. We're all members of a diverse community, and we should celebrate that. 1 Link to comment
wulfcub420 Posted February 13, 2018 Share Posted February 13, 2018 yea im a different type than other generalizations i belive i think im a dl i just love wearing and getting off but i do also like to use for all 3 sometimes all atonce then clean up an be normal again but i also do crave the other baby stuff too passi bubba wipes powder all that i consider im a dl and i want to be forced to whear use get changed use paci bubba all that an stuff like a baby you wanna act like a baby im gonna treat you like one oh you wanna make fun of an incontinent kid imma whip yo butt an turn you into a baby for as long as i choose too all that is what runs in my head constantly but then on the same token being forced to be a baby by a sitter is what i want but also i dont wanna be that limited either like lets watch this grown up movie or show and your gonna be the baby tho but then also when i need a cig an my passi aint satisfying me anymore i can light one up and you know just be forced to be my normal age with my normal life just in diapers and being fed like a baby you know like mayb more like hold lets have a cig ok cig done let mommy hold you oh you want a booby ok baby you know stuff like that just back an forth kinda but mayb diapered the whole time you know i dunno lol Link to comment
daveindiapers Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 Be yourself and enjoy diapers the way you want to. I can certainly relate to wearing them just for comfort Link to comment
Diaperdandy Posted February 15, 2018 Share Posted February 15, 2018 I used to be more sexually attracted to diapers, but now it's different, I just really enjoy wearing them. The sexual stimulation kinda faded. It's like anything...you get it all the time, the excitement of having it kinda fades. I enjoy the crinkle and the bulkiness between my legs. I also feel it is a waste if I don't at least pee in them once before I'm done wearing them. Link to comment
Dartplayerinwvc Posted February 16, 2018 Share Posted February 16, 2018 I wore mine to the hospital getting MRI's and infusions for MS and no one bats an eye... even my wife let me wear and take Valentines day photos this week Link to comment
azdl95 Posted February 25, 2018 Share Posted February 25, 2018 I like to wear a dry and comfort diaper too. Im not really into wetting my diaper or poo in my diaper, I like to wear many layer of diaper. So it feels like im wasting of my diaper if I wet my diaper. But, sometimes when I wear just 1 layer of diaper I will wet. But very rare that I am wetting my diaper. Link to comment
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