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I don't want to act like a baby. I never poo in diapers. I rarely like peeing in diapers. I just enjoy a nice dry comfy diaper.

I feel like I am in a very small minority of diaper lovers. 

Am I being overly sensitive?

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There's every type out there, don't worry there's many more such as yourself.

It's just the messy ones are the most vocal ;)

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If you break anything down far enough you'll find we all fall into a very small minority.

The important thing is that you love diapers. How you love them isn't necessarily all that important.

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17 minutes ago, BBoy said:

Am I being overly sensitive?

Yes. Who cares how you enjoy them? Just enjoy them. You're not the only one who doesn't use them.

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no I would go with you in the minority here..lol

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I’d advise some of the same. Relax, give yourself a break. You don’t have to fit into some sort of a mold, and there really isn’t any anyway. Enjoy what you enjoy, and how you like! And lastly, if anybody tells you, it’s wrong, what your doing, get away from them.

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I would add that everyone into this, in whatever way, is in the minority. It’s downright abnormal. And yet I still enjoy it and don’t care how society feels about it. You do you, and fuck everyone else.

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2 hours ago, BBoy said:

I don't want to act like a baby. I never poo in diapers. I rarely like peeing in diapers. I just enjoy a nice dry comfy diaper.

I feel like I am in a very small minority of diaper lovers. 

Am I being overly sensitive?

Actually I'd say you are not in that small a minority. There are a huge number of diaper lovers out there that are non-ABs. For those there is far less enjoyment in wetting or messing themselves  Don't forget ABs are about being a baby and the incontinence that goes with it. Diaper Lovers are more interested in the wearing and far less in the helpless wetting/messing themselves.

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8 hours ago, BBoy said:

I don't want to act like a baby. I never poo in diapers. I rarely like peeing in diapers. I just enjoy a nice dry comfy diaper.

I feel like I am in a very small minority of diaper lovers. 

Am I being overly sensitive?

Not at all.  The only thing we all have in common is we desire to wear diapers.  After that, we all seem to be different in what those desires actually entail.  Of course this is what makes us human.  If we were all the same we would be very boring. 

 

5 hours ago, Permanently Pampered said:

Actually I'd say you are not in that small a minority. There are a huge number of diaper lovers out there that are non-ABs. For those there is far less enjoyment in wetting or messing themselves  Don't forget ABs are about being a baby and the incontinence that goes with it. Diaper Lovers are more interested in the wearing and far less in the helpless wetting/messing themselves.

An adult baby is defined as a person that likes to regress back to an infantile state.  They want to "act" as a baby in varying forms.  Sexually feelings do not have to be present in anyway and neither does using your diaper.  Maybe an Adult Baby only wants to suck on a pacifier or play with blocks.  Using diapers does happen a lot with adult babies but many adult babies have no desire to be incontinent.

A diaper lover is defined as someone who is sexually turned on by diapers.  I would argue that majority of the diaper lovers use their diapers in large part because of the physical feeling a used diaper brings when they are masturbating or sexually enjoying diapers with a partner.  Both sexes that are diaper lovers usually hump their diapers in some fashion to receive sexual pleasure when masturbating and a wet diaper I find way more stimulating than a dry one. 

For me wearing diapers permanently is more for me to curb my sexual desires for them than to feel like a baby.  I feel my desire to be unpotty trained is sexual as well because I desire the humiliation of it.

Like I said we are all different.  A lot of us like myself are a hybrid of both.  Only you know what diapers mean to you and there are no wrong or right feelings or answers .

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We like what we like, so long as you don't judge anyone else it's all good!

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14 hours ago, Wannatripbaby said:

If you break anything down far enough you'll find we all fall into a very small minority.

The important thing is that you love diapers. How you love them isn't necessarily all that important.

This!

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57 minutes ago, Somelildude said:
15 hours ago, Wannatripbaby said:

If you break anything down far enough you'll find we all fall into a very small minority.

The important thing is that you love diapers. How you love them isn't necessarily all that important.

This!

 

I disagree. Its a weak argument that really doesn't make sense when we are discussing the community at large. 

He is asking that within the diaper lover community (not ABs) they really all want to mess and wet themselves. 

7 hours ago, MarkSmith said:

A diaper lover is defined as someone who is sexually turned on by diapers.  I would argue that majority of the diaper lovers use their diapers in large part because of the physical feeling a used diaper brings when they are masturbating or sexually enjoying diapers with a partner.  Both sexes that are diaper lovers usually hump their diapers in some fashion to receive sexual pleasure when masturbating and a wet diaper I find way more stimulating than a dry one. 

This argument does make sense although I'm not completely in agreement however I will admit that masturbation is a wet diaper is nice but I do prefer a dry one for that.

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Fuck labels. Seriously. If you enjoy wearing and peeing, then that is cool. Don't worry about not being extreme enough for some people. You will NEVER please everyone, and the more you try, the more screwed up you will become.

Seriously, do what you want to do, and don't let people tell you you are doing it wrong. (I do advise having a close group of friends who can at least question and comment on what you are doing, helps keep you grounded in reality when dealing with Fetish stuff.)

I do mess mine, but that is because I enjoy sitting on a toilet less. I don't really like doing either :-p

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5 minutes ago, KinsyInRibbons said:

Fuck labels. Seriously. If you enjoy wearing and peeing, then that is cool. Don't worry about not being extreme enough for some people. You will NEVER please everyone, and the more you try, the more screwed up you will become.

Seriously, do what you want to do, and don't let people tell you you are doing it wrong. (I do advise having a close group of friends who can at least question and comment on what you are doing, helps keep you grounded in reality when dealing with Fetish stuff.)

Exactly! That's what I was trying to say. Kinsy once again swoops in and drops a wisdom bomb into the discussion. :)

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8 minutes ago, KinsyInRibbons said:

Fuck labels. Seriously. If you enjoy wearing and peeing, then that is cool. Don't worry about not being extreme enough for some people. You will NEVER please everyone, and the more you try, the more screwed up you will become.

Seriously, do what you want to do, and don't let people tell you you are doing it wrong. (I do advise having a close group of friends who can at least question and comment on what you are doing, helps keep you grounded in reality when dealing with Fetish stuff.)

I do mess mine, but that is because I enjoy sitting on a toilet less. I don't really like doing either :-p

Other than the term Diaper Lover (which you like to use) what label was used here? You are missing the point of the discussion.

Also what is suggested by others in the statement "and don't let people tell you you are doing it wrong"  What are people saying is wrong? 

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1 hour ago, Permanently Pampered said:

Other than the term Diaper Lover (which you like to use) what label was used here? You are missing the point of the discussion.

Also what is suggested by others in the statement "and don't let people tell you you are doing it wrong"  What are people saying is wrong? 

Nah, I think you are not understanding what I am saying, but its cool.

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I don't think there is really a right/wrong to use diapers and even if you were a 'minority' why would that matter? I consider myself to be a rare breed around here. I have yet to find another person who is like me, but like, why does it matter? Does it make my experience and enjoyment out of it any less real? Am I considered less than a mommy just because I never had a little before and the fact I don't wear diapers? NO. So why does it matter if you don't actually like using your diapers? Simple - it doesn't matter. lol 

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I think the OP is correct in that among the ABDL community, those that wear only and dont wet are a small minority. The majority and probably the VAST majority, wear diapers and wet into them. For many, a diaper isnt being worn properly until it is at leas a bit wet.

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3 hours ago, mamabug said:

I don't think there is really a right/wrong to use diapers and even if you were a 'minority' why would that matter? I consider myself to be a rare breed around here. I have yet to find another person who is like me, but like, why does it matter? Does it make my experience and enjoyment out of it any less real? Am I considered less than a mommy just because I never had a little before and the fact I don't wear diapers? NO. So why does it matter if you don't actually like using your diapers? Simple - it doesn't matter. lol 

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IMO, the only wrong way to wear a diaper is when it leaks. Relax and be yourself.

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everything from sexuality, preference and fetish is on a spectrum.  Labels are confining.  So, enjoy however you wish!

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3 hours ago, dressupDV said:

everything from sexuality, preference and fetish is on a spectrum.  Labels are confining.  So, enjoy however you wish!

Well put. Thanks

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I know 2 people locally that just use them to get off and take them off. Never wear them but have them in between their legs. Do what you want and what makes you happy

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I guess no two people are exactly alike, best thing to do is the enjoy jour diaper just the way see fit and feel comfortable with. And indeed if you break it down completely we are all a minority.

 

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We're all minorities when it comes to the particulars of our behavior. I'm a diaper lover who likes wetting and messing, but I don't use suppositories or enemas, as some DLs do, and I don't masturbate in my diapers either. A messy diaper feels naughty, but I don't like sitting in my mess, or even staying in a messy diaper at all (I'd rather get cleaned up). I could go into even greater detail, but the point I'm trying to make is that no two DLs are exactly alike, so attempting to generalize is pointless. We're all members of a diverse community, and we should celebrate that.

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