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As stated sit-down and talk. Communication is a key ingredient in any good relationship. Find out what you and he both enjoy. Also discuss what you don't like about, but will try if he agrees to your terms. Example: You like oral, he likes wetting or messing his nappy, but you don't. Bargin or barter with some thing you enjoy to do something you'd much rather not. Also, find out if being a Dominant woman with a power exchange, where you make ALL the rules of play or the lack thereof. Put it down in writing and both of you sign it, like a contract, with terms and conditions. Say, when he's nappied, you get to assign him chores around the house and if they're not completed, he looses his nappy and earns punishment, spanking, mouth soaping, enema and no nappy....there are so many variations to where you can take this and both of you can find happy ground as Mummy and baby. Spell out extensively each one of your roles, actions, re-actions, punishments, rewards and stick to them, always keeping in mind to have a safe word for both of you.

Sort of Red, Stop NOW, Yellow, Proceed with caution and of course Green, for let's GO. Depending how deep down the rabbit hole he wants to go, and you're will to go along for the ride, you both should have your needs, physically, emotionally, sexually, mentally and any other human requirements for a healthy, happy relationship between a couple.

A TPE (Total Power Exchange) is what many females find attractive, as their word is LAW and breaking the law is HER time for entertainment, NOT HIS. It might be taking him out and forcing him to wet his pants and changing him into a nappy in public and wearing the wet pants over the nappy. There are so many ways to enjoy something you're not quite as fond to as your partner.

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You also have to look out for your needs as well. It is great that you love your boyfriend and understand that this is part of who he is but he should also understand your concerns and feelings and being a bit uncomfortable as to wanting to be a Full Time Mommy to him. If both aren't on the same page 100% the relationship isn't going to work unfortunately and you are going to have to express that to him.

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