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One the only person I've ever told is my girlfriend and I was so nervous I had to smoke about 3 cigars to summon up the nerve to tell her and afterwards I took almost half a roll of tums and 2 Dramamine and she was extremely accepting yet I still felt so sick I was glad she accepted but I was so nervous before during and after I felt like throwing up I honesty don't know if I could tell someone else and not puke afterward 

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I say no one in my family or friends knows I am very secretive about my diapers, but I am also not so good at hiding them, i've had many 40packs of Certainty Fitted briefs on the side of my bed, and closet.  I think my mom has seen them while cleaning and hasn't said anything to me.. I'm just waiting untill she asks I already know what to say. She is supportive about me transitioning so she should be supportive with all I go through. 

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On 3/13/2017 at 1:51 AM, nappies4me said:

No specific reason Jazzy just to scared to meet others in real life. It has taken me a long time to accept that I like to wear diapers and that it's part of me. While I have gained the confidence to venture out in public a few times wearing, I pretty much still just wear around the house.

I can relate. I've sort of tried testing the waters with my closest friend, trying to gauge her reactions to little hints (no pun intended). However, I have yet to actually tell someone else. I am trying to find an ABDL community near me because everyone I've talked to has said don't wait to get out into the community.

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My wife knows so around her it's like a 9.   I don't show off (usually) in front of her but I don't hide it.   Just last night she says "do those pants make you well hung or are you wearing a diaper."  (the latter).

For most friends and aquaintenances, 2.   They don't know but I will wear (discretely) around them.

For most strangers:  8.    I don't care if they know and while I don't flaunt it (usually), I will do things like carrying a diaper bag or just a diaper openly.

 

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My entire family and close friends know. But it is not something that I would share with the world because it's none of their damn business. The fact that so many people have the wrong idea about the a b / DL lifestyle it's hard to put yourself out there. 

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1 hour ago, Brutal said:

My entire family and close friends know. But it is not something that I would share with the world because it's none of their damn business. The fact that so many people have the wrong idea about the a b / DL lifestyle it's hard to put yourself out there. 

It really is. It's so common to falsely equate it with pedophilia. And even people who don't do that overall see it as bizarre, which is understandable.

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1 hour ago, cookiemonster23 said:

It really is. It's so common to falsely equate it with pedophilia. And even people who don't do that overall see it as bizarre, which is understandable.

It has been gaining more acceptance, but you are absolutely correct about it being confused with pedophilia. Not to mention that people will mess with you if they think they have some kind of leverage over you. I have a few ab/dl friends in real life which I cherish, but they live in other states now. There aren't that many people that you can click with in a normal vanilla world - when you add the abdl filter on top of it, it gets even narrower. I do think we will be attending one of the cons in the future and we would really like to make some new friends that mesh on more than just the abdl lifestyle.

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On 5/13/2019 at 9:00 PM, Brutal said:

It has been gaining more acceptance, but you are absolutely correct about it being confused with pedophilia. Not to mention that people will mess with you if they think they have some kind of leverage over you. I have a few ab/dl friends in real life which I cherish, but they live in other states now. There aren't that many people that you can click with in a normal vanilla world - when you add the abdl filter on top of it, it gets even narrower. I do think we will be attending one of the cons in the future and we would really like to make some new friends that mesh on more than just the abdl lifestyle.

I’d love to make some AB/DL friends myself. I have 1 online friend in the lifestyle and none IRL. 

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I would say a 3. maybe I would love to talk to others about it just don't think a lot would understand. but I have always wanted to tell people just to see there reaction Don't know if I would ever actually do it.    

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With strangers, including people I encounter on a regular basis like the people who work at the restaurant I frequent, I'm totally over them catching a glimpse of my diaper if my shirt rides up or if I bend over.

Some people in the kink community know, but only a few know my real name.

Family, friends, and coworkers will never know.

I've never really had a SO, but if/when I do, they'll know.

Sometimes it surprises me that my family hasn't figured it out as I wear around them, and a couple of times I've realized how ridiculously obvious my diaper is under a pair of shorts or when it's really wet. It's a testament to how narrow our focus can be - we overlook details, and sometimes when we do notice them, our mind won't connect the dots if the explanation is just outside the boundaries of what we consider possible. If we don't think someone could be diapered, that a diaper could be the reason why Alex's shorts are hugging his crotch in that way when he sits with his knees up just doesn't enter people's minds.

And the weirdest part in my instance is my mom found my diaper and diaper porn stash when I was a teen. For one thing, the diapers in there were not the ones she bought me for my "bedwetting" problem (yeah, I lied, kinda a lot), and then there were the printed photos from the internet (ca. 2001-2005).

And as recently as a month ago I virtually admitted to my mother I was wearing some kind of incontinence product as I was recovering from a surgery that made things a bit uncertain down there, and she asked me why I had a laptop bag with me, and I told her the truth - in case I need to change my underwear and/or apply medication.

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I’d say a solid 3. There’s a few family members that know, as well as the folks in the ABDL communities I participate in, but that’s about it really. I try to keep it under wraps as much as possible otherwise.

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Im probably 5 i know my mom knows but we never talk about it but she wakes me up all the time with my wet diaper and binky in my mouth plus my room is very babygirl nursery i always have diapers out and my bag out in open. Every relationship i i been in i was open about it and id say half were accepting and willing to try the whole adult baby thing. I would be willing to discuss it if anyone asked. My friends see my room and all they have said was ur just a big kid huh nothing else. Although my father new since i was a teenager and we had a conversation about it and ur right he was worried it was a pedophilia thing but it wasn't nothing like that not sure he believed it but its a very uncommon topic. But im me and not ashamed of it 

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I'd say 1. I don't understand why anyone would need to be open about it and I am not comfortable letting other people know what type of underwear I wear. My parents know because it was hard to hide it when I started wearing when I was still living with them and we live together again so it's still hard to hide it. I also don't bother trying to keep my diapers from not showing because it's my house but I am still discreet about it and don't parade around with it. My in laws also know I wear them too and they have never said anything about it and my oldest aunt found out when I stayed at her house for a few days and I did keep it discreet but she was always cleaning and found my used ones and offered me plastic bags to put diapers in. I also had a toddler then so she wore them too. 

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