How open are you about ABDL?

[JazzyPazzazy]

On a scale of 1-10, (one being none, ten being completely.) how open are you with vanilla people or friends and family? I know a lot of people are super uncomfortable with others knowing, but I also know a few that are open. How do you feel about it? :3

[nappies4me]

I would say 2. Apart from the good people on this site and the diaper suppliers that I use there is only 1 other person I have ever talked to about this side of me.

[Toyboy]

Same here a 2 as I have only told my wife.

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[JazzyPazzazy]

I would say 2. Apart from the good people on this site and the diaper suppliers that I use there is only 1 other person I have ever talked to about this side of me.

Ahh okay. Is there a specific reason? (If I may ask of course!)


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Same here a 2 as I have only told my wife.

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Did she know before you got married? How well did she take it? I know some peoples SO's are okay and supportive, while others are fine with it but won't participate.


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[Poobottom]

Has to be a 1 unfortunately, I would like to be able to talk to people about it but feel they would not understand. It's kind of a niche fetish to wear and use nappies in your fifties I'd say

[rusty pins]

1

[DL4LIFE]

1 here. Besides being on this site anonymously

[JazzyPazzazy]

I didn't remember to share mine >.

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1 here. Besides being on this site anonymously

[Toyboy]

Did she know before you got married? How well did she take it? I know some peoples SO's are okay and supportive, while others are fine with it but won't participate.


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No she didn't know before we got married - I didn't really know ether.
We have been together for about 29 years married nearly 24 years and I only came out about 2 years ago.
It was hard on her at first (and me )but she is a very lovely lady and is fine with it now, she is not into it herself she will change me sometimes. I think the fact that I have had some incontinence and bedwetting issues for a number of years helped as she was used to seeing me in a nappy. Now she nows I like my nappies .our relationship is better than ever.

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[JazzyPazzazy]

No she didn't know before we got married - I didn't really know ether.
We have been together for about 29 years married nearly 24 years and I only came out about 2 years ago.
It was hard on her at first (and me )but she is a very lovely lady and is fine with it now, she is not into it herself she will change me sometimes. I think the fact that I have had some incontinence and bedwetting issues for a number of years helped as she was used to seeing me in a nappy. Now she nows I like my nappies .our relationship is better than ever.

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That's super cute!! I'm so happy for you!!


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[nappies4me]

On ?12?/?03?/?2017 at 2:50 PM, JazzyPazzazy said:

Ahh okay. Is there a specific reason? (If I may ask of course!)

No specific reason Jazzy just to scared to meet others in real life. It has taken me a long time to accept that I like to wear diapers and that it's part of me. While I have gained the confidence to venture out in public a few times wearing, I pretty much still just wear around the house.

[BabyJune]

Id have to go with minus 1. It is my deepest, darkest secret. All my life I've worked with young children--mostly very young girls--and it wouldn't go over too well if people knew that I was a diaper lover as well as (how to put it) a very youthful crossdresser.

[JazzyPazzazy]

No specific reason Jazzy just to scared to meet others in real life. It has taken me a long time to accept that I like to wear diapers and that it's part of me. While I have gained the confidence to venture out in public a few times wearing, I pretty much still just wear around the house.

Ohhh okay! I gotcha! That's good tho! Better safe than sorry!


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Id have to go with minus 1. It is my deepest, darkest secret. All my life I've worked with young children--mostly very young girls--and it wouldn't go over too well if people knew that I was a diaper lover as well as (how to put it) a very youthful crossdresser.

Oh yeah, I see how that could end badly. Though I have to say, I do work in a daycare, so I getcha!


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[Spiderman]

1.

[AbabeBill]

I would have to go with a 2. Only my wife knows. I never thought it would be a good thing to be known, to anyone. I always feared of being looked upon differently, once it was made known. And once

[froggy]

i might be bipolar on this.

[Kaliborio]

I'm open about my AB/DL to a few friends who are also AB/DL or otherwise have socially unacceptable kinks.

Probably a few dozen people total know I'm incontinent, though - mostly authority figures who have responsibility in some scenario where my incontinence is relevant.

[fixitboy]

Very littke.

[Cute_Kitten]

0. It's part of my private life, and it stays private.

[diaperguy85]

1.5! yes, i have to be difficult lol

i've only told my g/f after about a year and change of being together and she found my diapers one day. it was scary, an i kinda expected her to leave shortly after she found out. but she still loves and totally accepts and embraces it as another facet of the guy she loves

other than that, my mom

[Little Crusader]

I would say 4-5, I mean I dont ever plan on telling anyone I don't have to, but I am rather comfortable with friends knowing if needed or if it naturally comes up (and I know their reactions before the discussion)

[anned]

Family or friends

[rusty pins]

52 minutes ago, anned said:

Family or friends

[daveindiapers]

I haven't told any of my friends or family and probably never will.

[BBoy]

2. I only give it a two because I told my wife and my therapist. Otherwise, NO ONE WILL EVER KNOW