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If you could, would you wish diapers away?


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  1. 1. Do you ever feel bad about wearing a diaper?

    • Nope, I'm over that
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    • Fleeting guilt, never lasts long
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    • Sometimes I do
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    • Most of the time I do
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    • I never feel good about it
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  2. 2. What's the dominate emotion you experience with regard to wearing a diaper

    • Pure bliss!
      7
    • Excitement
      2
    • Varies from soothing to joy to excitement
      29
    • I just wear them, why look so deep into it?
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    • I dislike myself because of it
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    • Heavyness and anxiety
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    • My feelings vary across the scale
      1
  3. 3. Do you engage in help and support?

    • I offer support to to others in the lifstyle who need a boost
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    • I receive support from others when I need a boost
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    • I both give and receive support with others
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    • I don't need support and unaware that others need any
      3
    • I do not feel supported
      3
    • I'm only here make connections and assume everyone has their head together
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Let's say you were given a one time chance to erase the need or desire to wear diapers from your life. To extend it, if you're a little or AB, would you opt to wipe out that side of yourself?

Let's start with what I perceive to be the "pros". Number one on my list would be the opportunity to pick a mate from the large pool. I feel I am forced to pick a mate by a very limiting interest. When I find someone, we're not always a match on an emotional level. Next would be this part of myself that I have to hide from my circle. It keeps my friends at a distance on a level. If I'm waddling around in a big diaper, I can't answer the door and have to use excuses like I was out with someone else. Next is money. I'm fortunate enough to buy cases of whatever diaper tickles my fancy. However when I look at my stash that I've dropped thousands on I think that money could have fed the hungry instead. Then there is that sensation that I'm broken that comes now and then. Sometimes I think my head isn't right for doing what I do. While I've reconciled the fact that it's not much of a choice to shelve my diaper habit, I sometimes question what strange motivation put me here.

The "cons" to wishing diapers out of my life. While the dating pool is much smaller for me (and us), it has forced me into engage with others who are not exactly like me. So when I meet a diaper friend and we have dissimilar interests outside of nappies, I tend to explore their world, where if I was given an unlimited pool of potential mates, I would likely just keep clicking the next button and never really broadening my horizons and seeing different sides of life.

As far as my circle, I've been told I have an unusual number of friends. In a way I could attribute part of this to the mysterious vibe I project that may hold people interest. I'm honest and open about everything else in my life except for my diaper and sexual interests. I think interesting people like multi-faceted individuals, and even if they can't put their thumb on what else I'm up to, the vibe is present and intriguing.

As far as money, if I look at my interests through the lens of playing the roll I was given, then maybe the only reason I can afford it is because I am fulfilling some mission on a higher level that I can't comprehend from where I stand? And while I am charitable, I like to think my biggest accomplishments are the times I've taught someone else to fish rather than giving them one.

So for my broken head.. Well I may in fact actually have one. Or it may be by some sort of intelligent design that I have one. Or I may just be designed this way to express my uniqueness and help break the mold of conformity. Take away the higher level thinking and is it really bad to be different? Maybe we're all helping in our own way to spread diversity in a somewhat closed minded environment. Just maybe we're all right and the annalists that slap labels on everything are living incorrectly?

So to answer my own question, no I would not trade in any part of me that was not harmful or damaging. I'm thankful that I have been granted uniqueness, and I am proud that I have followed through to embrace it. And whatever your situation is, I'm proud of you for the same bravery and honesty to yourself.

So what's your answer?

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I'd wipe it out in a heartbeat. You say it's something that caused/causes no harm.

Well let me tell you, this diaper issue was an emotional rollercoaster for the majority of my life. I grew up in a time when there was no Internet or social media and and thinking I was the only one.

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1 hour ago, DL4LIFE said:

I'd wipe it out in a heartbeat. You say it's something that caused/causes no harm.

Well let me tell you, this diaper issue was an emotional rollercoaster for the majority of my life. I grew up in a time when there was no Internet or social media and and thinking I was the only one.

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I am on the same level as Dl4live and up to a certain point with Rusty pins, if I could wipe out my desire to wear and use diapers I would done so yesterday. In recent years I

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All struggling, stop and accept yourself for who you are. I know that sounds difficult but I would much rather have my husband have a diaper fetish vs. some kind of nasty cheating problem or he like to beat me or he had to watch kid porn to get off or something twisted you get my point (although some of these may be normal for some folks). I am glad my husband is brave enough to share his life with me as a whole man and a wonderful man. I wouldn't change a thing and I try to buy surprises when I get my head wrapped around what he likes and what turns him on. So have fun with it, you only go around once.

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I would drop it in a heartbeat. I enjoy it and I have no ill feelings about myself really, but I am kind of a mixture of a rural redneck type and a naturalistic hippy. Even though this is a powerful fetish in me, it bothers me that my fetish is for a thing that has no natural basis. I frequently think about "what if I grew up poor in the 1800's, how would this fetish manifest itself in me?"

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The question is, what would you get instead?

Cause that will happen, when you lose interest in something, you gain something else and there is stuff that is a lot worse than diapers, IMO

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It's easy to see how something like this could cause pain in your life. And I thank everyone for being generous enough to share. I'm no therapist, and one may not agree with my perspective either. But from my own experience, resisting a deep rooted urge is futile. If it's truly part of me, and it is not of malicious nature, then only I can deem it inappropriate.

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I would not encourage suppressing the compulsion to wear diapers, my answer was based on eliminating whatever event or action that

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I'm on the fence about the question posed, but I'm leaning more towards just eradicating the whole thing altogether.

Don't get me wrong, I don't have an issue with wearing diapers or having an ABDL side personally. However, it's something that more recently has lost some of the allure and luster that it had before.

I'm at a point of transition in my life, nearly out of college and ready to really embrace my own life. I'm in a very caring and loving relationship (although she's not a fan of the diapers one bit), I've gotten a few job offers I'd take in a heartbeat if I was readily available, and I'm just ready to start really doing my own thing.

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To me, the root of all the shame and resentment over the years (especially in my teenage years) has been the sexuality aspect of them.

After wearing 24/7 for long enough, I was able to greatly suppress that aspect of them by making them routine, and I'm happy for that.

So for me, I'd want to give up my libido completely. If I still liked diapers after that, then so be it. If not, then also so be it.

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No, I wouldn't wish them away, after all, they have their uses. If it wasn't diapers I could have been attracted to something harmful like drugs, alcohol or gambling, or some fettish that could wind you up in prison.

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If I had to do it all over starting out today, with the modern adult diapers on the market, I would not want to give up my diapers, however as I started wearing adult diapers back in 1982 the quality was non existent and I would give it up in a heartbeat if I had to use those diapers again.

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1 hour ago, iluvmydiapers said:

If I had to do it all over starting out today, with the modern adult diapers on the market, I would not want to give up my diapers, ...

If that is the case, has the quality of diapers improved to the point that toilet training of children is no longer necessary?

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On 3/17/2017 at 4:21 AM, Nyte Kitsune said:

No, I wouldn't wish them away, after all, they have their uses. If it wasn't diapers I could have been attracted to something harmful like drugs, alcohol or gambling, or some fettish that could wind you up in prison.

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I've had a good life with diapers.

That said, there is probably an equally good life without them where I keep my toilet training and have a much larger dating pool.

it's hard to say.

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