Craving what you don't really want

[Solomon_Wishes]

Hey everyone

So this has a true story and I want people's opinions so I can try make a decision on what I really want.

As for most people who are DL and maybe ab. Me being 100% DL. We all, in our minds at least want to meet that special someone we can be able to share our DL experiences with, in a sexual way or just wearing together in general. But for me I think about it quite a lot and crave that very thing. But...

About six months

[Snugglebear_69]

It depends entirely on the people involved to be honest. I've told women I dated and I've told men I dated and of course I told the wonderful lady who I now call my wife. The key for me was the person not the diapers and I stand by that approach. Diapers are one small part of who I am so it never made sense to me to make that my focus. I focused on compatability as people first and the result is almost 11 years of marriage, a loving wife involved in diaper play, a large stockpile of diapers and accessories and in general good times.

[erevu]

I don't think the issue was the shared interest in DL. Shared interests are the basis of relationships. I think it's that you got too serious too fast. Save diapers/sex until marriage, or at least until you're really comfortable with being with the person long term. Communication is key. Explore each other mentally before physically. Form a real bond first.

[rusty pins]

When DPF and it's founder Tommy were around in the 1980's and 1990's he always stated that relationships are the first thing.