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If anyone should know what it is like to be inco it's you hun - Wish I could help in some way if I win the lottery I will u can bet on that!!!

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However heated the conversation got. I believe it got alot of feelings out in the open, so that other who don't realise how insentitive they are being, hopefully, will realise. On the whole, I find the community a very friendly one, but there is a group that just like to harass. I don't know if they know they are doing it, but they do.

I am just learning to deal with incontinence recently, currently I don't know if it is temporary or permanent, but only time will tell and the people who have to were diapers 24/7 been extremely helpful in their advice and support. Equally the people who don't have to wear been very supportive as well.

It's a shame that a few people want to spoil it for the whole.

PS: I edited so it made a little more sense :)

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I have to say I don't quite understand what the fighting is about. I admit that I can't understand why anyone would want to be incontinent - it seems almost insulting to me that anyone would wish a disability on themselves, when it is such a struggle for those who have to deal with it on a daily basis. However, as an AB, I guess I sort of understand the desire to be helpless, but folks, this is only a fantasy! Do you have any idea the seriousness of the consequences if you were to wake up totally incon????

I don't know why I am an AB - it certainly isn't from choice. Obviously something in my early childhood left me needing this from a psychological standpoint. As an AB, I face potential embarrassment and discrimination if I am found out by the wrong person. In that way, I face similar challenges to a person who is incon. You might say, "well, you don't need to do what you do - as an incontinent person I am stuck with it". Well, I am afraid that I do have to do what I do - it is the coping mechanism that keeps me away from the jagged edge - it is a serious thing.

I would never attack incontinent people for their way of life, nor would I belittle their problems and challenges. Nor, however, would I expect others who face challenges, to ridicule my own struggles. If I want to act like a baby, and role play, or chat about my fantasy. I would ask that you please respect that.

Thank you,

Missy

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Well put Heather, I don't know why anyone would wish to have a medical problem :screwy:

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This forum is not for posts about can you make me wet myself. This particular forum is for support, advice, and the sole communication of Incontenint members of this board who want serious conversation.

If you are here to meet someone, post it in 'meeting place'

If you are here to become Incontinent, post it in 'General'

All posts will be moved if they are irrelevant.

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This forum is not for posts about can you make me wet myself. This particular forum is for support, advice, and the sole communication of Incontenint members of this board who want serious conversation.

If you are here to meet someone, post it in 'meeting place'

If you are here to become Incontinent, post it in 'General'

All posts will be moved if they are irrelevant.

Since you have declared this forum for people who are incontinent, I thought that was what it was for, can you make another forum for those that want to be incontinent. That way they can have a place to go without cluttering up this and other forums with those questions. You will also have a place to stick all of the questions, and you can put up a couple of good answers as stickies.

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most have no idea what it is like to have to wear diapers or protective undware all your life most coulg not even deal with it full time and the changes youhave to make to your life style and the changes in your head few can go str8 from being dry to have little or no control with out a lot of problem in your head and feelings over it

and it really is hard to find a SO that is understanding of the being wet all the time

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As with many kinds of "deviant" behavior, some people fantasize about the abnormality unrealistically. As with all the previous posters, I am incon and have been since birth. It's part of a larger health issue that has been a constant source of physical and emotional pain and aggravation in my life. I lost a kidney (bladder reflux), have had six abdominal surgeries in the last five years and get two to four UTIs a year. Anybody that's had one of those can tell you just how unpleasant they can be. For most of us, it's not just a matter of leaking or even exploding uncontrolably, but dealing with larger and more complex health problems of which incon is only one (or just a symptom).

Mo

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I think its blatantly obvious what this forum is used for. Unfortunatly my thoughts on the general public have been lowered since I've worked for 5+ years at a theme park and moved posts around on this board.

But I'll keep my eye on it when I log on.

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This forum is not for posts about can you make me wet myself. This particular forum is for support, advice, and the sole communication of Incontenint members of this board who want serious conversation.

If you are here to meet someone, post it in 'meeting place'

If you are here to become Incontinent, post it in 'General'

All posts will be moved if they are irrelevant.

- Baby Rosie

I noticed that was posted with my user name. I didn't write it, but....

*applause*

As an incontinent person, I would however like to state...

I don't want non-incontinent people to ever be banned. We all wear diapers, and I'm sure there is plenty of helpful info the for-funners can provide. Hey, the diaper I got on now was suggested to me by a DL, and it's been the best I've ever used!

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See? DLs aren't ALL horrible people. Well, except for me. :ph34r:

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Rosie, as the best Moderater as she can be just stated what this forum is for, where all subsequent post should be put, but as so, still gets a reply as to where "I want" to post...read people or go to the theme parks she mentioned. I as a "Truly Incontinent" Person can understand, while I list as a "AB, I am medically incontinent. Put you post where they belong, and head the advice you don't want to be incontinent. You have no clue, while I have chose to add to my situation, I would have rather made the choice.

There has been more posts as to how to do it, than needs to be said again, if your that darn stupid to not head the advice then read all the old posts and quit...PLEASE, asking how to do it.

It's the internet, the world of knowledge is at your finger tips, just at least be smart enough to know how to use it, if not, perhaps you don't need to be incontinent, as you can't figure out how to do normal life, let alone complicate things.. Grow up and live life first. Okay I'm done and done ranting...boy!

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Well this is my first time posting to the incon forum however to be realistic...can you really expect to keep the festish freaks out of this forum when the website is essentially devoted to diaper fetishes. Maybe Daily Diapers is the wrong place to hold a serious discussion about incontinence issues?

I mean really, do you really expect to rid yourself of these "How can I become incontinent" postings?

My two cents. B.

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Well this is my first time posting to the incon forum however to be realistic...can you really expect to keep the festish freaks out of this forum when the website is essentially devoted to diaper fetishes. Maybe Daily Diapers is the wrong place to hold a serious discussion about incontinence issues? I mean really, do you really expect to rid yourself of these "How can I become incontinent" postings?

My two cents. B.

I've highlighted your question above because our esteemed host, Daily Di, is himself incontinent, so why should you, or any other DL think DD is the wrong place to hold a serious discussion about incontinence issues?

D :glare: lly

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yep...they are f*cking nuts!!

No, they are not nuts, they simply just doesn't know. An maybe one of them actually will like it, but most likely not.

I guess it's the same as fantasizing about being a billionaire, anybody wants it, and noone will believe it's such a headache. I don't know how it is, but I honestly feel ready to tackle it..being a billionaire that is...

You can't tell them that they will hate having such a handicap pretty much all the time, because it's a fantasy for them. They feel good each time they bring up that fantasy, maybe even sexually aroused, and they want to and dream about extending that good feeling to cover all their time.

You can't expect them to see that a coment as thank god for leakage barriers, when you are sick to your stomach, actually is gratefull thought send to the manufacturer, and not just because of a "funny" insident happened during the day, because in a fantasy it will probably rather be the last.

Well.. you simply just can't expect pee ple to see that the fantasy that makes them feel so good, will not be so good a feeling in the real life, because it still makes them feel good as long as they don't know any better..

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I've highlighted your question above because our esteemed host, Daily Di, is himself incontinent, so why should you, or any other DL think DD is the wrong place to hold a serious discussion about incontinence issues?

D :glare: lly

I know this is the second time I have said this today, but well said Dolly. I think people forget that although this is an ABDL site, there are many incontinent people here, including daily di.

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Me, I think "wannabe" incontinence is a worthwhile subtopic of incontinence. As such, I'm going back to one of my earlier posts to build the database so that anyone who wants to post a question about it can begin by doing some reading....and hopefully ask a question that is actually *interesting*.

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Well this is my first time posting to the incon forum however to be realistic...can you really expect to keep the festish freaks out of this forum when the website is essentially devoted to diaper fetishes. Maybe Daily Diapers is the wrong place to hold a serious discussion about incontinence issues?

I mean really, do you really expect to rid yourself of these "How can I become incontinent" postings?

My two cents. B.

I would like to point out that this is for the most part a fetish site, including some if not many of the incontinent people here. Calling us freaks is not a good way to get people on your side.

As for removing the "How can I become incontinent" postings, that is up to the moderators of the forum, if they wish them gone, they can delete them whenever they show up or move them to another place on the forum. Will more show up, probably, but they can be moved also. I don't think it is that hard. Or you could just IGNORE them, that is what I do with any thread that doesn't interest me.

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I've highlighted your question above because our esteemed host, Daily Di, is himself incontinent, so why should you, or any other DL think DD is the wrong place to hold a serious discussion about incontinence issues?

D :glare: lly

I am making an observation and I don't think that anyone needs to be incontinent to be able to make such as comment. But lets be realistic. On the front page of the website you have a picture of a woman in a diaper and a pacifier in her mouth. Also the very first sentence states "DailyDiapers is the exclusive community for Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers..."

I just think you are fighting a loosing battle, I just don't know how you will keep them out when the main focus of this website deals with the fetish.

I do appologise for the freak comment, I was trying to mirror the outcry to describe these posters, it may have been a little harsh.

Peace. B.

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lmao, TWO things I would like to tackle, @ 1 being a billionare, # 2 being able to use potty and none of them gonna happen

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lmao, TWO things I would like to tackle, @ 1 being a billionare, # 2 being able to use potty and none of them gonna happen

THAT'S BULLSHIT!!!

You can use the toilet. You just need to sit there for a looong time. :D

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have no problem with abs and dl coming into this area but there are many areas on this board for that question of how do i

there are many people here that wear for real as it is hard to find other places that except us in diapers and lets us talk openly

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i don't think that jenn was trying to cos prolems with everyone, i believe that being incon such as myself, and her, and getting it through no wish of our own, wouldn't wish it on our worst emamies. being incon is no fun. I know that some of u out there would think so, but try going out somewhere, while u have no bladder control. lol i should know. i went out once to the mall with two of my closest friends, and didn't pack enough diapers, well, needless too say her back seat ended soaked. talk about embarrasssing. b4 u leave the house u have too make sure that u have all ur supplies ready to go, then there is that chance that u will leak, so u better take several changes of clothes.

then once ur wet then u have too find a clean bathroom and change urself. oh yeah btw there are not changing tables for adult, so either u have too use the floor and lay down, or u have too stand against a wall. u wanna talk about germs. ok lets talk about if u have too go to school in diapers. lol and i mean realistically, ok. i HAVE NEVER had the school nurse change my diapers, not once, not ever. i have always done 4 myself. tho i will say i was allowed too use the teachers bathroom. i had always had a change of clothes in my locker. I was never able too go out for any sports after becoming incon. was always afraid some of the other girls would find out, on the plus side lol i didn't have too take PE. lol. sometimes ppl need too be glad that some prayers go unanswered. i would love if i had the choice. but i have not got that choice, and neither has jenn. When we hear ppl say oh i wish i wear incon... it reminds us that we don't have that choice and we r stuck in diapers 4 the rest of our lives whether we want too or not. we have come too acceptance that we have too wear, but it wasn't easy. all i am saying that the ppl who wish they were incon, has no idea what they r wishing 4, and i really hope that they never have too find out, becos wearing diapers 24/7 is a real bummer.

i hope this has help some of u understand

heather

well sed heather

it seems almost insulting to me that anyone would wish a disability on themselves

I would never attack incontinent people for their way of life, nor would I belittle their problems and challenges.

thanks missy

most have no idea what it is like to have to wear diapers or protective undware all your life most coulg not even deal with it full time and the changes youhave to make to your life style and the changes in your head few can go str8 from being dry to have little or no control with out a lot of problem in your head and feelings over it

and it really is hard to find a SO that is understanding of the being wet all the time

some of the wanabes dont get that part of the deal

Well this is my first time posting to the incon forum however to be realistic...can you really expect to keep the festish freaks out of this forum when the website is essentially devoted to diaper fetishes. Maybe Daily Diapers is the wrong place to hold a serious discussion about incontinence issues?

ur fd up

I am making an observation and I don't think that anyone needs to be incontinent to be able to make such as comment. But lets be realistic. On the front page of the website you have a picture of a woman in a diaper and a pacifier in her mouth. Also the very first sentence states "DailyDiapers is the exclusive community for Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers..."

I just think you are fighting a loosing battle, I just don't know how you will keep them out when the main focus of this website deals with the fetish.

I do appologise for the freak comment, I was trying to mirror the outcry to describe these posters, it may have been a little harsh.

maby ur not so fd up ,maby

THAT'S BULLSHIT!!!

You can use the toilet. You just need to sit there for a looong time. :D

shot that out the window

dont take me as a prud but eneybody that is incon(myself included) would never wish this condition on eneyone even our worst enemy

and befor i leve most incon sites think that if in eney way u like waring diapers(or in some cases like jens u like ur so changing u) ur not incon but here we can get help with problems that incon site will trat us like crap so stop bellyacking

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I am a bedwetter and more then less it usually is a huge inconvience. Ecspecially in the summer. If you have ever worn diapers when it is 92 degrees out you know what i am talking about. So lets leave fantasy as fantay and don't make it a 24/7 reality.

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ive worn diapers in 100 degree weather...

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