Rockies Fan in Diapers Posted January 28, 2017 Share Posted January 28, 2017 For some of us, we are who we are, for emotional needs or because of things we lacked in our childhoods, or it may be fetish or need based. For example, if your ABDL desires started out based on emotional need, but if you somehow were able to work on or get the emotional need satisfied through other means, Link to comment
Sweetiesnuggles Posted January 28, 2017 Share Posted January 28, 2017 I've had mine become more of an emotional need versus a fetish need over time. I think a lot of that was me exiting teenage years though. There's a ton of stuff that can change based on age and experience. It all depends on a myriad of factors 1 Link to comment
notyalc Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 For me, it was probably never an emotional need. For as long as I can remember, I just wanted to wear diapers. It probably has something to do with something deep down, possibly emotional, that drove me to the point of needing to wear them. I can't explain it, but my tendencies never morphed above what I indulge in. Link to comment
PullUpDiaperLover Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 For me its always been a fetish, that being said there are times where it can be an emotional or stress crutch. I evolved to embrace both aspecs more, as well as encompassing more of a little girl/ sissy part of it. Link to comment
Nat Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Yes ABDL can evolve in someone over time. I still need to hear about a case where someone actually grew out of it where they never have interest in it again. Link to comment
nappylover78 Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 It has evolved over time, less intensely sexual though that's still a big part of it, increased enjoyment of wearing just for comfort and convenience for longer periods of time. I think that brings less highs and lows and more acceptance of it as part of you as well. Link to comment
Dill_Pickle Posted February 6, 2017 Share Posted February 6, 2017 Spokane I'm getting close to outgrowing wanting diapers. Link to comment
spark Posted February 9, 2017 Share Posted February 9, 2017 I haven't figured out if I desire more when I'm fighting depression, The last time I had an extended time away from diapers was when I was in a serious relationship, but it was still present. Link to comment
Rockies Fan in Diapers Posted February 9, 2017 Author Share Posted February 9, 2017 Thanks for all of the responses everyone & there are some great observations here, that I relate to, specifically from You, Spokane & Spark. I've noticed the reason for my desire has changed morphed from sort of an emotional need that I've now taken care of through other means into now it's more so just a fetish that I like to enjoy & engage in when I'm in the mood. 1 Link to comment
rosalie.bent Posted February 22, 2017 Share Posted February 22, 2017 the outward expression of ABDL certainly does change over time even if the initial driver remains the same. OUr personal experience - and that of others - is that as you explore or are allowed more regressive time and experience you change what is important to you. Things you didnt feel were important - like bottle feeding - becomes really important whil perhaps overly-frillly baby dresses make way for plainer, but more practical wear. Also our personal circumstances can change a lot and it affects how much regressive time we need - or get. But as one person wrote, one change that DOESNT HAPPEN is that it never goes away. It is there forever. Link to comment
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