Do you apologize for your messy accidents?

[Nat]

If you are around others and your bowels release its content into your diaper, do you apologize to others for the smell and then go change?

[Craisler]

Certainly.

[Gump]

Uhm, well...I guess it really depends. If I'm directly within 5 feet of anyone, absolutely. Especially if it's super noisy, which I tend

[Midwest Babygirl]

I apologize when I'm wet and need to go change (just the way I am after years of emotional abuse and being told everything was my fault).

[deewet]

If I am in a crowd, and have a messy event that is noticeable, I will often apologize simply saying, sorry-it happens sometimes.

[LittleFoxy]

Only when it's noticable. If nobody notices then there's no need to bring it up and apologize.

[dljim95]

I do not intend to ever mess in public but I know it will and has happened many times,and will continue to happen. I know based on my diet my messy diapers are always soft and the smell is not that noticable, so if anyone would notice that I was messy I would say I was sorry and move away. I changet my public messy diapers asap, I do not stay messy in public as long as I would if I was at home.

[leakingdaily]

if i feel the need to then yes, but i try to get away and change before any apology seems needed

[jack3295r]

Over the years I have had too many accidents to count. When it's a BM, since I use Desitin (zinc oxide) for rashes and Nullo for odors it's rarely a problem. I wear

[HotDogg55]

If it's noticed or will be noticed, yes of course. But if it doesn't have to be said, I'm not going to say it. I don't want to intentionally out myself. Although I've moved on, this still isn't the most confidence building thing in the world, to be an adult walking around with a load in your pants. It doesn't hold me back, but it's not confidence building, so no I'd never say unless it must be said.

[Orchidectomy]

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[Kaliborio]

Why would I? That's forcing my messing accident to take up even more of their mental real estate. I just change and clean myself up as soon as is practical.

[oldwetter66]

[abm3]

Only if someone says anything I'll just say I need diapers due lack of control and the bagpack is aways with me. No sense to tell them it's like saying "opps I farted, I have gas" but if really bad and I can smell it I'll say my bad I'm having gases.