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I tend to steer clear of tumblrs or websites that are focused around one person as they tend to have an "attention whore" element to them. I find the same thing for ABDLs that put stuff on youtube, they aren't all like that by any means but there are enough that are that it puts me off.

Can't say much about this person in particular so I won't comment on this particular person.

Please don't insult each other, try to be adults and discuss things without just insultiong or trying to provoke each other.

Edit: I cleaned up the thread a little, please remain civil.

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I think this is the first time I've seen direct hate and negativity in the ABDL community, it makes me regret joining the forum tbh,

The girls who work for those sites and run their tumblrs do so to market their product, do you call other businesses attention whores for marketing?
A lot of camgirls do have skills / talents & an education or are using the clipsales to pay for an education. It doesn't seem like a farfetched idea to want to live the lifestyle full time by providing lifestyle themed content.
A lot of people don't get to act out their ABDL fantasies or have a partner to do so, they can then buy content to fulfill those visual desires.
I haven't personally witnessed any SJW behavior in any of the above mentioned models and they've all been extremely kind and welcoming to everyone I've watched them interact with. If you prefer to steal porn by watching on tube sites that's your prerogative but don't stereotype & negatively judge an entire group of people ( Porn producers ) in the exact way that we all feel like shit about when people do it to us as an ABDL community.

Who the hell would build an entire nursery in their home if they weren't actually interested in ABDL? There's so many other types of fetish porn that are lucrative, if someone's doing strictly ABDL clips they're probably into the lifestyle in some form or another. Who is anyone to say whether that person's idea of ABDL is "Real" or not?

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Yes I also make videos & felt like the thread could use another perspective. I have a college education & trades skills. I've been in the lifestyle since 18. Most of the females I've spoken to that make fetish clips have also been kinky most of their life. Obviously I can't speak for everyone, and if someone made vanilla porn first they might try bdsm porn for the money.

Training of O on kink.com was like that, you could really tell who was a lifestyler vs who was a model doing it for the money- but the vanilla girls shot maybe once or twice before moving back to vanilla. They didn't build their own studio & site based entirely around a kink. I imagine ABDL is the same, if someone isn't enjoying it there are a lot of other avenues to take.

It bothers me that people would question my intelligence, abilities & level of kink based entirely on the fact that I sell clips.

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Ally is a lovely lady, and has provided us with content for a while now. Why shouldn't she profit from her material if there is demand for it?

I have found most of these arguments end up being from people who got upset that these girls can't sit online all day and chat with random guys. I don't mean that to insult anyone, but think about how many lonely guys there are; and how many out and proud ABDL girls. They simply have no interest in cyber-play and the hundredth guy to ask if she will change your diaper.

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All I said is that some of the people who run websites purely about themselves do it for attention. It kind of comes with the terriortory, people are free to do that and people are free to visit those sites and videos.

I in no way meant to imply that making money from it is bad, or that sex work is bad (as was implied in the chat room today). All I was saying is that I'm not a fan of sites or channels or blogs where the only thing people post is pictures/videos of themselves.

Not looking down on them, just saying it isn't for me.

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1 hour ago, Elfy said:

All I said is that some of the people who run websites purely about themselves do it for attention. It kind of comes with the terriortory, people are free to do that and people are free to visit those sites and videos.

I in no way meant to imply that making money from it is bad, or that sex work is bad (as was implied in the chat room today). All I was saying is that I'm not a fan of sites or channels or blogs where the only thing people post is pictures/videos of themselves.

Not looking down on them, just saying it isn't for me.

Oh no, I definitely wasn't talking about your comments either. You have an opinion and you aren't afraid to voice it, but you do it in a respectful manner, which is awesome!

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44 minutes ago, LittleMissMira said:

Oh no, I definitely wasn't talking about your comments either. You have an opinion and you aren't afraid to voice it, but you do it in a respectful manner, which is awesome!

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5 minutes ago, minachan16 said:

Both of those opinions came from daddyeric. Please don't take it as though he speaks for us. This entire thread pretty much shows he's alone in his thinking.

I initially thought the first one was from someone else, but just went to check and you're totally right, which is kind of a relief!

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