goodboy92 Posted March 12, 2016 Share Posted March 12, 2016 Hello all, I am new to this forum and have only over the past few years gotten into ABDL. Link to comment
DiaperBoy37 Posted March 13, 2016 Share Posted March 13, 2016 Well for starters, you cant act on impulse. In order to keep people from finding out about it, you have to be smart about it. Link to comment
Elfy Posted March 13, 2016 Share Posted March 13, 2016 Obviously every professional will be different but I've been to an adult nursery a few times and it wasn't really my thing, it got dull fast. Don't expect the full loving experience, professional mommies are doing it for money and although they may be affectionate and everything else, it isn't a good substitute for someone who cares about you and wants to be your mommy. 1 Link to comment
DLdapper Posted March 13, 2016 Share Posted March 13, 2016 Keyfabe really hit on the some of the real key aspects of what you get out of a scene with a payed professional caretaker. Most of them do it for the money, they may also be caretakers outside of the job, but it is extremely rare to find one who can commit themselves to really caring about each of their clients. You are for the most part Link to comment
goodboy92 Posted March 14, 2016 Author Share Posted March 14, 2016 Thank you everyone for the replies so far. 26 minutes ago, DLdapper said: Keyfabe really hit on the some of the real key aspects of what you get out of a scene with a payed professional caretaker. Most of them do it for the money, they may also be caretakers outside of the job, but it is extremely rare to find one who can commit themselves to really caring about each of their clients. You are for the most part Link to comment
Glennie Posted March 14, 2016 Share Posted March 14, 2016 I used to be a big part of a profession nursery.. I will also agree.. Link to comment
DLdapper Posted March 14, 2016 Share Posted March 14, 2016 If you are looking to explore. I would strongly suggest connecting with your local community. They will open up a lot of opportunity to expose yourself to new stuff, or even experience it with others. You can set up a scene or play date with people you met and become friends with. They will care about the scene, in a genuine way. Link to comment
PoopyDiaperDude Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 Years ago I would occasionally call one of those "phone a mommy" places. Link to comment
MommyPaige Posted March 20, 2016 Share Posted March 20, 2016 So as a pro Mommy myself, I'm probably going to be biased here, but I wanted to offer some advice anyway. I think as long as you can reasonably afford it, and as long as you can find a Mommy in your area that you think you would get along with, you should absolutely try it. If it ends up not being for you, that's perfectly ok too! But I think there's a fairly good chance you'll have a great time and want to return 1 Link to comment
Diapered Jason Posted March 20, 2016 Share Posted March 20, 2016 My prime concern has always been the cost, which with any dominatrix is usually rediculuous. The pro mom above wants $100 an hour on average. I'm sorry, but if you charge the same rate as a mechanic, you better be able to fix cars. My son's daycare is $200 a week and they have way more overhead. To hire a babysitter is $20 an hour, and they have the same skill you do. I see no justification for the cost other than just what people are willing to pay. Link to comment
Elfy Posted March 20, 2016 Share Posted March 20, 2016 $100 an hour is ridiculous and yet it does seem a lot charge around that much... Especially when a lot of time is used either in a crib or watching TV. I could put on a nappy and watch TV at home! I visited a professional nursery a few times where the price was about Link to comment
DL4LIFE Posted March 20, 2016 Share Posted March 20, 2016 A $100 an hr. What's the big deal. 1 Link to comment
Elfy Posted March 20, 2016 Share Posted March 20, 2016 I'm not saying that anything anyone here said is wrong... Just that the prices are ridiculous but since there is a desperate customer base for the most part they will still get business. I think spending that money on an escort or on drugs would also be desperate. The problem I have with the price is that you get very little to nothing out of it... Put in a nappy, given a bottle then put in a crib or watching kids TV... This is all stuff you can do at home for a lot less money. But you add a woman in to change that nappy and all of a sudden it costs bucket loads of cash... The experience really isn't all that much, most of the time you spend there is often taken up with mundane things designed to fill time. But it is sold like so much more... Phrases like "Live out your fantasy" etc, when in reality it is a couple of nappy changes, maybe a bath and feeding and that's it. Maybe I'm just not the target audience because I have been there and done that but it is really not worth that much money... Link to comment
paddedpunk13 Posted March 23, 2016 Share Posted March 23, 2016 If you think a pro-mommy charges too much then don't see her. Women don't owe you their Link to comment
mamabug Posted March 24, 2016 Share Posted March 24, 2016 If you are just wanting to explore this side of you....why don't you? Why do you need a pro mommy or anything to explore what you might like or dislike? Just buy some diapers and whatever else you're into and have at it! If it's because you have to be discreet about it...well then try to find some time or something? Much better than paying high prices for something you may not even be into. 1 Link to comment
rosalie.bent Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 It is an interesting question, but the issue that is not really addressed is that people dont just want an experience; they want far more. Mothering isnt a 2-3 hour job. It is 24/7/365. 1 Link to comment
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