I need help!

[NewBaby2016]

Hi, I'm new to all of this! I didn't even realize I

[Elfy]

If you only found out a few months ago and are super new to this, I would suggest not going for any incontinence yet... Just wear when you want to and ease yourself into it.

That said, the only way to make it easier to pee your nappy is to practice, the more you wear the easier it gets to go in any position.

[canuckistan.who]

Echoing Elf; Slow down.

You will find that, for almost everyone, this comes in "binges and purges". Expect before long to go through a purge where you try to leave all this behind and do so for a while, then come back to it.

You'll find yourself a lot happier just going with things, literally and figuratively. Your mind has set conditions where it feels safe to pee. It takes time to "reprogram" that, so to speak. Don't hold back too much, don't push to much. The key word is patience and being level about it all.