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The effect of wearing 24/7 and incontinence desires

Becoming incontinent by wearing 24/7  

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  1. 1. How long did you wear 24/7, when you noticed, that you got gravely urinary incontinent at DAYTIME (accidents without protection, bad bladder control...)?

    • approx 1/2 year
      19
    • approx one year
      11
    • 1 - 2 years
      11
    • longer than 2 years
      4
    • longer than 3 years
      4
    • longer than 5 years
      2
    • longer than 10 years
      2
    • never
      33
  2. 2. How long did you wear 24/7, when you noticed, that you got gravely urinary incontinent at NIGHT (bedwetting)?

    • approx 1/2 year
      27
    • approx one year
      5
    • 1 - 2 years
      11
    • longer than 2 years
      1
    • longer than 3 years
      5
    • longer than 5 years
      3
    • longer than 10 years
      1
    • never
      33


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lalelukid    0

Hello to all the special people, who got (or want to get) urinary incontinent by wearing diapers 24/7.

And hello also to all people, who are actually on this struggling way with incontinence desires...

I´m interested in the percentage of the effort in doing this. And in detail I´m interested, how much time the process of becoming incontinent has token for you.

Thank you very much for your participation!

Lalelu Kid

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Rachel Emily    101

I started wearing diapers because I was having problems with daytime continence, but didn't start wetting the bed until about four years ago. (After having worn, off and on, since the nineties).

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Saschadzg    19

I was a bedwetter before getting daytime issues.

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joemama    1

I started wearing for some spasms that were coming more frequently and intensity.  After realizing it was just easier to let go and trust my diaper, and I got over the mental stigma of worrying about others knowing, I was pretty much incontinent during the day.  I have only had two night wettings, but would not be upset if they came more often.

 

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Craisler    64

Your choices don't reflect reality for most DLs.  Things are not as binary as the questions imply.  I started wearing mostly at night and eventually became a chronic bed wetter. Later, I wore diapers increasingly often during the day becoming comfortable with wearing and using them.  When I finally went 24/7, it took several years before I finally called myself incontinent.  

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Kaliborio    42

I wore full-time without deliberately trying to untrain.

I had mild erosion of control for roughly the first eighteen months that I was wearing full time, but it was of the "have to remember to pee" sort. Around September 2015 I started to experience a sharp diminution in urinary control marked by beginning to wet the bed - I'd been sleeping in diapers, often wet diapers, for about a year before that.

My current control is that I have about half an hour maximum between knowing I have to pee and peeing (whether I want to or not). That changes sharply depending on what I've drunk that day - caffeine takes it down to about 5 minutes, if I drink alcohol I have basically no warning at all.

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oleman72    17

Wore some kind of protection for several years. Until about 4 years I started wearing diapers 24/7.

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kumagoro11    9

When I began this journey in 2012, I had a very strong bladder. I could easily go 8-10 hours without having to void. I was never a bed wetter when I was young either and can only remember one time ever that it happened (was very ill at the time). I know I have to post an update soon since it's been about 2 years since my last update here but I'm almost incontinent at this point. For me it took about a year to start going more frequently, 2 years before I could start going without noticing and 3 years before I could go in any position and not even feel anything, especially while walking or going up/down stairs.

When I began, I had a very hard time going with a tight diaper on, it had to be lose and so did my pants/shorts. If it was too tight (like using a belt) I would have issues, especially once I started wetting every 15-30 minutes but then became blocked due to the restriction. Having an erection and going was near impossible as well as sitting.

Today, the diaper can be pretty tight and it isn't an issue, doesn't matter if I have an erection or not (and wearing all the time does seem I have lost that over time too, I guess due to constant restriction), and or sitting in a 90 degree position on a chair. If I get sick (common cold, etc) oh boy do I uncontrollably wet. I need to use the thickest diaper around for that because I'm a constant trickle.

It has become very difficult to figure out just how bad I need to go. Some times I still get that I need to go now feeling but hardly anything will come out. Usually when that happens I'll be thinking back to having a flood and leaking all over and panic only to be surprised if 5 ounces comes out. I diffidently have moments where I do not recall wetting to only change clothes and see a wet diaper and know I should change.

Last, at night I use thick disposable diapers. And usually when I awake the diaper is soaked, even near the front as when i'm sleeping on my tummy at some point during the night the urine must run upwards. I do still have movements during the night where I awake to only find out that within a second or two I can feel warmth on my rear knowing I just started to go. Usually its when I get night time erections and I'm awakened because I usually twist around during sleep probably blocking the flow.

Personally I have no regrets. I absolutely love it and I know I'm probably in the smaller group that tries this and continues on. I'm still an active person too, I go hiking almost every weekend and just use cloth-like pull ups like depends men briefs. I haven't tried to ride a bicycle yet but I will be testing this out in about a month. I'm coming up to 4 years now in late August and one thing I will say is if you go this far, it will be near impossible to go back. 

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username    8

I personally think one can lose bladder control quicker than the 12 month diaper program suggests once one learns to completely relax one's sphincter. 

I'm two months into wearing 24/7. My ultimate goal is complete incontinence but my mind-set at the moment is if I don't gain incontinence I'm going to wear anyway regardless because I enjoy diapers so much but I suspect incontinence will creep up on me because in these last two months I have lost more and more of my continence.

I'm at the point now although I still have to commence peeing I have a very large after dribble in my diaper which is only noticeable when I'm moving around this can last 20/30 seconds and I'm peeing in smaller amounts too, at night I wake up several times, pee then fall back to sleep, I don't care if I leak and most mornings around 5am I have to change my diaper because it's leaked and has become uncomfortable. I'm drinking loads to keep the flow going. I can pee in all positions, sitting, lying down, standing on my head, etc. What is really cool is that I'm noticing small dribbles of pee involuntary leaking out now and again when moving around, sometimes I don't even notice.

It does take some time to completely learn to relax the sphincter because it tends to spasm and clamp shut, this is bad because it exercises it, but with determination one learns to keep it relaxed in all positions even walking up the stairs. With regards to the stairs this is when my sphincter would clamp shut but now with practice it's always open and now I find myself leaking in very small amounts while walking up the stairs.

With regards to Erections! Don't Masturbate. Ever. This exercises the sphincter muscles and with me totally drains my sexual desire to wear, this resulting in the binge and purge cycle. I found after I did the business I would not have the desire to wear and would go without wearing for a couple of hours until it built up again and I had a strong desire to wear again. I haven't masturbated in two months and after roughly 3 weeks I pretty much stopped getting erections, stopped waking up with one and that horrible horney feeling subsided and become less intence. I think it's possible to completely lose the power to get erections.

I don't care if people notice I'm wearing. I live with three other people in a houseshare and they pretty much now I wear diapers, I don't hide the fact but try and remain discreet. I think they have noticed that I'm now washing bedding and clothing everyday but they haven't said anything. 

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dljim95    42

I have been 24/7 now for over 7 years. It took around 24 months to lose bladder control and over 5 years to lose bowel control. I am fully diaper depended and love every day of it. Unpotty training takes time and you have to learn to accept you will leak and in my case mess at the wrong place and time but I can always find a place to change my diapers if needed, just part of being a AB.

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anned    12

I was a bedwetter till 12.

I am now going on 13 years as a 24/7 wearer and still have not wet in my sleep at night.

But i like waking up and wetting my diaper  at night.

i would miss the warn wet feeling of laying there and just letting it flow.

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Bettypooh    919

Bladder control? I wear diapers- I don't need no steenking bladder control :roflmao:

I still have limited control when I decide to exercise it. It's not a lot but it can get me to the bathroom in time here at home and is useful for times I'm 'airing out'. I don't try to exercise control and after a couple years of 24/7 wearing things usually just happen on their own. Over half the time I don't even notice it until the flow is well underway and about a quarter of the time I just notice that my diaper is much wetter than it was a while ago.  Enjoying the feel of a wet diaper helps things along. Just let go of all thoughts regarding your bladder continence and your body will follow along in time- not trying to retain urine is the natural state of the body B)

Bettypooh

 

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I've been wearing diapers now for about three years and 24/7 ish for nearly two.  My wife was aware of my overactive bladder problem (I've had all the tests). And that I was wearing pull ups.  I secretly bought Tena Maxis and wear them day and night, feel more secure and have crept into being a diaper lover.  I recently had a night leak and my wife suggested that I buy diapers for night time. Yippee it is now in the open.

All should be perfect for losing control but apart from going more often (a shrinking bladder?) after two years I still get warning , go and know when I have gone.  I know I could give up diapers tomorrow and have complete control although as a diaper lover I have no desire to.  I am, however, worrying what do to when we go on a two week holiday in France with friends this summer.   I believe it is a lack of commitment in my subconscious that keeps me from my goal not just practice, practice. How I would like to be in that majority that have lost most control in under a year. 

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Bettypooh    919

If you have a strong subconscious objection to anything, you'll find it extremely difficult to overcome it. The key to success is fully wanting something without exception or reservation ;) You have to accept all parts of something to get any of it. With this subject there can be a dichotomy between daytime and nighttime control, but losing one will sometimes bring the other whether you wanted that or not, though usually it doesn't. 

I have some reservations about bedwetting so I rarely pee while fully asleep although I could achieve that if I pushed myself in that direction. I'm just not ready to go that far yet because it could affect an intimate relationship adversely and I don't want to lessen those prospects. If I found a partner who was OK with it I'm sure it would happen quickly as I am a strong-willed person B)

Bettypooh

 

 

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wetdiaper222    14

I don't desire to become incontinent but I do desire to wear diapers all day every day and night. 

If I do happen to lose control then I'll just deal with it. 

I do think I'd be okay with the 24/7 wearing and using diapers as I do find myself wanting to diaper up a lot more than I used too. 

I just need to get enough diapers so I can fully try it out. 

I work at home so can wear diapers in my house without problems even without pants I want too. 

When I do go out I'm not nervous anymore about people maybe seeing the waistband of my diaper. 

When I do go 24/7 I plan to use them for both number 1 and number 2. When in public in a diaper I'll try and wait until I get away from other before messing. 

Awhile back I had pooped my diaper and didn't want to take it off and change quite yet because It was barely wet. 

My mom called and said that my dad wanted me to come over and help him fix something with the truck. 

So I thought for a minute and decided what the heck. I'll just spray some cologne on myself and my pants and mask the smell. And go over there and help him.

I was there for about an hour before I finally finished wetting the diaper then I came home and cleaned up. 

It felt good to be in that messy diaper working on that truck. 

I put my coveralls on too so that way if the diaper leaked it wouldn't show on my pants. 

One good thing about living here and poopy diapers is that there is a cattle feed lot that you can smell the crap from when the wind blows this direction. 

It's about 8 miles away. And you can't smell anything over that. lol

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JonBoi65    23

I have always had a weak bladder which has never really caused me any issues with the exception of "dribbling" effects. And even that I did not mind. Now, having become more of a seasoned senior over the past few years (64 young..lol) my bladder has become much weaker to say the least but still controllable to a degree. But I have been a DL for years and I do not wish to have that control. I am very comfy with my desire to become bladder incontinent. And as such that little bladder muscle becomes more and more relaxed and open as each day slides by....much to my wetting happiness:rolleyes:

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stevewet    144

I wear nappies or large incontinence pads all the time now and have done for well over three years. I wear nappies and plastic pants at night and tena comfort extra or attends level 9 pads by day held in place with net fixing pants under my inco boxer shorts. My continence nurse strongly advised me to stay away from nappies during the day and try to keep what remaining bladder control I had but eventually agreed it wasn't her that was having to deal with uncontrollable pants wetting episodes. She warned me I would very quickly loose what control I had left onceI started wearing nappies or pads all the time and of course she was right. I now have little control and to be honest never try any more I just use my nappy and let it flow.

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DLBiker    82

I became urinary incontinent as the result of an accident.  My prior diaper wearing was not part of it.

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oldwetter66    39

      In jan 2013 I fell on some ice that was when I started to wet Day and night

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skizics    10

Diapers DON'T Cause incontinence... PERIOD ! Incontinence is the Problem and diapers are the Cure, not the other way around. This is really about Good vs. Bad habits and that is a well researched topic with tons of research to back it up.

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Just re-reading these posts I have noted that I posted in March to say that after 2 years I still had control despite being 24/7 but perhaps subconsciously was afraid of total loss.

Well, nine months later I note that my bladder has shrunk and I need  to void smaller amounts more often and with no hesitation but there are occasions when I need hold to and am able to.  Nighttime sleep wetting has evaded me after nearly three years but I wake, void and sleep with ease.  

I agree that for me,  practice, practice does not lead to unconscious, unknowing voiding and I am glad - that slow warming flow is the comfort and key to DL stress free life.  No more the rush to find a public toilet because of my stress incontinence.

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oldwetter66    39

   for me day wetting and bed wetting both started at the same time after my fall in 2013

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dlnoir    49

I’ve Just been reading these posts. Even after so many years of wearing 24/7, some 18 or 19 years now, I have to say I still have control despite being in diapers 24/7. Pretty much like another member already said, it could be due to subconsciously being afraid of total loss, I don’t know. I can’t even say that my bladder has shrunk even after all these years of wearing diapers and the use of stents. I need  to pee smaller amounts and more often if I take the stent out, but so far after two or three days it is all back to normal. If a situation comes up and I need to hold my pee I am perfectly able to do so after a couple of days that is, that requires some planning ahead. I am quite happy with the current situation for it brings me incontinence with an on and off switch. Then again I doubt if I were to become really incontinent that I would mind. So far I find the liberation of have no control fulfilling and a valuable addition to my daily routines. A lot of people know I wear diaper and the most of them know the true reason, no hiding at all that is also very liberating.

  

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oldwetter66    39
On 11/21/2016 at 8:25 PM, oldwetter66 said:

      In jan 2013 I fell on some ice that was when I started to wet Day and night

   It has now been 4 years since I started to wet.At 1st it was hard on me I was ashamed that I was in diapers my wife was up set too at 1st but she got over it.MY wife died in jay last year I was set up with a lady my age that wets too we are now good friends my 2 adult daughters are ok with it

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