Elfy Posted February 1, 2016 Share Posted February 1, 2016 It might just be a thing he enjoys doing alone. Sometimes I am the same way, where I will be much happier wearing whilst my fiance is at work and other times I like wearing when she is around. The only answer is the same answer to 90% of the questions raised in this forum and that is to talk to him. Ask him why he is wearing when you aren't around, ask if there is something you did that made him uncomfortable, reiterate you are OK with him wearing around you etc... No one here knows your boyfriend so you are the person best placed to know what to ask and how to talk to him. Link to comment
Crimson_Wolf Posted February 1, 2016 Share Posted February 1, 2016 I concur with Elfking, if he told you about already and you are indeed ok with it I would talk to him. Link to comment
Dill_Pickle Posted February 3, 2016 Share Posted February 3, 2016 Among DLs, particularly, there's a famous "Binge/Purge" cycle...where once whatever the underlying need is satisfied, all kinds of negative feelings (including embarrassment, self-disgust, etc) about the activities come to the surface. Link to comment
feralfreak Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 i think the best thing to do is ask him why is stopped wearing around you, and if he is feeling self concious about it, ask him to go and put them on(you maybe wearing too, i think it would help and you might like it), and make some positive comment. Link to comment
allartec Posted February 13, 2016 Author Share Posted February 13, 2016 Thank you all for your advice ... I 1 Link to comment
Baby Claudia Posted March 11, 2016 Share Posted March 11, 2016 Try not to make it a 'big thing', just approach it gently. He needs to know you are OK with it and that you can work together to set rules and boundaries. Just take it slowly. He also needs to understand what he can do for YOU. Its a two way street and you are just as important, if not more so. Link to comment
herb330 Posted September 4, 2016 Share Posted September 4, 2016 (edited) Being around a partner and having no issues with the Edited September 4, 2016 by herb330 spelling Link to comment
me not you Posted December 19, 2016 Share Posted December 19, 2016 Easy way to show you Link to comment
Fulldiaper Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 The first thing I would say, "do you have an open communication" with him? Sit down with him and over a glass of wine or a beer discuss fantasies for the both of you. You might even suggest he wear a diaper, or put him in it while you talk and let nature take its course. Link to comment
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