Dill_Pickle Posted January 28, 2016 Share Posted January 28, 2016 http://www.theguardian.com/culture/2016/jan/28/the-festival-of-really-good-sex-introducing-whole-new-schools-of-thought This mainstream article gets about halfway through when it has a page about "daddy" relationships. Link to comment
WBDaddy Posted January 28, 2016 Share Posted January 28, 2016 The workshop leader presented the Daddy Dom/babygirl sub concept. 1 Link to comment
minachan16 Posted January 28, 2016 Share Posted January 28, 2016 That DDLG workshop sounds like it was garbage. No safe words because "Daddy knows best?" Ladies, RUN! Link to comment
Elfy Posted January 28, 2016 Share Posted January 28, 2016 I'm all for dom/sub relationships but when you start having to hand over all control including private things like looking through the other persons texts and e-mails and stuff like that then it starts sounding unhealthy to me. Anything like that that is kept up 24/7 sounds unhealthy. No safe word at all, no right to privacy, no control over anything at all 24 hours a day... I mean, it creates emotional and mental dependence... Now imagine if, for whatever reason, the dom and sub are separated. Not a good situation. It is creepy. I have no problem with dom/sub things that last short term or even longer term (like, a few days in a row)... But non-stop, that isn't good for anyone. 1 Link to comment
WBDaddy Posted January 29, 2016 Share Posted January 29, 2016 9 hours ago, minachan16 said: That DDLG workshop sounds like it was garbage. No safe words because "Daddy knows best?" Ladies, RUN! My babygirl and I have no safe words, but that's because I don't beat her or put her in compromising situations. Link to comment
Elfy Posted January 29, 2016 Share Posted January 29, 2016 I don't think you know what trust means. Because if you really trust someone you let them have private things without feeling the need to invade that space to check up on them. Trust isn't letting your partner read all your correspondence, it is letting your partner talk to whoever they like and that you don't need to read everything. I can't think of anything that shows less trust than reading texts, e-mails or whatever else that your partner sent. Same with financial things, same with social things, same with anything. Sounds more like paranoia than trust. And if you'll notice in my post I said it is fine to do the whole dom/sub thing for stints but that when it is permanent it becomes unhealthy, and yes I would say the same thing to people who said they were AB 24/7... Anyone who involves their kink in every aspect of their life, no matter what that kink is, is unhealthy. Link to comment
WBDaddy Posted January 29, 2016 Share Posted January 29, 2016 2 hours ago, Elfking said: I don't think you know what trust means. Because if you really trust someone you let them have private things without feeling the need to invade that space to check up on them. Trust isn't letting your partner read all your correspondence, it is letting your partner talk to whoever they like and that you don't need to read everything. I can't think of anything that shows less trust than reading texts, e-mails or whatever else that your partner sent. Same with financial things, same with social things, same with anything. Sounds more like paranoia than trust. And if you'll notice in my post I said it is fine to do the whole dom/sub thing for stints but that when it is permanent it becomes unhealthy, and yes I would say the same thing to people who said they were AB 24/7... Anyone who involves their kink in every aspect of their life, no matter what that kink is, is unhealthy. Link to comment
Guest Posted January 30, 2016 Share Posted January 30, 2016 The guy described in the article seems like a predator only in it because he gets off on power. Link to comment
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