"A guy would be lucky to have you"

[mamabug]

This is just a small rant lol. Every time I have told someone my fetish (not just here, I've told people my fetish on an anonymous app before), you can bet one of the first things they say to me is:

"Any guy would be lucky to havet a mommy like you." Or something along those lines.

No, no that's not how it goes. I would be the lucky one to have someone who accepts my fetish.

[Phenomenal Princess]

I relate but from the AB side of that and being told 'a guy would be lucky to be your daddy'.

[AwakenEvil]

People tell me I'm a lucky bastard all the time for my relationship with Sara. I can say it wasn't luck but hard work. It took a lot of open trustworthy communication and devotion to the relationship to move forward with our lives in the kinkster world. When someone tells me I am lucky I am not offended and yes I am very lucky in some ways. She could have simply decided that my fetish and kink was just to strange and I am lucky she was open minded enough to see the person I was and the goals I wanted in life to achieve. There isn't a day I don't count myself as one of the blessed ones to have a person in my life that cares for me deeply and enjoys the same hobbies and sexual wierdness.

[mamabug]

20 minutes ago, Phenomenal Princess said:

I relate but from the AB side of that and being told 'a guy would be lucky to be your daddy'.

[WBDaddy]

The one thing that could be interpreted as "fortunate" for you, Mamabug, is that you certainly have a HUGE pool of men out there to choose from in terms of baby boys.

[Elfy]

I mean, to be fair, I am lucky... I am terrible with other people, never even kissed another person until I met Alice in chat and within a couple of weeks we met in London, a week later I was visiting where she lived and a few weeks after that I met her parents. She doesn't even come in chat much, if I hadn't come in exactly when I did (and defended them in an argument no less) then we would never have met. She even broke the rules by PMing me without permission (she was lucky I wasn't a mod back then )

I think when people say that "anyone would be lucky to have you" it is meant as a compliment... Usually said (on here) by creepy guys who want you to be their mommy, but still meant as a compliment!

[mamabug]

I know that it's supposed to be meant as a compliment and that no one meant anything bad about it, but it irks me a bit, even more when my ex boyfriend, like I said earlier, wasn't an ABDl...so why would he be lucky to have a mommy? In that sense, I was lucky to have someone who accepted and even explored a bit with me. Now, if he was ABDL, than it would be that were are both lucky

That's the thing though...I'm not looking for anybody. Even if I was ready for a relationship, I highly doubt I would seek out someone on this website or another similar one. I never been with an ABDL before and honestly, I doubt my next one will be, just there is so many other parts that are way more important to me, than sharing a interest in diapers lol to me that would just be an added bonus. (Not saying that it would never happen though.)

And I'm pretty good at spotting the HNG's (really hasn't been that bad). And just want to use me and my fantasies to help them get off

[atnboy20]

What's the saying beauty is in the eye of the beholder. My gf and I love each other because who we are not that I wear diapers or that she has brown hair. Its sucks to be pigeonholed

[minachan16]

HEAR FLIPPING HEAR!!!

Though I know it is always said with the best intentions, this is how I always feel when people say my fianc

[mamabug]

11 minutes ago, minachan16 said:

HEAR FLIPPING HEAR!!!

Though I know it is always said with the best intentions, this is how I always feel when people say my fianc

[Phenomenal Princess]

I feel like we're all on the same page here

[AwakenEvil]

[aleyxsis]

i truly appreciate what you are saying Mamabug and can also feel your frustrations .Im on the other end of the spectrum being a straight guy who dressess like a baby girl has pretty well messed up all my relationships (i told them from the start ) Even when i go on chat soon as they know im not a real girl which i do say in my profile most are afraid to talk to me lol .I myself plan on staying single for me it seems the right choice .For you keep trying you will find that right guy and i hope all the best for you !

[Diapered Jason]

Well Mamabug, you seem sweet and you look as pretty as

[mamabug]

Most of the stuff I'm talking about hasn't even really happened here (a few times). Mostly on a different app did I get told that, by almost every single person, after about the 20+ times it gets really annoying. Just how it gets annoying when guys automatically assume I'll be thier mommy and talk dirty to them as they get off on it

[Glennie]

ANYONE would be lucky to have me.. just sayin.. hehehehe j/k.. just trying to bring a little laughter to the thread

[Jilly Poo]

On the flip side of the topic.

[littlekat]

14 hours ago, mamabug said:

Just how it gets annoying when guys automatically assume I'll be thier mommy and talk dirty to them as they get off on it

[Diapered Jason]

There is this belief that there are many more males into diapers than females. I don't know if that is actually true, but what I know is

[Dubious]

I'll most likely be single until I find a girl with the same interests and no, I don't just mean diapers, but everything else too

Problem with most girls I meet is that they like to travel, I hate travelling (other stuff too, but that's the big one..)

Not keen to spend money on stuff that only last a short time, rather spend it on something that last a long time..

[mamabug]

2 hours ago, littlekat said:

I get that, when I was officially looking for a daddy I got so many guys

[Dubious]

Well, if you ever feel like moving to Norway

[glenn63]

Just my input on this topic. My own experience is