Demon-hunter Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 Ok there's a girl at work that I like a lot and she likes Link to comment
Elfy Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 C and D just won't work. If you don't tell her you will feel horrible about it and very few people can just give up their ABDL side. I've always said the one person who should know about you fetishes is you partner, I would suggest if you both decide to become a couple that you tell her shortly after. The key is to not act like it is a big deal, if you are relaxed about it when telling her she is more likely to not freak out so much. Link to comment
kdlstar9 Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 She is your big so you have to tell her. But if she is a coworker- then no. Don't ever date coworkers- it gets way too complicated way too fast Link to comment
ldatsea Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 She is your big so you have to tell her. But if she is a coworker- then no. Don't ever date coworkers- it gets way too complicated way too fast co-workers can be a real big issue if you ever have a fight... I would not tell them until after you have dated for a while if you both Link to comment
Demon-hunter Posted September 18, 2015 Author Share Posted September 18, 2015 I know I've try giving up the abdl life 100s of time, and somehow I end up here again Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 I have three co-workers at my work that also have their spouses work there too. It's never a problem so long as you agree to leave your love life at the door and stay professional at work. Apparently it's easier than it sound because they all make it work fine enough to keep doing it. I would also recommend you wait for at least a few dates with her until you open up to her. You may find something that changes your mind out about her, or it may even be that she doesn't know you enough to return the love just yet. Link to comment
Demon-hunter Posted September 21, 2015 Author Share Posted September 21, 2015 Thanks guys, and I've been struggling the binge and purge all m life :( Link to comment
Backindiapers Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Thanks guys, and I've been struggling the binge and purge all m life I think its your age dude. Link to comment
BriGuy Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 I've always been straight forward with the women folk I date. So far I haven't had any troubles. It's all in how you present yourself. If you are down on the Abdl thing and bring it up as something that is an "issue" then it's negative from the get go. I've always tried to be positive about it, and a little quirky. So far things have been good. I am currently laying next to my wife in a bambino Classico. Link to comment
kellysbaby Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 Option E: ask questions and gauge her answers. Link to comment
erevu Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 Wait for it to become serious before telling her, but do not wait until it's too late for her to walk away if she so chooses. Link to comment
tehse7en Posted October 5, 2015 Share Posted October 5, 2015 I think its your age dude. Link to comment
delta1 Posted October 5, 2015 Share Posted October 5, 2015 Ok there's a girl at work that I like a lot and she likes Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted October 6, 2015 Share Posted October 6, 2015 And it's better to bring the diaper thing out earlier in the relationship than later. Link to comment
dlsafrica Posted October 13, 2015 Share Posted October 13, 2015 About ten years ago, I think a girl who I was friends with got the sneakiest suspicion once that I wore diapers. She looked thoughtfully and then shook her head and said "No," not thinking it could be true. The thing is... she's just the type of girl who would be overjoyed by it. Link to comment
Demon-hunter Posted November 17, 2015 Author Share Posted November 17, 2015 Ok people here and up date on my and this fantastic girl Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted December 1, 2015 Share Posted December 1, 2015 On 11/17/2015, 4:35:16, Demon-hunter said: Ok people here and up date on my and this fantastic girl Link to comment
Demon-hunter Posted December 1, 2015 Author Share Posted December 1, 2015 I went great! We are actually dating now i told her a diaper related story, but I chickened out on the question, Link to comment
tehse7en Posted December 1, 2015 Share Posted December 1, 2015 Keep us updated, I'm pulling for ya dude! Link to comment
diaperguy85 Posted December 1, 2015 Share Posted December 1, 2015 congrats on the new girlfriend!! my advice to you is the same as a bunch of other people here said here first: take your time! i didnt tell my Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 On 12/1/2015, 12:49:00, Demon-hunter said: I went great! We are actually dating now i told her a diaper related story, but I chickened out on the question, Link to comment
Demon-hunter Posted December 3, 2015 Author Share Posted December 3, 2015 19 hours ago, Baby Brian said: That could actually be a good thing. Did she react neutral or positive to the diaper story? That would be a good indication for you to move forward with her in your relationship. If it was a negative reaction then you may need to reconsider dating her. Well it was a neutral reaction, Link to comment
diaperguy85 Posted December 8, 2015 Share Posted December 8, 2015 i'm not too sure a story about poop eating was the best place to start lol Link to comment
Smash-N-Dash Posted December 9, 2015 Share Posted December 9, 2015 I think it's still a bit too early to tell her. There's kind of a sweet spot in relationships where it's OK to talk about stuff like this, at least I think there is. I think if you bring it up too early, where you know each other well enough, she'll find it disturbing if she's not open-minded enough. Bring it up too late, when you guys have been together for a while, and it could come out as you've lied to her, and you've lost her trust. I think the best way to approach it is when someone brings up deep, dark secrets, but when you both can be truly open and honest about it. Link to comment
Demon-hunter Posted December 12, 2015 Author Share Posted December 12, 2015 Here's a conversation we had on Wednesday night, I was depressed about me and my friends used to hangout a lot, and back fun, and stutt and she made me happy Link to comment
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