DLmikeb Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 well.. Its been a while since I've had a chance to be in diapers at all really, let alone fulltime. Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 I think part of it for you, is that you need to find a diaper can trust for overnight use. If you you unconsciously don't trust it, then you will keep wanting to use the the toilet instead. I'd recommend you try dry24/7. They work ok for me, but as a side sleeper I need to add a booster for even them. Once you get a good diaper just make sure when you wake up at night that you do not move, pee you diaper as much as you need to, then try and go back to sleep. I'd also recommend you try using a waterproof bed protector, ans a bed pad. This will protect your mattress and absorb any leaks- as leaks will happen but you'll just have to get used to them. 2 Link to comment
Guest YoungZeppelin Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 I suggest you look into cloth, primarily for bed as they will not leak as bad if u lay on ur side and will save you money in the long run. Link to comment
Jilly Poo Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 If you really like the way Depends fit, why not try adding a booster pad inside it. Link to comment
DiaperDisguise Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 I don't think you can go wrong doing a sampler pack. I bet you will love the Abena. Try the Molicare and the Dry24/7 too. Link to comment
DLmikeb Posted January 15, 2015 Author Share Posted January 15, 2015 after reading some of the comments here I think for the most part brian is right. becuase when I wake up i always have a bursting bladder and I am kinda worried about flooding, and also the Tena Maximum I use at night for the absorbancy, have a very big issue with iether coming undun, or just being really saggy, to the point that they are falling off. As it has no strech, if I go from the standing position (how I put on diapers) to a sitting one, it loosens off the tabs, because thers no strech.. so when I get back up its really loose.. Link to comment
DiaperDisguise Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 The big thing with wetting in bed isn't to force/push, but rather to relax as much as possible. It's the opposite of what you'd expect. Link to comment
DLmikeb Posted January 15, 2015 Author Share Posted January 15, 2015 The big thing with wetting in bed isn't to force/push, but rather to relax as much as possible. It's the opposite of what you'd expect. Link to comment
DiaperDisguise Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 Growing up we are taught that there is nothing worse than wetting the bed. It's such a strong psychological barrier to break, it just takes time and persistence. Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 This is why I mention when you wake up needing to pee, do NOT move. Learning to pee while still laying down can be quite difficult to get over, but it will happen eventually. At some point you're going to have to actually wet the bed too. When that does happen you can't freak out and start changing the sheets. That's why I recommend an additional bed pad on top of your mattress protector. You need to (unconscious) learn that even it your bed gets wet it is still ok to sleep on it. This will apply when you're getting comfortable with it, or maybe only half awake, and need to keep training your body/mind to wet the bed no matter what, because you will eventually have no control over it any ways. Link to comment
Guest YoungZeppelin Posted January 16, 2015 Share Posted January 16, 2015 This is why I mention when you wake up needing to pee, do NOT move. Learning to pee while still laying down can be quite difficult to get over, but it will happen eventually. At some point you're going to have to actually wet the bed too. When that does happen you can't freak out and start changing the sheets. That's why I recommend an additional bed pad on top of your mattress protector. You need to (unconscious) learn that even it your bed gets wet it is still ok to sleep on it. This will apply when you're getting comfortable with it, or maybe only half awake, and need to keep training your body/mind to wet the bed no matter what, because you will eventually have no control over it any ways. I have a habit of jumping when leaking but kinda getting over it. I still have a issue once in a while peeing when laying down but I think its an anxiety thing. I wake up wet, diapered or not, a few times a month. I learned this when I took a break for a night due to skin issues and woke up in the middle of peeing myself. Link to comment
Creepymouse Posted January 17, 2015 Share Posted January 17, 2015 I've been considering to make a kind of 'sleep sack' with a waterproof outer cover and an anti-wick liner. That way, I'd have to leak all the way up to my armpits before my bed gets wet. Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 I have some slight incontinence issues, so wearing diapers makes sense for me, although I'd be doing it anyway because I like it A few years back I decided to go 24/7 as much to maximize my enjoyment as it was to decide if it was what I really wanted. I got both Link to comment
Dill_Pickle Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 DLMikeb: You are working entirely too hard at wetting the bed. Link to comment
Leena DL Posted July 16, 2015 Share Posted July 16, 2015 Honestly you don't need to be worried or scared or feeling uneasy when you wear diapers 24/7. It is good that you are gradually starting to wear diapers 24/7 more often. It is a good sign that you will end up wearing diapers all the time soon. You will notice a major change in your lifestyle as you are becoming more dependent on them because wearing diapers all the time will make you feel good as you just let go without worries. 2 Link to comment
munkey Posted July 17, 2015 Share Posted July 17, 2015 Nike slogan works so well... "Just Do It". Link to comment
PlstkBakdnghtnday Posted July 19, 2015 Share Posted July 19, 2015 I've never accidentally wet at night. I always wake up when I have to go. From my experience it's best to be flat on your back with you piece pointing down (try not to be aroused). It takes a little confidence but it works. There will be leaks so about 15% of the time you should expect wet sheets. Those absorbant pads for bedwetting can take care of that. If you're still wearing depends you might as well not wear Link to comment
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