TheBabyPants Posted May 31, 2016 Share Posted May 31, 2016 Accepting it when it started as an adult was the best thing to do. 1 Link to comment
Greg03 Posted May 31, 2016 Share Posted May 31, 2016 I like being a bedwetter, I've never been dry at night and wouldn't want to be. I was pretty happy with that but now my daytime control is decreasing and I need some sort of protection at sll times now. This I'm struggling to adjust to. 1 Link to comment
stevewet Posted May 31, 2016 Author Share Posted May 31, 2016 I gave up struggling over three years ago and switched to nappies 24/7. It gets better with time. Now I am completely relaxed about the whole thing. I don't find being incontinent and dependant on nappies a big deal. Link to comment
Greg03 Posted May 31, 2016 Share Posted May 31, 2016 2 minutes ago, stevewet said: I gave up struggling over three years ago and switched to nappies 24/7. It gets better with time. Now I am completely relaxed about the whole thing. I don't find being incontinent and dependant on nappies a big deal. I hope I will start to feel this way too. I still think of myself as "having accidents" but actually these "accidents" are most of the time and I am pretty much incontinent Link to comment
bedwettersteve Posted June 4, 2016 Share Posted June 4, 2016 I accepted my bed wetting when I was in my teens I was in my late teens before I learned it was also enjoyable Link to comment
adhb Posted September 28, 2016 Share Posted September 28, 2016 I agree with Stevewet. Why suffer from incontinence when you can enjoy it? Link to comment
gobphus Posted September 28, 2016 Share Posted September 28, 2016 4 hours ago, stevewet said: I just decided why be incontinent and miserable when I could actually end up enjoying it. Becoming very much unashamedly DL was the way forward for me. I realise most people will think me mad but it is my life and if I can move on and enjoy being dependant on nappies then so what. My wife knows I have come to enjoy being in nappies and has no problem with it. She says if it helps me cope with being incontinent where is the harm. My diaper-loving began in 2009, before I began to wet in my sleep in 2011 and well before I was diagnosed with BPH (enlarged prostate) in 2014. However, now I feel less defensive about my wearing diapers at night, even though I originally did it for pleasure, rather than, as now, for necessity. Link to comment
deewet Posted September 29, 2016 Share Posted September 29, 2016 I have to say that as a child growing up, I had a diaper fetish. Link to comment
stevewet Posted September 29, 2016 Author Share Posted September 29, 2016 Growing up I didn't have a nappy fetish. I just didn't mind the fact I wet the bed and gradually started to enjoy it. I never cared that I wet my self quite a lot too and gradually this became a pleasurable thing. I had to stop wetting my pants before I moved up to secondry school but never stopped wetting my bed until my early 20s. Now I am incontinent I couldn't be happier. I thoroughly enjoy my need for nappies and nightly wetting. Link to comment
rubbersheetmike Posted October 6, 2016 Share Posted October 6, 2016 On 2016-09-28 at 8:53 AM, adhb said: I agree with Stevewet. Why suffer from incontinence when you can enjoy it? I'm not sure enjoyment is the goal for a lot of us. Accepting it and dealing with it are important. I don't psychologically think of myself as a wetter and I'm never really sure if I'm a true DL. Some would probably say I'm in denial but that's okay with me as long as I'm coping. I can seldom go a day anymore without wetting my pants. I'm a bit self-conscious after I've wet in public but I just try to think about it as one of those things in life that I can't fully control. Link to comment
deewet Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 <Why suffer from incontinence when you can enjoy it? > What more can I say???? Link to comment
gobphus Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 6 minutes ago, deewet said: <Why suffer from incontinence when you can enjoy it? > What more can I say???? This is exactly my attitude too. I can't imagine "curing" my nocturnal incontinence, now that I'm enjoying diapers and wetting do much. 1 Link to comment
Angela Bauer Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 I reverted to bedwetting in July 1976, a few days after I reached puberty. Fortunately my Mom had never removed the waterproof sheet protecting my mattress. After I took a shower to clean myself, Mom spent enough time coaching me that I was confident pinning on and unpinning my diaper. Although I could not then remember ever going to bed diapered, that evening I fell asleep without drama. The next morning my diaper was damp but not saturated. My bed was dry. I just accepted the reality that I was challenged by secondary nocturnal urinary incontinence. A urologist told me that a few days later. Mom explained that while I could hope to regain bladder control, that was a very long shot. For many years I continued to think of diapers as a huge consumer of my spare time. In June 1985 I reverted to day wetting, causing me to resent diapers even more. Finally in September 1990 I learned about Adult Babies. In the article those were nice people who actually had bladder control so they wore and wet diapers for fun. Therefore I began to find ways of having fun while diapered. Almost immediately I stopped resenting my diapers. I consider accepting and even having fun in diapers to be healthy. 2 Link to comment
sport Posted November 8, 2016 Share Posted November 8, 2016 I was confined to diapers by my wife due to medical reasons had problems off and on.I have become very close to the diapers after a while is very secure for me. Link to comment
stevewet Posted November 9, 2016 Author Share Posted November 9, 2016 15 hours ago, sport said: I was confined to diapers by my wife due to medical reasons had problems off and on.I have become very close to the diapers after a while is very secure for me. When my incontinence became a problem my wife and I discussed nappies or pads as she calls them. She suggested it would be more comfortable if I wore them. Then being in the caring profession she contacted the continence nurse who told her how to get me refered. After Doctors appointments, a couple of urology clinics and a couple of meetings with the continence nurse. I was given my diagnosis and allowed a supply of pads from the NHS. My wife has never once complained about my incontinence and says it just isn't a big deal. Link to comment
sport Posted November 9, 2016 Share Posted November 9, 2016 I had some trouble when growing up then dry for awhile then when older started night wetting and more daytime accidents.Told my wife and she said you need diapers to keep bed and me dry.She is a lot younger than me so have been confined to diapers due to diabetic and have adjusted real well to them. Link to comment
mick_dl Posted August 1, 2018 Share Posted August 1, 2018 I'm a DL since my youth, and also had bedwetting problems in my childhood. Since a couple of years I have from time to time bed wetting problems again, and I can they that I hate it. For me it's not the same to pee in a diaper for sexual arousal or to wake up while I'm peeing myself in the night. This is not only embarrassing but also nasty because I'm traveling a lot and have then to take care that none of my colleagues mentioned it. I understand that some DL's might wish to be a bedwetter - however I can say that since it happened to me again I'm not really happy with it. 1 Link to comment
oldwetter66 Posted August 2, 2018 Share Posted August 2, 2018 Yes I do now.I still dont like it but I know I will wet.I do wear cloth diapers too bed too keep bed dry. Link to comment
stevewet Posted August 2, 2018 Author Share Posted August 2, 2018 6 hours ago, oldwetter66 said: Yes I do now.I still dont like it but I know I will wet.I do wear cloth diapers too bed too keep bed dry. My bedwetting doesn't bother me at all now. To be honest it never did.I couldn't imagine being dry at night now. Link to comment
oldwetter66 Posted August 2, 2018 Share Posted August 2, 2018 I was never a bedwetter as a kid past 4 I was dry all the time untell jan 2013 I was 64 I fell on ice that was when my wetting started my wife was up set at 1st but got over it my 2 Adult daughters both told her I was still the same guy My wife died in jan 2016 I meet a lady my age that wet too soon after she lost her bladder control after having her 3rd baby Link to comment
BabyDL44 Posted August 9, 2018 Share Posted August 9, 2018 As a kid I wet the bed until the age of 15. At that time it was hard to deal with. Having an overbearing mother didn't help the cause any. Now I'm 45 and my bedwetting has come back. It's been about 4 months now. It left me frustrated at first. Now waking up to a wet diaper somehow feels good. 1 Link to comment
Newbee Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 I must admit since I have been told by my doctor to wear diapers at night I have woken up soaked every morning and I hate it. Will I ever get use to it? 1 Link to comment
stevewet Posted August 26, 2018 Author Share Posted August 26, 2018 14 hours ago, Newbee said: I must admit since I have been told by my doctor to wear diapers at night I have woken up soaked every morning and I hate it. Will I ever get use to it? It depends on your approach to it.I have embraced and fully accepted that I wet the bed and it is not a problem any more. Link to comment
foofybabykitten Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 24 minutes ago, stevewet said: It depends on your approach to it.I have embraced and fully accepted that I wet the bed and it is not a problem any more. Mhm, waking up with a wet diaper is just another part of me now, and I figure I would rather enjoy my bed wetting than live resenting it. It's all a perspective thing, yea I uncontrollably wet myself in my sleep, which sucks, but I enjoy wet diapers; kind of a glass half full or half empty situation and I decided to be a half full kind of person and glean any enjoyment I can from my bed wetting. Link to comment
littlemiki1981 Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 Sure I accept it and I feel very good while I pee in bed or in diaper. I feel very childish, as I'd like to be Link to comment
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