kevindhca Posted September 28, 2014 Posted September 28, 2014 I wear one size bigger pants than I could wear with a t-shirt that's slightly long. I like loose fitting pants for mobility while working anyway and always wear a belt. I wear Real-Fit at work and they're very discrete, but have impressive absorbency. When you wear the same thing all the time, that's what looks normal to others. 1
dribbler2 Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 I think people get too concerned about hte bulge- what often gives the game away is not the bulge,but the white plastic top of the diaper showing above the top of your pants. I solve this by wearing a tee shirt tucked into boxerbriefs over my diaper.
oleman72 Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 I don't worry at all about the bulge. I put on my panties over my disposable and put on my elastic waist female jeans and go on about my daily business.
whisko Posted October 17, 2014 Posted October 17, 2014 bulges are no big deal. i mean, i don't even usually *wear* a diaper, and people check out my bulge all the time! ;-D
Spargano Posted October 18, 2014 Posted October 18, 2014 I cover this a little bit in my guide, but creative clothing choices will conceal perfectly. I wear comfidrys everywhere and so long as I am wearing a loose sweater or untucked shirt I am fine
stevewet Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 If I have to wear short skirts I wear thick tights/pantyhose and pretend the bulge is a piece of clothing. Hi Jenny. Has anyone ever said anything about your nappy wearing? No one has ever said anything to me. I doubt anyone either notices nor really cares.
stevewet Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 I didn't need to follow the 12 month program as incontinence just happened for me and fortunately I quickly learned to enjoy being this way and wouldn't want to be cured if it were possible. I would love to know how many people have followed the 12 month prgram and if they did do they regret it. For me becoming dependent on nappies has been a good thing but I would love to hear from others.
Baby Brian Posted December 18, 2014 Posted December 18, 2014 I don't bother going out of my way to hide my diapers because nobody ever notices any ways. Just don't wear anything tight and you'll be fine. 2
stevewet Posted December 19, 2014 Posted December 19, 2014 I don't try to anymore don't care Same here I make no effort to hide them although I don't openly flaunt them either. If someone notices then it's for them to deal with. 1
Bettypooh Posted December 19, 2014 Posted December 19, 2014 Likes to the two above Unless you give them a reason to notice, almost mobody will. And those who do notice such details are used to it- many of them wonder if what they thought they saw was real and many just keep the things they see to themselves because there's nothinbg to gain by saying something about it Plus the more you worry about it, the more you stand out as having something going on so just don't worry, aim for discretion, and go on doing whatever makes you happy
Inconito Posted December 20, 2014 Posted December 20, 2014 Just be confident when out and about, especially as a man, you don't have to worry about anyone looking at your ass. I can see the problem if your a woman and wearing high capacity diapers during the day, then you might have a problem....with an obvious diaperbutt.
Creepymouse Posted December 20, 2014 Posted December 20, 2014 LOL inconito... I don't know... I kinda like that look.
Inconito Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 Personally I don't mind having an obvious diaperbutt when at home On the outside I try to be discreet about me wearing. However I have had occasions were I wore a rather bulky clothdiaper when shopping which have meant my butt was pretty obvious I had a thick diaper on, but never had any funny looks anyway. So in general I think people are too occupied minding their own business to notice.
stevewet Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 It used to worry me when I first started wearing nappies all the time. My wife told me no one could tell though I always feel you could but after a while you realise no one really cares anyway.
ssdiapers Posted December 24, 2014 Posted December 24, 2014 I wear molicare super, they are bulky to say the least but I just don't have an issue with what people think.
Bettypooh Posted December 24, 2014 Posted December 24, 2014 The last several times I've went by the office after work I've had on a well-used Tena Slip Maxi which had a severe case of baggy-butt Nobody seems to notice and nothing had been said after a couple years wearing to work constantly. I've also rustled loudly moving around with a few of the other folks working around me certain to have heard- again nothing said
Eir Posted February 1, 2015 Posted February 1, 2015 Hope y'all wont mind if I post here... I wear certainty guards for men. I hold the blue strip over the boys, raise my first pair of nylon/lycra bikini panties, then the second panties, then the jeans. The guards give me a slight waddle. Who cares? I still have spurting accidents when I go from a continence hold down to a restroom hold, and accidentally spurt when I hit zero before using a urinal. I am slowly but surely being able to have conscious control over my hold. I literally had to re learn that. For the record, living with SB was the real embarrassment, having to potty train when I lost the super hold is totally worth it! I posted many articles in this section during my first stay. I am now a pee mortal, and I have had my share of wetting accidents. Some were fun, some were unplanned. I am avoiding problems at work. I may need a slightly thicker guard, maybe Certainty ultimate absorption. IDK. I feel the diapered waddle gives people away. The bulk is real but you overreact to it.
Leena DL Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 Just wear a looser baggier clothes on. Wear something one size bigger than the normal ones do.
Wet Knight Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 Is it possible for a man to be "A True Scott", if he wears a nappy under his kilt???
Inconito Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 At home, I dont try to hide my diapers anymore, I even sleep in just my diaper and plastic pants now, nothing on top to hide my diapered state....out and about, I'm still discreet...
sissypaul Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 To be honest you get to an age when this doesn't worry you too much anymore but I do also wear a pair of panties which holds everything in place and spread the distribution of bulk and which also covers the diaper waistband.
Baby Brian Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 I believe I mentioned this a while back, but it's worth repeating. Any diaper bulge is a lot less noticeable than a thin diaper that has leaked.
jillInDiapers2015 Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 I find that wearing a onesie is a HUGE help.
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