Preschooler Ab Discussion Area

[ABDLincontlady]

The more I explore my AB side, the more I see I like being a preschooler who is allowed to wear and dribble in diapers and suck on a pacifier when tired or upset.

I don't like being a total baby and I hate messes and eating baby food and want but don't like being pressured to always keep dry when sometimes I get too busy I don't make it to the toilet on time.

I like doing learning play work independently, but might need to be on a harness or fenced in area to not hurt myself or get hurt and I can accept this. I like being able to help adults and love it when they say I am obedient. I am beyond saying "no" all the time as a two year old.

Anyone else more a preschooler than an infant?

[diaprbayb]

I like to be 2 - 3 yrs. I like to wear pretty dresses. are you too old for pretty dresses?

[rickibrat2]

I like to be 2 - 3 yrs. I like to wear pretty dresses. are you too old for pretty dresses?

I feel 5 to 8 years old so i can play outside with out being watched all the time and ride my bikes or play in sand box need a mommy or teacher or babysitter to make sure i stay dry as with boys many time they forget till last min to use potty so just use pants

[ABDLincontlady]

Girls also forget til the last minute to stop what they are doing to use the john. So today when I am busy doing research I am put in two diapers, a Depends pullup with a thick Depends undergarment. I never get in trouble for getting them wet, I just have to make sure I don't wet my clothes or chair.

[t baby]

hmmmmmm I always too busy go potty so me gotta wear diapers all da time cause me will mess my clothes up. Don't know if i am a pweskooler or not, ya gotta ax Curious

[baby_blue_eyes]

I am more of a 3 year older or possibly 4. But i still like to act like a babby sometimes and wear a pretty dress everyonce in awhile

[PutInDiapers]

I like being 5 or 6 years old and put back in diapers because I have too many accidents. I like having big boy fun, like playing with my cars or building things out of blocks. I know it looks a little funny being a big boy in dorky cloth diapers and babypants; I am embarrassed about it... Secretly, I like being back in diapers, not having to worry about wetting my pants and knowing everyone expects me to be a big diaper baby.

[Pipsqueak]

You big kids are excluding us little ones! <_ you think so grown up because can walk and make sentences src="<img%20src='http://www.dailydiapers.com/board/uploads/emoticons/default_rolleyes.gif'%20alt=''%20class='ipsImage'%20%20>" alt=":rolleyes:">

[diaprbayb]

You big kids are excluding us little ones! <_ you think so grown up because can walk and make sentences src="<img%20src='http://www.dailydiapers.com/board/uploads/emoticons/default_rolleyes.gif'%20alt=''%20class='ipsImage'%20%20>" alt=":rolleyes:">

You tell them Sister, Babies unite!!

[Babyplayday]

You big kids are excluding us little ones! <_ you think so grown up because can walk and make sentences src="<img%20src='http://www.dailydiapers.com/board/uploads/emoticons/default_rolleyes.gif'%20alt=''%20class='ipsImage'%20%20>" alt=":rolleyes:">

Well then start your own baby posting area where you can use baby talk us preschoolers hate.

[chwukkie]

I very rarely wear these days, but when I do it's mentally as a 4 to 7 year. Old enough to speak well, think logically, but still capable of being a little boy who has accidents. A bridge between toddlerhood and mature childhood. In real life I was shuttled between underwear, training pants and diapers, according to the situation. We all remember playing and delaying the urge to stop for the bathroom, sometimes with adverse results. The peer pressure can be enormous in a 4 to 7 year old and an accident causes lots of teasing and disdain...especially a load in the pants. Kids can be quite cruel and very frank in their feelings.

It's against the grain at 4 and older....but maybe thats what is exciting, challenging society's norms.

[diaprbayb]

Well then start your own baby posting area where you can use baby talk us preschoolers hate.

'cuse me but this is the baby talk forum

[chwukkie]

For sure Duck.....being able to monitor your thoughts, to sort of "rebel"....all kids between older than 3 or 4 do that all the time. We all have seen it, in various ways. Kids as young as maybe one can even consciously refuse a certain food, etc, but it's when language really develops that the rebellions get really convoluted. The funny thing about having accidents at 4 and older though, is the dual emotions of the rebellion and coming punishment. "You are too big a boy to be doing this" "I'm taking this toy away for now" "you made a big mess" the scolding finger in your face, sometimes combined with a swat on the bottom....then the inevitable, off with the undies and on with the training pants or diapers, then the plastic pants shook out and put on. Quite a feeling of regression, "you're acting like a baby so I'm going to treat you like one" but along with the disappointing glances from mom is a sort of satisfaction that you have gotten your own way. Weird but true. Even the teasing from your siblings and peers doesnt always dissuade the rebellion. As we age we rebel in other fashions, and oftentimes wind up as passive and conforming adults. But the memories of this childhood age and actions last a lifetime!

[pottypants]

I'm more like a 3 tear old who isn't potty trained. I'm sometimes in training pants, but I never use the potty, and I don;t mind having wet or poopy pants at all. I can remember being like this when I was a real kid too. One of my memories from being a toddler, I think in cloth trainers was having my mom catch me as I hid behind a chair to poop in my pants.

[chwukkie]

I'm more like a 3 tear old who isn't potty trained. I'm sometimes in training pants, but I never use the potty, and I don;t mind having wet or poopy pants at all. I can remember being like this when I was a real kid too. One of my memories from being a toddler, I think in cloth trainers was having my mom catch me as I hid behind a chair to poop in my pants.

I think hiding behind a chair was commonplace. I used to go behind the living room drapes. I have vague memories of being like 3, still in diapers, and coming out from behind the drapes as my mom was entertaining her friends. Needless to say I became the center of attention. I scampered off and returned with a clean diaper and powder, with a load in my pants, and then laid down. Mom took me though to the bathroom for the change.

[chwukkie]

I'm more like a 3 tear old who isn't potty trained. I'm sometimes in training pants, but I never use the potty, and I don;t mind having wet or poopy pants at all. I can remember being like this when I was a real kid too. One of my memories from being a toddler, I think in cloth trainers was having my mom catch me as I hid behind a chair to poop in my pants.

I also have "proof" of my diapered state in the old 8MM movies of my third birthday party (even taken in color by an uncle). My "bottom" seemed a bit more padded than in regular undies, and in a few scenes, my cousin is playing around with me, lifting me up, and my shorts have ridden up, and the corners of the white plastic pants are clearly visible. I don't really remember much from this party, if anything at all, but as they say, pictures are certainly worth a thousand words. Apparantly, like with other kids, wet and poopy diapers didn't seem to bother me at this age, hence I was hard to train, and the peer pressure didn't seem to get to me either. I'm sure that all the attention and the rebellion also factored in my decision to be pottyless.

[Eddie]

4-5 here

potty trained at about 3.5 and back in diapers at 4 due to a "traumatic experience"

and mentally that is the (diaper) age i identify with

[Huggie]

Hia ... WOW Chwukkie and square_duck you guys hit the nail on the head I too feel that I am 4 in my diaper. Old enough to be a big boy but still young enough to be babied. By definition I is probably a DL. Love the feel of wearing the diaper and plastic pants during all facets of my life, I actually feel like I am missing something on the rare occassions that I can't be in my diaper. My diaper of choice are pull-ups because like 4 year old I go pee like a big boy when I can. But I always have the inevitable accident I like to talk like a big boy, think for myself but have that need to be huggled & snuggled. Being babied in a true AB fashion is getting kinda tempting for me after meeting so many here on Daily Diapers. Since being here I have purchased onsies and adore being in them, I'll see as far as other items such as bottles and pacifiers go down the road. Somehow the 4 year old age is very comfy for me...I never planned it that way it just happened. Somewhere somebody wrote about the baby memories lasting for a lifetime...I agree. Perhaps that is why I am comfy as a 4 year old most of my memories seem to be from that age period. Perhaps the ritual of being readied for school at 5. Having to be potty trained, learning to tie your shoes and learning the proper manners...that was the start of our "pressured" existence all in the name that we could represent well in kindergarten. Hum! think I'm on to something there, someone needs to do a study about that Anyway 4 is my comfort zone I like to play on my own, help the big people, communicate and be independent 80% of the time...but that 20% I am babied is wonderful. I'll stick to being 4 for life

Huggie

[Mikey Is A Girl]

I think I'm more of a pre schooler than a baby. I prefer a trainer cup over a bottle and as someone else said I don't like baby food. I also like 'big boy toys' rather than boring baby ones. I think in age I'm about 3 1/2 or maybe 4. Still in training pants and useing a paci sometimes, but also quite the big boy at others.

[ABDLincontlady]

For sure Duck.....being able to monitor your thoughts, to sort of "rebel"....all kids between older than 3 or 4 do that all the time. We all have seen it, in various ways. Kids as young as maybe one can even consciously refuse a certain food, etc, but it's when language really develops that the rebellions get really convoluted. The funny thing about having accidents at 4 and older though, is the dual emotions of the rebellion and coming punishment. "You are too big a boy to be doing this" "I'm taking this toy away for now" "you made a big mess" the scolding finger in your face, sometimes combined with a swat on the bottom....then the inevitable, off with the undies and on with the training pants or diapers, then the plastic pants shook out and put on. Quite a feeling of regression, "you're acting like a baby so I'm going to treat you like one" but along with the disappointing glances from mom is a sort of satisfaction that you have gotten your own way. Weird but true. Even the teasing from your siblings and peers doesnt always dissuade the rebellion. As we age we rebel in other fashions, and oftentimes wind up as passive and conforming adults. But the memories of this childhood age and actions last a lifetime!

In my fantasies when I am here as a preschooler I do not get punished for dribbling in my diapers. Even if I soaked them it would be OK, it is just that I don't like the feeling myself.

I had very few accidents in my childhood but reactions from my mother and brother was so awful I will never forget them. I may have been spanked, I don't recall. Definitely I was teased and it was the subject of humiliation at the dinner table. I think it is kind to put active kids in pull ups for as long as they want to wear them. Later in life I had stress incontinence dribbles and was kind to myself, I put myself in diapers usually thick pads for the expense 24/7 and put myself in pullups when I am tired/overwhelmed like today.

[Light Angel]

This is totally where I am, actually -- I tend to feel more like I'm about four or five years old than a baby, and I reeeeally don't like the feeling of being totally helpless. On the other hand, the idea of constantly dribbling and being diapered appeals to me too, sooo.

I felt kinda weird putting down "Adult Baby" as my diaper status because I don't really think of that as who I am.

[ABDLincontlady]

I like the relaxation of dribbling when I am concentrating on "my work" as a "big person" but don't like the feeling of soaking my diapers. Spankings for soaking when I am fortunate to have some continence are justified, for dribbling not.

I think a lot of people would like the comfort and security of being able to dribble in a diaper. I think parents who let their older children wear diapers/pull-ups all the time (that they of course change themselves) are being kind to their kids.

[Light Angel]

Well, in my head I don't really like the poo thing because I'm "too old" for that kinda thing. But I hafta admit that constant dribbling is where I'd like to be someday. ...plus it sort of allays any illusion one might have of being able to go undiapered for awhile, if you've got it.

[ABDLincontlady]

Wearing a diaper because one dribbles justifies them as necessary to a diaper lover that is to be sure.

As the preschooler I am I can dribble when I want and keep my diaper dry when I want. I will never get spanked! Yeah!

[Light Angel]

Oh, by the way, ABDLincontlady:

"I like being able to help adults and love it when they say I am obedient."

See, that's totally how I tend to feel. I'm kind of eager to please and generous by nature, so I always want to be helpful for grown-up-types if I can.