wugga Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 I have a date. Should I tell her or wait? 1 Link to comment
PeytonJ Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 If you want it to be more than a one time thing, I would wait. You need to build trust and an actual relationship before informing her of your socially unaccepted hobby or whatever it is to you. Link to comment
sarah_ab Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 nah man go for it, right after she says "hi how are you" blurt out "MY DIAPIE IS WET! WIll YOU CHANGE ME!" hahahah kidding.... kidding....... sorta..... 1 Link to comment
Depends1578 Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 for what its worth, waiting would probably be the best idea if you wanna have a real shot at keeping the girl. Link to comment
Marcuss Posted June 21, 2011 Share Posted June 21, 2011 I would not tell her unless the conversation leads towards revelations of a personal nature. And do not guide it there. Friends first feelings later and deepest secrets last. But if she finds it do not be shocked or defensive and tell the truth. Link to comment
pax87 Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Here's my perspective on this. Relationships are hard enough as it is. They take time to mature and develop. Not only do we as AB/DL's have to worry about the general concerns when a relationship begins, but we have this side of us that really can go good or bad once it's revealed. My rule of thumb is to wait until you really know the person and have that connection with them. The kind where you know that you have a safe atmosphere and certain level of trust to where you begin sharing those kinds of things with each other. This, in my opinion, is the prime time to share this side of you because it's at a level where you aren't hiding it per say because you're still in that "getting to know each other" phase. Not every relationship is the same. So you'd have to gauge it and know when the right time is prime. But don't just blurt it out. Thats a sure fire way to ruin it and come across as desperate if you ask me. Thats just my two cents. Paxy Link to comment
wetatnight Posted July 12, 2011 Share Posted July 12, 2011 I would wait untell the 2 of you get to know each other better and to see how open minded of a person that she is before you reveal your ab/dl side or the relation ship may not last very long. Link to comment
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