mazza Posted January 14, 2013 Share Posted January 14, 2013 BlakeJordan will you post a link to this when you are done with it here? please do, also how far are you from posting it? Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted April 6, 2013 Share Posted April 6, 2013 I think yoel is referring to the 12 month diaper training program. Go back to the first post and look for a PDF. Open it and read it, then you'll know what the program is for. Either that or his is referring to diapers in general. Yoel, they are made for a person to defecate or urinate in discretely so nobody else notices (and they almost never do). Link to comment
Blazey Posted April 14, 2013 Share Posted April 14, 2013 There was a lot of good info in the 12 month guide, I'm nearing the end of month three, I'm not sure I don't to go full incontinence. I've been wearing 24-7 for a while now and beat my personal best of 2 weeks and kept going with it with the support of some very positive people. Link to comment
Blefyr Posted May 11, 2013 Share Posted May 11, 2013 Hi, Just found the 12 months guide after intensive googling, after I made the committment to myself, that in order to be diapered 24/7 so I can gain my wifes acceptance of using diapers, I need to become incontinent. She dosen’t know about my desire to be diapered and the fact that I’m a DL, and there’s no need to involve her in that, as I hardly think she will understand why, and just see me as a pervert. I have always been attracted to diapers since I was a small kid up until know. 1 1 Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted May 11, 2013 Share Posted May 11, 2013 I would think really hard about how your spouse will feel. More to the point, how you will feel if she walks away from you over this? That is a distinct possibility here! You've committed to share your life with your spouse, so they need to have their voice and feelings heard on the matter. Further, you need to make space for them equally- it is a partnership, not a place where only you matter Link to comment
Blefyr Posted May 12, 2013 Share Posted May 12, 2013 I would think really hard about how your spouse will feel. More to the point, how you will feel if she walks away from you over this? That is a distinct possibility here! You've committed to share your life with your spouse, so they need to have their voice and feelings heard on the matter. Further, you need to make space for them equally- it is a partnership, not a place where only you matter Link to comment
Blefyr Posted May 13, 2013 Share Posted May 13, 2013 Just a minor update and a last comment in regard to my spouse. Link to comment
DavidMW Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 It's a matter of long-term practice, consistency and how readily your body reacts to the training. If you're only three weeks into this, you're really just getting started. Give it more time. Months, not just a few weeks. Link to comment
Inconito Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 I was wondering whether natural diuretics (waterpills) like XPEL, can help in speeding up things in terms of training the bladder to release frequently? Link to comment
BlakeJordan Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 Try "water out" similar ingredients. No caffeine. Easier to sleep with if trying to get that extra push at night. Again. Be careful as its easy to create an imbalance. Not a drastic difference. And pushing fluids will make a bigger difference. But for overnight this can be helpful. Link to comment
Inconito Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 Please elaborate "pushing fluids" can make a bigger difference? Link to comment
Creepymouse Posted July 17, 2013 Share Posted July 17, 2013 Just that drinking more fluids than you usually do will cause more frequent voiding, allowing Link to comment
Inconito Posted July 21, 2013 Share Posted July 21, 2013 According to the 12month program the ability to stay relaxed is one of the keys. Link to comment
meinthediapers Posted July 21, 2013 Share Posted July 21, 2013 I have learned to stand up on my bike or sit on the edge of your seat it works for me. Also it doesn't strengthen Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 Its great you're wife is so supportive but you need to be honest with her. Link to comment
stephrider Posted July 31, 2013 Share Posted July 31, 2013 I often hear the key is the relaxation of pelvic Link to comment
Creepymouse Posted July 31, 2013 Share Posted July 31, 2013 The act of voiding itself is actually a combination of relaxation and tension of muscles, most of which you don't have immediate control over. While your external urinary sphincter, the one you exert the most conscious control over, must relax (rather, must not be under tension) the detrusor must squeeze the fluid out of your bladder. IIRC the detrusor is responsible for the strong urge to void that you get periodically when you're holding it too long. Like when you're ignoring the need for a while then WHAM you have to go, then it fades and you're ok for a few minutes then you really need to go again. Link to comment
stephrider Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 When bladder is full it's easy to relax beacause muscle are very tight. I must practice when my bladder is filling, I'd like void when it fill arround 3-4 oz. Did you remember where we can find this guide? Link to comment
DavidMW Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 When bladder is full it's easy to relax beacause muscle are very tight. I must practice when my bladder is filling, I'd like void when it fill arround 3-4 oz. Did you remember where we can find this guide? The PDF is attached to the first post in this thread. Link to comment
Inconito Posted August 5, 2013 Share Posted August 5, 2013 Just to get the relaxing issue explained Link to comment
Littlebabijo11 Posted October 27, 2013 Share Posted October 27, 2013 12 months is there any quicker options Link to comment
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