Topguy Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 That is the point being made. Was a promise made for money kept,or was it not? And if not,where did that money GO? Link to comment
adriansurley Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 I would love to defend myself but I have no proof...anything I say for the most part can be completely turned around. I contribute to IMABDL, yes, because they are the only ones who offer legitimate protection for my photos (they embed it into Flash) for me. But, other than that I am left defenseless because I have no proof to the cause other than to deny it. I just don't like wasting my time on these boards trying to defend myself to no resolve because it is hard to provide such proof over the internet. Link to comment
Topguy Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 It's easy to provide. Get the domain owner to disclose name and what is being done with the funds-show us that owner is not YOU-and you are off the hook. It CAN be tracked down. There is no such thing as an "anonymous domain". SOMEONE is paying for the domain registration, hosting, and bandwidth-or it would be parked and up for sale. Link to comment
PampersPete Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 ohhh he's soo cute.. i love the drama llama cause he's all cute.. but i wonder if he'll spit in my eye like the last llama i met did. I refuse to touch this one Link to comment
rockrat Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 LOL!! Your safe because the site uses Joomla??? Yes its a joomla site view the source. How come you haven't answered anyone's questions? Link to comment
Topguy Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 It's obviously going to turn into a little detective game from here on out-anyone else smell a challenge? Link to comment
rockrat Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 Oh yeah, she does diapoo.com. Link to comment
adriansurley Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 Why would I do that if I know I am not the owner of the site - do you think I care that much to prove it and go through that trouble just so my online community can stop accusing me? Link to comment
Topguy Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 Do as you see fit-from your evasiveness, I can only let others draw thier own conclusions about you. Link to comment
adriansurley Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 I believe I can handle that. I am done with this issue. I encourage you to do your detective work, seriously. I will continue on with my life and posting in other threads. Also in effort to at least make some progress I have gone ahead and removed the banner on my signature. Link to comment
rockrat Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 Thanks to whois.com, all 3 domains are protected so someone doesn't want people knowing who is running the show. So its not like who or whatever group was smart enough to start a company to even run the sites. Something just smells fishy to me. Thats all I have to add to this unless someone else adds anything else, but the plot thickens...dun dun duuunnnnn!! (ok, thats my cheesy mystery show music) ETA: Your response to me, just seems to indicate that you are running a scam and that by not responding you are trying to fly under the radar and continue your scam. I hope this exposes you if this is what you are doing. If not, then maybe this will help your site out. Either way, why won't you help identify who runs the site or at least help promote the site you have in your footer? For seemingly trying to promote it, when it is being questioned, you sure as heck are not saying anything about it? When asked anything about it, your response is to say no comment. You sound almost like the famous Nigerian scammers - maybe you are. They were getting way more elaborate. Link to comment
Topguy Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 You aren't into me for anything. I'll let the ones with the grudge do the digging. I found this more amusing than anything else- almost like those dumb=ass male subs who pay women to dominate them "online"-for exhorbitant amounts of money. Personally? I look at outside site reviews before I sign up and pay for ANYTHING. I guess this one is going to count towards iambdl after the google search engines crunch through this site next month. Link to comment
BriGuy Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 I think it is interesting that people go to public executions before trying to discuss the problem with other people. This sort of rash behavior over the internet has ruined business and friendships. If you have an issue with IMABDL or Adrian take it to her, don't use the internet forum to publicly hang someone on the cross. If you feel IMABDL is a rip off then take it up with the web's admin. If you don't like Adrian take it up in PM. This sort of thread irritates the hell out of me, there is no need for it. This is the sort of thing that I got sick of over at DPF. All of the public bickering about who this person is, what that scam is yadda yadda. The thing I liked about this forum was the support and general acceptance of its patrons, lets not turn the corner and let bickering get in the way of being good people. Besides, its TEN freaken bucks. If it wasn't worth it to you learn and move on. Link to comment
langtab Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 Wow people are really negative today. I have seen this site around at least for the past year or two and I havent seen anything wrong with it myself. I joined it a long time ago and I never really got into it or anything but the price I paid was peanuts. Sites are expensive to own and operate. And whoever is WHOIS'ing the website and found it protected, that is standard practice when you own a domain name. The fact of the matter is I used to own an abdl site and I did not WHOIS protect the domain name and I got attacked by a troll, everyone in the dd chat knows who it would have been, and it isnt fun. There are a lot of harmful ABDL people out there, and it is the truth. So with the click of a button you are protected and your life stays secure. Its not someone trying to hide their identity because they are scam artists. And as for the many websites that come and go, I owned a site that I opened and shut down twice. No one is attacking me. It is the nature of an online community that if no one is participating in it that it will shut down. Then a while later you want to see if there is an interest in a new place for people to go and you try again. I think at the end of the day people need to be nice to each other and reward peoples efforts. Instead we see people on here ripping each other in half over the price of 5 candy bars. I do not claim to be religious or anything of the sort but if God does exist I would like to think that he/she would rather we spend our time in constructive peaceful exploits and not fighting about the ebb and flow of an online community. *drops the microphone and waits for the sound* Peace Link to comment
Guest dllightning Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 /agreed Wow people are really negative today. I have seen this site around at least for the past year or two and I havent seen anything wrong with it myself. I joined it a long time ago and I never really got into it or anything but the price I paid was peanuts. Sites are expensive to own and operate. And whoever is WHOIS'ing the website and found it protected, that is standard practice when you own a domain name. The fact of the matter is I used to own an abdl site and I did not WHOIS protect the domain name and I got attacked by a troll, everyone in the dd chat knows who it would have been, and it isnt fun. There are a lot of harmful ABDL people out there, and it is the truth. So with the click of a button you are protected and your life stays secure. Its not someone trying to hide their identity because they are scam artists. And as for the many websites that come and go, I owned a site that I opened and shut down twice. No one is attacking me. It is the nature of an online community that if no one is participating in it that it will shut down. Then a while later you want to see if there is an interest in a new place for people to go and you try again. I think at the end of the day people need to be nice to each other and reward peoples efforts. Instead we see people on here ripping each other in half over the price of 5 candy bars. I do not claim to be religious or anything of the sort but if God does exist I would like to think that he/she would rather we spend our time in constructive peaceful exploits and not fighting about the ebb and flow of an online community. *drops the microphone and waits for the sound* Peace Link to comment
dlbbyboy Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 Such a sad state this place has become when mud gets thrown- and then a few passerby's jump in on the sling fest. seems to be the way to do things now a days- assign guilt with no evidence, and call it the right thing to do. and apparently the desire to be non confrontational is a sign of guilt. hmmm. I must be guilty of something, because I don't care what you accuse me of, or what names you call me- I'm not explaining my self to anyone I don't feel is worthy of MY respect. I don't know Adrian Surley, I don't know or use IMABDL. It seems these days I don't see the need to pay money to any site- unless they offer it free of charge- then i know they aren't in it for the money. but all said and done, no one here will convince me this is anything but a flame job by someone with no back bone to say it in public with their real profile every one knows. if it were really that important, an individual with absolute conviction would risk their own reputation to out someone who is tarnished- that's how you know that it is a genuine situation. you have to be willing to risk everything for justice- otherwise their isn't any proof that the issue is serious enough to warrant attention by others, proof that more than just your feelings are hurt. case in point? I thought you wouldn't ask! every accused person in a court of law is innocent until proven guilty. Every accused has a right to face their accusers. neither has happened. Now go throw mud elsewhere- I liked this forum better before you tarnished it with your hate and discontent. also, this is my REAL profile. I have no problems standing up for what I feel is right. dlbbyboy Link to comment
Baby Bethany Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 The way I see it is that there are two issues here. 1) The OP as an axe to grind with adrian. In which case, why don't you try and sort out the problem like adults through pm instead of trying to get our members to take sides? 2) The OP wants to "expose" adrian to our community as a scammer. However, the OP hasn't actually shown any sort of proof of her having done anything wrong. All I've seen so far is that she's been accused of running this IMABDL site with her boyfriend, which she has denied like a 1000 times. On that basis what makes you think she does run it? Besides, who even cares who runs it? It's just another site that charges you to view photos, if you don't want to waste your money, do what I do and look at the free photos that are out there instead. The only evidence put forward that she even runs the site is that when she first posted on here she used the name "Stacey" rather than "Adrian" but most of us don't use our real names on here, so what's that prove? I'm not taking sides here, but if you want to start a thread publicly accusing someone of something you have to provide some form of proof. No, she isn't defending herself, but that doesn't make her guilty. It's for you guys to prove her guilt, not for her to prove her innocence. Provide the proof of her having done something against our community, or put the rope away. Beth Link to comment
storey Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 The way I see it is that there are two issues here. 1) The OP as an axe to grind with adrian. In which case, why don't you try and sort out the problem like adults through pm instead of trying to get our members to take sides? 2) The OP wants to "expose" adrian to our community as a scammer. However, the OP hasn't actually shown any sort of proof of her having done anything wrong. All I've seen so far is that she's been accused of running this IMABDL site with her boyfriend, which she has denied like a 1000 times. On that basis what makes you think she does run it? Besides, who even cares who runs it? It's just another site that charges you to view photos, if you don't want to waste your money, do what I do and look at the free photos that are out there instead. The only evidence put forward that she even runs the site is that when she first posted on here she used the name "Stacey" rather than "Adrian" but most of us don't use our real names on here, so what's that prove? I'm not taking sides here, but if you want to start a thread publicly accusing someone of something you have to provide some form of proof. No, she isn't defending herself, but that doesn't make her guilty. It's for you guys to prove her guilt, not for her to prove her innocence. Provide the proof of her having done something against our community, or put the rope away. Beth I'm with Beth on this one... Link to comment
curiositykilledthecat Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 No please do share your perspective. Instead of making the rest of us who profess to be Christians look ignorant and unhelpful. I mean there is enough of that with people blowing up abortion clinics and claiming God told them to kill somebody to do that. I don't know you, I don't know of your site. I just ask that you give a response to the accusation instead of using the bible for...well actually I'm not sure what your trying to get at there. Okay there has been one abortion clinic bombing, why the hell is it constantly referenced, lol. Back to thread. How are you quoting scripture and claiming to be a christian and running a pay-per-view porn site? Not judging your faith but just have to point out the obvious here, the Bible is not to fond of pornography. Thus why I enjoy the Fetish but do my best to avoid the "dirty" stuff.(That and I never really got the point of porn.) The op should really try working things out with the chief operator of the website(s) in question rather than start a flame war online which will accomplish little to nothing. Okay that's my two cents, have fun everybody. Link to comment
Baby Bethany Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 Okay there has been one abortion clinic bombing, why the hell is it constantly referenced, lol. Back to thread. How are you quoting scripture and claiming to be a christian and running a pay-per-view porn site? Not judging your faith but just have to point out the obvious here, the Bible is not to fond of pornography. Thus why I enjoy the Fetish but do my best to avoid the "dirty" stuff.(That and I never really got the point of porn.) Hehe, making that statement is like opening Pandora's box. All joking aside, I'm about to (when I get the time) start a theology thread. Once I get round to it could you or one of the other guys please quote the piece of scripture where it says about porn.......or words to that effect. A few of you have said the Bible doesn't like it, but I've never seen that passage (I'm not suggesting it doesn't exist, I'm just saying I've not seen it). Thankies Beth Link to comment
PeePee Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 I guess I want to add my own thoughts to this. Most of us are looking for a way to make a little money from the internet. If Adrian, has found a way to do this, I would have to say, "Good for you." Also in the same breath I would have to say, "Buyer Beware." You usually get just what you pay for. If you pay for junk, why complain when you get just junk. Personally, I think this thread stinks, and should be closed. But that is just my own personal opinion, which I highly value. Thank you! Link to comment
DailyDi Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 Yep... I'm going to put a clock on this one. 24 hours for people to have their final say, then I'm locking it. Link to comment
ntrader1121 Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 Yep... I'm going to put a clock on this one. 24 hours for people to have their final say, then I'm locking it. In my opinion if you start a site and say it will be updated and it is not, you owe people for misrepresenting your site and the product they are paying for. Her "blog" does not charge for membership, so we can't really complain about that. The thing that disturbs me most is her attitude. When attacked, she seemed to go into denial mode instead of defense. It's been my experience that usually translates into guilt. After I read about the domain registration being private, it just seems fishy. That's my two cents. In my opinion just donate here, this place has been around through thick and thin and they could use donations. cheers! Nicole Link to comment
balasikos Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 WHY DON'T WE HAVE THE RIGHT TO STATE OUR OPINIONS ANYMORE? WHY HAS OUR RIGHT TO FREE SPEECH BEEN REVOKED? WHEN PEOPLE WITNESS AN ALARMING SITUATION IS IT NOT EVERYONE'S OBLIGATION TO CALL IT OUT, STRAIGHTENING THE FACTS AND PREVENTING THE FARCE. SOMETHING IS SERIOUS AWRY, AND IF IT ISN'T CORRECTED, ITS SIMPLY GOES TO SHOW THAT PEOPLE WOULD RATHER TURN A BLIND EYE TO THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM. AND IT PROVES YOUR ALL COWARDS, PLAIN AND SIMPLE, FOR DOING NOTHING. -------------------------------------------------- AN ACTUAL QUOTE FROM ANDRIAN SURELY. ); Dec 6 2007, 03:37 PM Post #1  Diaper Star  Group: Members Posts: 513 Joined: 9-November 07 From: North Carolina Member No.: 15,386 Diaper Status: Incontinent I Am a...: Girl REAL Age:: 24 Hi everybody, *UPDATE 5/01/2008* - Another Newly Formed Partnership with TrueDiaperBoy.com to offer Free Memberships to TrueDiaperBoy.com with a membership to IMABDL.com As a proud member and administrator of IMABDL.com we are announcing a newly formed sponsorship with Bambino Adult Baby Diapers. I am sure many are aware of the wonderful adult baby diapers they create. With this sponsorship - Bambino Diapers has setup a system of offering exclusive discount codes to all IMABDL.com members. The discount code is customized for each member to receive discounts on every purchase from Bambino Diapers. Also, ever so often Bambino will release "secret" discount codes to all the members for specials on Bambino Diapers. All this is for IMABDL.com members only and are proud of announcing this newly formed relationship. Our Site: http://www.imabdl.com Also Coming Soon: Partnering with an exclusive diaper couple for custom diaper videos. (This partnership has been established!!!) Thank You for your time! ----------------------------- ADMINISTRATOR SURELY WHY ISN'T IMABDL OPEN CURRENTLY? ADMINISTRATOR SURELY WHY DO YOU CHANGE THE FACTS TO SUIT THE SITUATION, NAY PREDICAMENT, YOU CURRENTLY FIND YOURSELF IN? ADMINISTRATOR SURELY I LEAVE THIS TO YOU I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST YOU PERSONALLY, BUT I DON'T WANT TO KNOW YOU, I WANT THE TRUTH. I AND OTHERS LIKE ME SIMPLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON. DON'T LIE TO ANYONE, PLEASE COME CLEAN Link to comment
diamondback6881 Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 The way I see it is that there are two issues here. 1) The OP as an axe to grind with adrian. In which case, why don't you try and sort out the problem like adults through pm instead of trying to get our members to take sides? 2) The OP wants to "expose" adrian to our community as a scammer. However, the OP hasn't actually shown any sort of proof of her having done anything wrong. All I've seen so far is that she's been accused of running this IMABDL site with her boyfriend, which she has denied like a 1000 times. On that basis what makes you think she does run it? Besides, who even cares who runs it? It's just another site that charges you to view photos, if you don't want to waste your money, do what I do and look at the free photos that are out there instead. The only evidence put forward that she even runs the site is that when she first posted on here she used the name "Stacey" rather than "Adrian" but most of us don't use our real names on here, so what's that prove? I'm not taking sides here, but if you want to start a thread publicly accusing someone of something you have to provide some form of proof. No, she isn't defending herself, but that doesn't make her guilty. It's for you guys to prove her guilt, not for her to prove her innocence. Provide the proof of her having done something against our community, or put the rope away. Beth I couldn't have said it better myself. Good job, Beth. Personally, I think the clock should be sped up and the thread locked now, but that's just IMHO. That is all I am going to say on this topic. Link to comment
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