Just Some Things.

[jay-uk-dl]

I have come back to DD after an absence of too long.

since i was a regular i have had a lot of changes in my life,

from career, home, friends heck im almost somone els now!

although my DL part remains.

One of the big changes in my life is i have a new partner

we have been together for just over a year now and are planning

our future together. (planning marrige for sept )

when we first met i tried to explain about my DL side but i dont

think she understood me or what i was trying to explain to her,

but today i did a brave thing!

i sat her down at the pc and showed her the front page of DD

(you know where it explains things??)

Well, i wasnt sure what she was going to say, an i was a little worried

to be honest, but at the end of reading she just turned to me and said

and so what?????????

and i just replied "just so you know about me".

i find it hard to talk about things normally and somthing this big is just

about impossible!!

well i will continue this when i have more time.

jason.

[Wet Ricky]

Sounds like you handled a touchy subject in a very good manner. Even though my wife is very supportive, she does not really understand why I enjoy wearing and using my diapers. She just accepts it as a part of who and what I am.

Ricky

[Eraser Pants]

Congratulations!

I just came out to my wife of 15 years just a few days ago. It was the scariest thing I ever did in my life, and I have done a lot of scary things. I have not indulged my DL side since I was a teen. "What am I supposed to be doing with this knowledge?" she asked me at one point. I reassured her that I wasn't necessarily interested in exposing her to this, but I didn't want to have to worry about hiding it either. There is something extremely liberating about finally being able to part with my last embarrassing secret.

And speaking of liberation, I no longer have to completely deny or suppress my DL. I'm looking forward to a box from Fetware to arrive next week!

I don't expect my wife to ever understand, and I'm not sure anybody who doesn't have this fetish can (Dan Savage has referred to anything DL related as "The world's loneliest fetish" and "A fetish too far"). So long as I respect her boundaries, she is more than willing to allow me to be what I am. That's a side of her I don't think I would trade for a DL friendly partner.