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I can't help myself I've had a huge urge to wear diapers and I can't accept it. Is this alright? Is it a bad or good thing to urge this? My body is a bit shivery with the idea but my mind is saying yes yes YES....I....I want my drawer of boxers to be a drawer full of diapers and wear them 24/7 is what my mind is telling me and it's slowly taking over :( Can someone convince or comfort me? And even if I did start doing this I have a bad relationshp with my parents and I would never tell them so thats out of the question.

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Calm down.

First - You have a choice here. If it's scaring you, maybe you need to reconsider, really find out what works for you. 24/7 isn't the only option out there.

Second - You are not required by law to inform your parents. You pay for it, it's legal, it hurts nobody and if you're really, really worried about that aspect - move out. A roommate is far less likely to care than your parents.

I know it's a "debt of on" as the japanese call it - they gave you life and you owe them, however, you have a life too and the choices are yours to make. It's okay to feel the way you feel, you are not insane because of it, there is nothing wrong with you. You are a person. To quote the Desiderata

"Beyond a wholesome discipline,

be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe

no less than the trees and the stars;

you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you,

no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should."

As long as diapers feel right to you, you should reach for your goal.

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Calm down.

First - You have a choice here. If it's scaring you, maybe you need to reconsider, really find out what works for you. 24/7 isn't the only option out there.

Second - You are not required by law to inform your parents. You pay for it, it's legal, it hurts nobody and if you're really, really worried about that aspect - move out. A roommate is far less likely to care than your parents.

I know it's a "debt of on" as the japanese call it - they gave you life and you owe them, however, you have a life too and the choices are yours to make. It's okay to feel the way you feel, you are not insane because of it, there is nothing wrong with you. You are a person. To quote the Desiderata

"Beyond a wholesome discipline,

be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe

no less than the trees and the stars;

you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you,

no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should."

As long as diapers feel right to you, you should reach for your goal.

Very wise words. I must admit I amired you

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Its cool dood. great advice from everybody here, i would just like to add to it a little bit,

i am still pretty new to wearing diapers, and let me tell you how i coped with it.

when i was about 8 years old i could tell i had a want to wear diapers(before i thought of them sexually)

but recently, (ten years later)

that urge came back, and i thought to myself is this wrong? what would cause me to want to revert to a younger state? and i am a believer in God, and i thought would god find this wrong? i ran that through my mind and found that it is HARMLESS FUN, and there is nothing to worry about. your urge may go away for a little while, but i can guarentee you it will be back, so play along its fun to do, and be thankful for the support on this website, it was all of these wounderful people here at this place that helped me decide to wear diapers, everybody here will help you.

so if you want, try it out, i think if you have any interest at all in wearing diapers, when you actually wear one for the first time, you will fall in love.

Good luck to you :P

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i found that just trying it is the best way to ease your anxiety. just go into a pharmacy and buy a pack. nobody will care or say anything. go home put it on and go from there. then you will know if you really like them or not.

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So I thought about it over night and it only made my urge stronger. Should I try to resist it? Or is i gonna happen sooner or later and I should just submit now and accept it?.......and enjoy it?

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AWWW *HUGS ZIPO TIGHT* you'll figure it out Honey! I imagine it is scary to be in a position such as yours but as was said before, your want for diapers hurts no one, its not illegal, and its nothing more than just your choice in undies. Follow ur heart and u cant go wrong. You can do it, I KNOW you can! *HUGS HUGS HUGS* You'll figure this out!

huggles and kissies and lots of love, :wub:

CURIOUS :D

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Hello Zipo,

I had alot of the Same Feelings When I first discovered this as Well. But Much like everyone else has Already Said there's Nothing Wrong With indulging in this. So I Would Suggest That You Go and Buy a Pack, and the Worst Thing that can Happen is that you'll Try one on and go: "This isn't For Me", or When you try One On You could feel full of Bliss. Good Luck with your Decision.

Rockies Fan.

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So I thought about it over night and it only made my urge stronger. Should I try to resist it? Or is i gonna happen sooner or later and I should just submit now and accept it?.......and enjoy it?

We all make different decisions in life. I think it depends on on what you feel -- if you think you should resist, then you should. But be prepared that the urge will get stronger, and that these urges won't go away.

There's a lot of middle ground between never wearing diapers, and going 24/7. It may take a while, but you'll find the right place.

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  • 2 months later...

I can't help myself I've had a huge urge to wear diapers and I can't accept it. Is this alright? Is it a bad or good thing to urge this? My body is a bit shivery with the idea but my mind is saying yes yes YES....I....I want my drawer of boxers to be a drawer full of diapers and wear them 24/7 is what my mind is telling me and it's slowly taking over :( Can someone convince or comfort me? And even if I did start doing this I have a bad relationship with my parents and I would never tell them so thats out of the question.

Dear Scared:

It's alright to want to wear diapers, this is a good thing. If you want to wear them 24/7, GO AHEAD, Let your body catch up to your mind

and it will relax. Just get yourself plenty of diapers, enough to fill your drawers, and be sure to throw out every last bit of underwear

you have. Your going to wear diapers from now on, { that means no more toilet for you, you're going to be peeing in your diapers as

well as for pooping in them. Wearing diapers means giving up toilet-training { which is hard at first, but you can do it } here is a piece

of advice for you, NEVER go anywhere near a toilet, you can brush you teeth in the bathroom, you may even use the shower, But you

are NOT allowed to use a toilet. Babies don't use one, and no one said you were a baby, but you want tto wear a diaper 24/7, this

is the rule.

Jim

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Dear Scared:

It's alright to want to wear diapers, this is a good thing. If you want to wear them 24/7, GO AHEAD, Let your body catch up to your mind

and it will relax. Just get yourself plenty of diapers, enough to fill your drawers, and be sure to throw out every last bit of underwear

you have. Your going to wear diapers from now on, { that means no more toilet for you, you're going to be peeing in your diapers as

well as for pooping in them. Wearing diapers means giving up toilet-training { which is hard at first, but you can do it } here is a piece

of advice for you, NEVER go anywhere near a toilet, you can brush you teeth in the bathroom, you may even use the shower, But you

are NOT allowed to use a toilet. Babies don't use one, and no one said you were a baby, but you want tto wear a diaper 24/7, this

is the rule.

Jim

He never said anything about actually using them. He can just wear them like how everyone wears underwear.

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Hmm.. I know I don't really say much on these boards, but this time I find that I should actually drag a pearl of wisdom from deep within the vast ocean of useless knowledge that is my mind.

Zipo,

No matter what any of us say, in the end it's your decision as to whether or not you wear. I'm not saying it to be cold, but it is the truth. Now, let me finish before you start getting all "who are you to crush my hopes and dreams" on me, lol. Most of us have been in the same boat as you. I agree with Singner and gbw_dl, in the end, it's just going to have to be something you have to try. You may decide it's something you like and want to wear all the time, you may want to just wear when you feel like it, or rather, when the urge strikes, or you may decide it's not for you.

All you can do is try really. Your parents don't have to know. I live at home still at the age of 22 (pathetic, yet truthful since college, even community college, is too expensive to just move out and live on my own, even if I could), and my parents don't know. Or, if they do, they don't say anything. You just have to be careful about wearing. If you plan on using them, definitely put the used ones into grocery store bags and tie them tightly shut and try to get them out to the garbage as soon as you can. The plastic from the bags, if tied shut tightly enough and properly, will reduce most of the smells.

*hugs* Good luck on your road to self discovery, though. Remember, we're all here to support others like ourselves. We're a close knit group (well, most of us are, though there are a few "loners" that just lurk around and give advice when need be), and we try to help others as we'd like to be helped.

^_~ Good luck.

KLM

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If you want to wear, just wear. Do what you want. No matter what you do in anything there will always be people who don't agree with it, you just have to learn to ignore them and decide what is best for you and what will make you happier. You can wear as much or as little as you want, use them for whatever you want or not at all. It's not healthy and there's no reason to have anxiety about something that gives you comfort. Everyone knows where you are coming from, almost everyone goes through the binge and purge cycle of thoughts, atleast I know I have. In the end, just do what makes you feel the best and happiest.

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So I thought about it over night and it only made my urge stronger. Should I try to resist it? Or is i gonna happen sooner or later and I should just submit now and accept it?.......and enjoy it?

You are going to do it sooner or later so just do it when you feel comfortable. You will be hooked once you do!

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You are going to do it sooner or later so just do it when you feel comfortable. You will be hooked once you do!

Hmm... If you hold onto a wet diaper for any length of time, add a dollop of hydrogen peroxide to keep the smell down.

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Seriously the best advice i can offer is try it...do it somewhere where you feel comfortable and just put one on...see if these urges change...get stronger or go away...It is very hard to resist urges for long periods of time and it can't be good...remember as has been said you don't need to jump straight into wearing 24/7 do you...have fun..enjoy the moment.

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Seriously the best advice i can offer is try it...do it somewhere where you feel comfortable and just put one on...see if these urges change...get stronger or go away...It is very hard to resist urges for long periods of time and it can't be good...remember as has been said you don't need to jump straight into wearing 24/7 do you...have fun..enjoy the moment.

You sound like me, just try it. Pick up some assurance or another cheap pull up style brand and see if this is even something you like. If you do, then order some real diapers online and go from there. I never wet at first but got to the point that if I'm paying for em, might as well get my money's worth. This isn;t like doing drugs or joining a cult or anything really detrimental, there are no real consequences(aisde from family issues if caught), take a chance and see if you like it.

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I started out slow, after having some support in the matter of my problem with IBS, and my always having to pee. i can hold my pee for a while but its easy to just go when i need to. so i dont stress my self. i dont get to the bathroom much when im out in public as i have a fear of getting sick from a public restroom. MY IBS really sucks as when i have to go i have to go and i cant hold it for more then a min or so. its great having a mini van so i can change my diapers with out any public looking and if they do they are getting a free show and if they dont like it they can walk away. this is why the windows are tinted also.

you have to take it slow if you like it start trying diffrent things. if you get to the point like me you soon want care what others think. i say i have a medical problem but also my daipers are a personal sexual thing also for me. as i like to some time be my GF big baby boy. so im 90% DL and 10% AB.

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This isn;t like doing drugs or joining a cult or anything really detrimental, there are no real consequences

Shh your not allowed to mention the secret drug taking detrimental cult!!

EDIT: Sorry that was pure spam...yea so real input...take it slow...take your time...it's like marmite...you will either love it or you will hate it...

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  • 5 years later...

I used to explain to my wife that my compulsion is like Dexter's from the show with the same name. She gets it now, but sometimes I believe the approximation is apt. If I don't act on it, I become combative and irritable. Acting on my compulsion, in this case, is healthy for me and our relationship. Which, when you think about it, proves our fetish's relative innocence. Usually acting on compulsions is negative. Drugs, porn, etc...but in my, or our, case, it's not, really.

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