Am I Gay Bi Or Straight

[Guest abdl travis]

i have been having a problem lately

i cannot tell whether i am gay straight or bi

i am a 17 year old virgin and i just dont seem

to be getting anywhere in the field of boyfriends/girlfriends

if anyone is having the same problem as me i would like to talk about it

or if you have some advice i would be very grateful

i also have another question on a different topic

i have about a 6 inch penis when i am hard

is this average length or below average

if anyone can help with this please leave a comment

[Baby Bethany]

i have been having a problem lately

i cannot tell whether i am gay straight or bi

i am a 17 year old virgin and i just dont seem

to be getting anywhere in the field of boyfriends/girlfriends

if anyone is having the same problem as me i would like to talk about it

or if you have some advice i would be very grateful

i also have another question on a different topic

i have about a 6 inch penis when i am hard

is this average length or below average

if anyone can help with this please leave a comment

Hi Travis,

Sorry, but because you are under 18 you shouldn't have entered this forum.

Good luck

Beth

[beallucanb]

Hi travis, just give it some time don't be in such a hurry, I didn't figure out I was gay till way late in life, but if you like spending time with the guys, there is nothing wrong with that.

your still young, just don't rush into things, and don't try to be like the crowd, just because everyone is doing something, it dosen't mean you have to do it too.

Look back over your life, as short as it is, you have a long way to go, so don't rush, discover yourself, above all don't do things to try to impress anyone, if it's not you don't do it...

I'm old and still don't know everything, I learn something new everyday, about myself and others.

and your size, I would say it's normal or average for somone your age, everybody isn't suppose to look like a porn star.... Good Luck

[time]

Even if you are underage you deserve some advice. Do you feel that the way you do because you don't have luck with either sex or is it because you have no feelings for them? If you have had boyfriends and felt nothing sexual for them, you might not be gay; if you have had girlfriends and not felt anything for them, you might be gay. Might is the key word here. It could be that they weren't your type. At the same time, you need to ask yourself, were you aroused by them? Or was it an idea or feeling associated with them? I'm sorry that this isn't really advice but, like the previous post, there is no clear answer and there is no guarantee about anything.

The fact that you seemed confused means that you need to evaluate your reasons for desiring someone and what it is you desire from them. Last year, I made friends that I was attracted to. I confused want of friendship with sexual desire--I'm glad I did though because they are all really good friends, but the motive is what was important. I realized that I desired them on a different level than friendship. The only real advice that I can give is don't worry about labels. I'm attracted to very women but I prefer to identify as a gay because most people wouldn't understand the fact that I am attracted to a minority of the women out there. Whoever you are attracted to or makes you happy should be the one you go after no matter what gender they are.

As to the penis size, six inches is the average length.