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I've just added up my diaper use for 2017 and I'm now curious to know how my experience of being diapered every night for a year compares with others. Nightly, I put on a slip-style Tena rated at 8 drips, snugged into position by towelling pull-up pants followed by separate plastic pants. To stop me interfering with the diaper in my sleep, except in the hottest weather I wear a neckline-fastened one piece sleep suit with no way in below the waist. I've logged myself as being wet on 93 nights in the whole calendar year (that's just over 25%, or roughly one night in four). To count as "wet" there must have been a weight gain of at least 500g in the diapering, but typically with me it is much more. If I'm wet at all, I tend to be very wet, often dumping several full bladders into the same diaper without waking up. This is excellent in terms of an improved sleep cycle. Not waking up three or four times per night for a pee leaves me much better rested come the morning, which is why I'm quite content not only to be diapered at night on a 'precautionary' basis, but also to seek to move from a 25% wetness rate to 100%. I'd really like to achieve uninterrupted 8-hour sleepthroughs on a nightly basis, but I'm not there yet. At present, much seems to depend on what happens in my sleep the first time my bladder reaches the full mark. If I don't wake, instead dumping 250ml+ into my diapers, then subsequent full bladders don't wake me either. Already wet, some hidden mechanism seems to say "no need". But if I wake the first time, then I wake each subsequent time too - unless I deliberately wet myself and so set up deliberately the 'already wet' scenario. My fondness for a mug or three of tea before bed needs a mention here. When wet, typical weight gain in the diaper for a whole night will be around 1200g, which I reckon equates to four visits to the toilet or potty. The normal upper limit is about 1600, although on one record-breaking occasion I reached 2866ml before diaper leaks drove me from my bed. The sagging, soaked diapering hanging between my legs as I waddled towards the bathroom was quite a sight. Way past absorbing it all, a lake sloshed about in the crotch of the plastic pants. So what about daytime? In the past couple of months I've taken to wearing 8-drip Maxi pull-ups during the day whenever I go out. So much more convenient than having to hunt around for toilets. Just pause wherever you happen to be, and deliberately release just enough to deal with any urgency. What I don't know - and would like others to tell me - is whether such deliberate surrender of daytime bladder control has knock-on effects. Will involuntary daytime wetting follow? Maybe even loss of bowel control too? In the whole of 2017 I only had a soiled diaper twice, but it can happen. Each time it was morning and I was standing in a wet diaper, having just got out of bed, when an unfamiliar feeling developed between my buttocks. Only when I reached between my legs and lifted the crotch of my diaper did I realise that I had "done it in my pants", totally without prior awareness of what was about to happen. Not a problem at home, but elsewhere?

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"There are three kinds of lies: Lies, damned lies and statistics" --Benjamin Disreali (he had great Gears) The Paradise Parameter has two uses 1. Show that little girls are smart as well as cute and do not hesitate to deal in numerical ideas 2. evaluate ABDL site ranking here http://www.ranker.com/list/top-adbl-sites-v1/abdl It is used to evaluate the difference between votes up and votes down with respect to the toal number of votes. It extends to two decimal places and used the Rounding Rule: If the third decimal place is less than five, the decond place stays as is, if the third decimal place is 5 or more, the second place number goes up by one The formula is this: Paradise Parameter=(VotesUp + VotesDown)/(VotesUp/VotesDown) Let us take two examples Current statistics: Daily Dipaers 251 71 ABDL Reddit 47 12. Now it is apparent that there are many more total votes at DD (nobody goes there because it is croweded ) than ABDLReddit DD: Paradise Parameter: (251+71=322)/(251/71=3.54) 322/3.54=90.96 The Paradise Parameter for DD is 90.96 ABDLReddit paradise Parameter: (47+12=59)/(47/12=3.92) 59/3.92=15.05 the Paradise parameter for ABDLReddit is 15.05 The use of the total number of votes puts it in the full context. if you look at the VotesUp/VotesDowm, the number is actuall larger for ABDLReddit, which is why it was chosen for this example, yet the total number of votes for DD is larger by a factor of 5.46. That difference is quite significant The "summary" is written as: The Paradise Parameter is abbreviated as PP Sitename,VoutesUp, VotesDown, Total, VotesUp/VotesDown, PP Thus Daily Diapers, 252, 71, 322, 3,54, PP 90.96 ABDLReddit, 47, 12, 59, 3,92, PP 15.05