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I'm going nuts these days with these super strong sexual urges. But they are not for actual sex. I'm now completely incontinent, no control anymore. This finally happened just before Easter. At the same time, sexual issues also started. The inability to get an erection but also a very heightened desire for sexual release. I've been here before with my back injury before but this very different. Be ready for the weird. First: I find myself wanting to just "hump thrust" by myself. Basically get on all fours and thrust my hips as if I was having sex. But not actually having sex or any sexual contact. just the very dynamic thrusting. I don't usually have any erection. (In fact, I don't think there has been any erections with this.) There this strong urge to thrust and in a bit I'll get this deep pleasure feeing building in my groin and finally ejaculate. It is very pleasurable and a much deeper orgasm than sex has been for awhile. Second: The desire to "hump" my wife. Note, this is not sex. But a strong urge to just hold her from behind and thrust into her until I climax. (To be REALLY strange, I've had this feeling strongly with others including men but its not something I'll act on.) And to get weirder, it isn't about being naked or clothed. Many times, I'll be fully clothed and wearing a diaper as usual. Sometimes I must be completely naked. Sometime, only my pants and diaper are down. Its not a "decision" but a "need", an intense urge. And with my wife, it doesn't matter if she is naked or not. There is no urge or interest if she is one way or another. Just that we will be standing, me holding her from behind. Even if we were both naked, actual sex wouldn't be possible. Its not about physical sensation. Not only do I not have an erection, but little guy is always sunken and barely visible. I really can't properly describe the intensity of these urges. Once they hit, I pretty much can't concentrate until I act on them. - Even if they occur when trying to have normal sex. After the injury, I've had intense sexual issues before such as spontaneous ejaculation and orgasms as well as dry orgasms. These happened every so often but would stop after a few months and have hardly happened in years. But this new weirdness is certainly strange. For over the last week, I've been hit buy the urge at least once a day, sometime more. I don't expect anyone to understand or to weigh in. I just needed to vent to someone.
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My boyfriend has a fetish for women wearing diapers and acting infantile. I wouldn't have a problem with this, but my issue is this is the only thing that turns him on because of circumstances. I've just about given up on ever having a sex life with him because of this. It's not that the idea of it makes me uncomfortable, but it just doesn't do anything for me and I would just feel silly/awkward doing this for him. It's just not a turn on for me to act as an infant and gives me no kind of sexual thrill or desire. Now, I love my boyfriend very much and I don't want to even consider leaving him because of his sexual desires, but I have sexual desires, too, and it just seems like we are sexually incompatible and will never be able to have any kind of sex life if something isn't done about this. I've been with him for 2 years, so I'm not ready to give up. I know a relationship isn't all about sex, but 2 years of having little to no sex life is really unsatisfying in a relationship. I just want to know if anyone has any kind of advice for this type of situation and I felt like a website like this wouldn't judge a situation like this harshly. Thank you for any kind of help in advance. What are your suggestions? PS: I don't mean anything against the community at all. It's totally cool if you guys are into this or even have this as your lifestyle.
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