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I am just curious, have any of you ever been "doxed?" That is, your private life as an ABDL exposed to the world against your will? I have, and I thought I would share my unfortunate experience with "doxing." In 2016 I was living in Phoenix and had a good job that I loved and my co-workers and boss were like my family, but it was still a professional, working relationship. At the time I was having issues with my landlord, who was a wretched, morbidly obese, hateful woman who had 3 disgusting, filthy, constantly barking dogs that frequently kept me awake and filled our common yard with an ocean of dog shit that she was too lazy to clean up. When I finally had enough of her nonsense and her filthy dogs, I gave her a written 30 day notice to vacate. She had a $200 cleaning deposit I had given her, but I didn't care about the money: I wanted to be done with her and her filthy fucking dogs. So I moved out within 30 days, intending for her to keep my deposit. But she had other plans. After my stuff was all moved out, she called me and demanded that I clean my apt from top to bottom, "or else." Her voicemail was clear about the "or else" part. Her voicemail said, quote, "If you don't come back and clean this apt. I am going to tell your boss and your company what a fucking degenerate pervert freak you are. I'm going to send them pictures of you in diapers pooping your pants. You are going to lose your fucking job, you fucking freak. Do you understand me?" I thought she was bluffing, but I was wrong. Unknown to me at the time, was the fact that when I had been at work, she used her pass-key to sneak into my apt. and she took pictures of my diapers, rubber pants, and baby things and she made copies of my flash drives that I had sitting on my desk, that had pics of me in diapers pooping my pants, as well as ABDL stories I had wrote. I had no idea that she had came into my apt and took pictures and made copies of my flash drive. But I was about to find out. When I came to work on Monday, our bookkeeper Tammy had a really bad look on her face. She took me aside and told me this woman had emailed my boss and coworkers with all my ABDL info and pics that she stole out of my apt. (She got their email addresses off of our company website.) I will never forget the look on Tammy's face when she said to me, "This woman says that you wear diapers and you poop your pants like a baby? She say's that you enjoy it. Is that true?" I was devastated. From that point on, no one at work ever looked at me the same way again. I had lost all of their respect. I was no longer "normal" in their eyes. I was no longer "one of the guys." I was now a "pervert" who liked to wear diapers and poop his pants like a baby. Shortly after that, I left the company, and I lost one of the best jobs I ever had. Yes, I could have sued that woman and got the legal system involved. But think about it. Would you really want all of your private ABDL pics and stories coming out in a civil proceeding? I could imagine her lawyers getting me up on the witness stand and asking me in front of the whole court, "Is it true you enjoy pooping your pants like a baby? Please tell the court why you enjoy this?" (In a civil trial, anything goes, if you sue, or someone sues you, everything is permissible as "evidence" and "testimony.") So, that is what happens when you get "doxed" to your employer, by your vengeful landlord. I did learn quite a bit though. 1. If your landlord has a passkey to your apt./house, then lock everything ABDL related and flash-drives, and external hard drives, in a footlocker, closet, etc., somewhere they don't have a passkey, or access to. 2. If you count on someone's "humanity" or "respect" for your privacy: don't. Many people out there despise us and are revolted at the thought that we diaper ourselves and mess our pants like babies. They will not even blink at destroying our lives, our privacy, and our livelihoods. We are "degenerate perverts" to them, and they look at doxing us, like stepping on cockroaches. She had told my boss in her email to him that she was doxing me as a, "public service" so that my company won't hire any more "perverts" and "degenerates." My advice? PROTECT YOUR PRIVACY DO NOT TRUST LANDLORDS THEY WILL DOX YOU