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AB/DL Diaper Bag Packing List Going to your first AB/DL event? Starting your adventure of trying diapers 24/7? A diapered road trip? This article is what I would have liked to know when I started my adventure. This list is what I consider to be the bare necessities. Starting of the list… the diaper bag… it wouldn’t be a diaper bag list if you didn’t have a bag! A standard backpack with three main pouches, and side pockets on either side for a drink or bottle is my ideal bag. I personally have two bags… one for regular public use which is just a black military style pack and one for ABDL events and conventions that is covered in ABDL and other fetish affiliated pins, badges, and patches. Now that we have the bag we need to pack it. Starting off my advice is to pack things in the likelihood that you are going to need them, so I always pack my spare change of clothes. Jeans, shirt, socks, diaper cover in the bottom in the bag in the main pouch. Trust me, you would rather have them and not need them than need them and not have them. Next is diapers and boosters… if the bag has a laptop pouch, I like to put two of each in this section, so they are a quick and easy grab. It is up to you if you need it more or less. I also like to add a pack of diaper disposable bags in the same section of my diapers. Northshore is who I recommend for these. Their packs are small and deodorizing. The last item I place in the main pouch is my diaper changing mat. The mat isn’t always usable in all situations like in a toilet stall, but I like using it over the toilet to place my changing supplies and keeping a barrier between my stuff and a public toilet. (Just make sure you wipe it down with disinfectant wipes when you are done. Moving on from the main pouch of the bag and focusing on the outside of the bag. I always carry my water bottle on my public bag or a bottle or sippy bottle on my dominant hand side of the bag. In the front exterior bag this is where you want to carry your changing supplies, so you are not fishing around looking for them. I recommend investing in small bottles or going the easier route and getting several small travel sized bottles that you can just refill. If diapers are a sexual thing for you and you are planning on being active don’t forget to pack lube and protection! The last thing I always pack in my diaper bag is my noise cancelling headphones, a handheld gaming device, (I like rocking my old 90s Gameboy with Pokémon yellow as a conversation starter at events), a deck of playing cards or a Yugioh deck if I know others will have them, and an activity book and pencils. I hope you find this list and guide helpful to you. This is obviously not the only way to pack your bag or what you may need, but this is a good starting point. Make this check list your own! Happy Padded Life to All – J.p. Diaper Bag Check List o Diapers x2 o Boosters x2 o Changing Mat o Changing Supplies o Powder o Lotion o Baby Oil o Disinfectant wipes o Wipes o Lube o Condoms o Protection o Discreet Disposable bags o Deodorizer o Spare pair of jeans o Socks o Diaper cover o Spare shirt/onesie o Headphones o Gaming device/stimuli o Paci o Bottle Diaper Bag Packing List.pdf

Designing and Decorating your AB/DL Nursery You’ve decided to take the exciting leap that all Littles dream about, and you want to build a nursey of your own. As someone who has done just that I decided to write this suggestive guide to help give you some ideas and learn from my mistakes and benefit from my successes. Before getting started, I suggest picking a central theme. The theme should be something that is close to YOU and makes YOU happy. That being said, I highly recommend writing down a few themes to brainstorm. After you have a few ideas, I suggest doing a google hunt for products and items that would be a wish list of items to realize the theme. Aside from the ABDL furniture, you need to think about paint, lighting, flooring, wall hangings/decorations, and things like storage. For this run through, I’m going to use my nursery as an example. I’ll cover each aspect of the design and what I ended up doing. My Theme For my nursery I chose “Space/Rockets” as my nursery theme. I knew from repeated google searches there was a ton of products both baby and adult that made the theme ideal. One method you may want to try in testing/deciding on your theme is can you find a bedding/comforter set for your theme. Walls For my personal nursery, I decided not to paint the walls of my nursery. My house is over one hundred years old, and I like the unique/original woodwork and the neutral eggshell color, but that didn’t hinder me from decorating the walls. I started off with several wall hangings: a NASA flag, a massive technicolored tapestry of an astronaut floating in space, a tapestry of the solar system and a final hanging of the ABCs that was space themed. On the practical side of wall hangings I installed some small space themed shelves above my changing table that contains my wipes, powder, lotion etc.… easily within reach of a changer but more importantly I can easily reach them as well when I’m on the table so it helps when I’m changing myself. I suggest looking for corner shelves, stuffie hanging hammocks and other little things that can help tie the room together. Remember, this is your room and a safe space, so your opinion is all that matters. The last piece I highly recommend is a fun and cheap little project that you can do and that is making and hanging your name, ABDL, BABY, or some other cute phrase in large letters. You can get large letter blanks at any hobby or craft store or even Walmart. Floors Carpets are ideal for a nursery/play space. If you are anything like me who loves their tummy time, carpets are necessary, but you can also get things like playmats and also large foam puzzle pieces to your floor. I have two playmats in my nursery. One by my changing table and the second larger one is in my main play space that also doubles as an ABDL Baby Gym. Like I mentioned in picking a theme, I found several space themed playmats in my brainstorming google search and bookmarked them when I got to the phase of the nursery build. I personally try to keep most of my floor play space clear when I am not playing, but a large corner stuffie or Stuffie pile, bean bag chair or one or two large toys that can occupy a corner out of the way that won’t present a tripping hazard are also great for the nursery space. My advice is to try and find the happy medium between cluttered and spartan. The nursery floor should look welcoming and an inviting place an ABDL would want to lay down or sit to play with easy crawl access to nearby stimuli. Ceiling This is an area that many overlook, but I highly recommend not neglecting this aspect of your nursery. Ceiling decorations and hanging stimuli such as a mobile, baby gym, glow-in-the-dark stars are many common stimuli found in nurseries. What I did for my nursery was a number of things that kept with my space theme. The first was I replaced the ever common “salad bowl” light for a large LED “Moon” light that was remote controlled and featured various lighting settings. I’ll discuss that item more in the lighting section, but changing the light to a moon dramatically changes the space when laying on your back and staring at the ceiling. The second aspect I added for the ceiling was I purchased a laser star/nebula generator. These nail the space theme for me, but I recommend looking into light show generators for your nurseries as they are cheap, often remote controlled, and require no installation or room modification. The third ceiling modification I recommend is ceiling hangings. This is an easy way of adding more stimuli but does require minor room modification. What I did for my nursery is I built several Nasa Lego sets, such as the Space Shuttle, ISS, and the Hubble telescope, then using strong monofilament fishing line and a few small eyelet screws, I secured the models to the ceiling upside down and a various angles to imitate them floating in space. These three additions have made lying in the crib or on the nursery floor a stimulating and wonderful experience no matter where I look. The hangings don’t have to make sense like an imitation of space… You could fill the ceiling with floating squish mellows, dinosaurs, barbies, flying superheroes… let your baby imaginations run wild. Hanging a mobile from the ceiling, adding designer light or even ceiling stickers are also a possibility. My childhood room my parents painted the ceiling to look like a sky with clouds and the ceiling fan had images of fighter jets on the blades. Be Creative! Be You! Lighting As mentioned in the ceiling section there are several creative main room lighting options available. The main room light fixture can be an expensive option but really can really help you mentally make that leap from a room to a nursery. The standard salad bowl or “Boob” light just doesn’t have the same feeling as a colorful lighting option. Some suggestions when making a lighting selection: Look for an LED option that is adjustable. Many lighting options today can change colors, intensity, and are dimmable. Another suggestion is to look for something that is remote-controlled. The “Moon” lighting that I installed in my nursery has a remote option and I can’t tell you how nice it is to be in the crib and be able to adjust the lights to my liking. If buying and installing a new light fixture isn’t a possibility… no need to build a blanket fort to cry in… do build a blanket fort though… A creative option for lighting a nursery and also adding more fun elements is to get a basic smart home device and some smart lightbulbs. Many smart bulb options offer color changes, dimmability, and can be controlled through a phone app. You can also link smart bulbs with a smart home device to add a voice control option to your lighting. Other creative lighting options to think about are things like: An end table Lamp, night light, LED strips, and wall or ceiling light projectors. There are tons of themed options for each of these lighting options. One option I want to touch on is the LED lighting strips. Creative installation of LED lighting can really make your nursery unique and a wonderful place. I placed LED lights along both the top rail and underside of my crib and also on the underside of all of the shelves of my changing table and diaper storage. The lighting not only adds mood to the room, but it also is a functional improvement as it lights all my diaper storage. Storage Having a place to store toys, packs of diapers, clothing, changing supplies, and other play gear is a must have for any nursery space. It also can offer tabletop space for various décor items like a night light, lamp, stuffies, toys or even offer more storage. When I was looking at storage for my nursery, I first accessed the majority of my toys so I could have a better idea of what my needs were so I could get the ideal toy storage. I have a lot of blocks, toy RC construction toys, wooden train sets along with some hand puppets and large wooden playsets. I want something that would both display some toys but also could hold all the blocks and smaller toys that had lots of pieces. I found the perfect large toy box/shelf combo on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0DJM552C2/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 My advice when selecting something is get the dimensions of the furniture piece and make sure that not only does it fit in the space in the room, but that it also can fit the toys that you want to place. All dimensions should be listed on websites. Other storage ideas can be under your bed/crib… most bed frames are fourteen inches off the ground which is the standard height of a diaper pack. Something else I have done is I purchased two large Rubbermaid containers designed to go under the bed. I can place loose diapers and boosters inside for storage. Small hanging shelves by the changing area are great for diaper changing supplies and a stuffie hammock are great for babies with a lot of little stuffed friends. Amazon and Ikea are really solid places to look for storage options if you are looking for something in particular. Thrift stores are another great budget option that offers great DIY potential. Toys What AB doesn’t love their toys? Well, toys can be used in more ways than just playing. Some ideas to try: Stuffies strategically stationed in special areas of the room to protect you, wooden alphabet blocks spelling out fun phrases, Toys hanging from the ceiling, completed Lego models, maybe a wall full of Funko pops, action figures, my little pony, troll dolls, barbies, squishmellows… Your nursery, your imagination, your dream manifest! Make it happen!!! Furniture AB/DL nursery furniture like a crib, changing table, baby gym, play pen, rocking, and highchair are what a lot of folks may dream of having. I can tell you they are all possible, and I plan on writing articles on every single one of my DIY build ones for each. I will include the links to the base items I used for those builds in the meanwhile if you want to try to design your own. More to come on those article, but I suggest if you plan on one day adding these elements to your nursery to account for them if you are making a nursery space. Crib For a crib I recommend a canopy steel bed frame. The rails offer great support for rails and the bed frame is absolutely solid and you will avoid some of the issues when you try to convert a standard bed frame into a crib for my crib. Link: Amazon.com: ZINUS Patricia Black Metal Canopy Platform Bed Frame, Mattress Foundation with Steel Slat Support, No Box Spring Needed, Easy Assembly, Full : Everything Else The frame is under $200 and comes in single, full and queen. I have built cribs in all three sizes, but my personal crib is full. I built the wooden rails four inches apart with a swinging gate. A box spring and mattress will place the crib bed at the perfect height. Changing table A changing table is something I use every day, and it was actually one of the easiest additions to my nursery thanks to inspiration I got at CapCon. I purchased a massage table which was available as changing tables at the Age player’s Convention. I have included the link to the one I used but I wouldn’t recommend it if you aren’t planning to rebuild the table. It is a good table, but since it is a travel table for around $100 it isn’t the most solid unless it is rebuilt. I took the original legs off the table and built new legs with a shelf out of six 4x4s and some plywood. Amazon.com: BestMassage Massage Table Portable Massage Bed Lash Bed 2 Fold SPA Table 24 inch Wide Adjustable Salon Bed with Non-Woven Bag for Spa Footmassage Facial CareSpa Tattoo,Black : Beauty & Personal Care Highchair Right up front I will say that my highchair build was pretty expensive, but that is because it is not the first time, I have built a highchair and there were serious issues with stability, and I want to create builds that others can replicate. For this build, I purchased a garden bar chair from amazon. Amazon.com: POLYWOOD® Traditional Garden Bar Chair, Black The cost was $350. I then cut a tray from a sheet of MDF. The tray clips on to the chair with genuine highchair clip hardware from amazon. Amazon.com: Highchair Tray Hardware, baby toddler kid child seat stool antique vintage old retro : Baby I also added a go kart harness for baby’s safety. Amazon.com: Yakitoko Universal 4 point Safety Harness Set 2" Fits Go Kart,UTV,ATV,Racing Blue : Automotive and I used seat cushion foam, fabric, and a staple gun to add some padded upholstery. The last two things weren’t really necessary, but the fabric was space themed to tie into my nursery and it was a challenge I thought I could accomplish. Baby Gym The Baby gym build was entirely from scratch, but I have already written that build article so I will include the link to my article below: Building an AB/DL Baby Gym - Product Reviews and Info - [DD] Boards & Chat Happy Padded Life to All – J.p. Designing and Decorating your AB Nursery article.pdf

Over the past 20 years I have been in this community and have learned a lot and I wanted to create a totally free resource that could contain all of my editorials, informative articles, advice, ABDL games, captions, my DIY ABDL furniture designs and also contain links to various ABDL sites. I now have that with my website https://babyleprechauncreations.com/ I also have a private ABDL discord channel that I welcome all to join... many on there are local friends or people I have met at capcon over the years but I thought it would be nice to share it with the broader community. There are currently over 60 members but I hope to make it a safe place for learning about all things ABDL, it continues to be a great way to meet ABDLs in person, and its also fun to just hang out playing video games together or just venting about your day... that link is here: https://discord.gg/WdhTRmUuXC Hope to see you and chat. - Baby Jp

Do you want to wear diapers more of even 24/7, but don’t only because of the cost? This article is my personal experience over the past two years (I've been 24/7 for 6 and live 24/7 in a nursery now as an AB/DL) and counting. It may not apply to all but if it helps just one person that wants to wear often or even 24/7 then I will consider it well worth my time. First a little backstory… I am a lifelong AB/DL. No joke, I was caught by my parents trying to wear my siblings’ diapers multiple times as early as three years old and the desire never abated or diminished. Throughout my life I would continue to “hide my kink life” while I lived at home with parents and throughout my military service. I was medically discharged from the military after some horrible stuff occurred and I really struggled just to find a reason to live. Multiple therapists and really powerful anti-depressants and I somewhat became a functional drone in society once more, but I wasn’t a person… this is where diapers saved me. I started to wear more and for longer periods… what used to be an hour or two became a whole day or several and thanks to the medication and lack of caring what society thought at that point I started wearing in public… and I started to feel that semblance of happiness and being myself started to creep back into my life. This is when I made the leap to wear 24/7 about six years ago, but that came with a cost. I had started at a great place of work a year before and had a decent career going for me, but 24/7 isn’t cheap. Enough said, here’s how I went about it: · First tip: Get a long-term heavy absorbency diaper · My daily diaper is a Megamax with a booster… both at home and in public. That combo will generally last over 12 hours. So, I would essentially change twice a day. A case of Megamax is 40 diapers and the 2XL boosters I use from Northshore also can be purchased in packs of 40. The order comes out to be about $220. Anything over $200 from Northshore has free shipping… So based on that you’ll have roughly 14-18 orders a year. That’s around $4k (On the high end) · Second tip: Investigate and invest in an HSA/FSA account · Many companies have a Medical Account option in their insurance plan. An HSA is a “Health Savings Account” and an FSA is a “Flexible Spending Account” They are both similar in a way but with some minor differences. The options and uses differ based on your insurance program but they can be used to buy quality medical diapers and even some AB/DL brands. (You need to check on this prior to enrollment and purchase because you will have to provide documentation to show this was an approved purchase.) So, in my example, my company limited HSA to only be used for prescriptions and doctor visits so purchasing diapers wasn’t an option. § What I did was set up an FSA account. How that works is I decide how much money I want to allocate and as of Jan 1st that entire sum is available to me for the entire year. Every paycheck, a small sum is taken out which is where that money comes from but that advantage of doing this is that it is not taxed so the benefit is you essentially have more money for diapers by doing this rather than using your regular paycheck (That is taxed). I like to think of it as a tax-free diaper loan. One downside is you have to use it or lose it… but that isn’t ever really a problem. · Tip Three: Adult Cloth Diapers are a realistic option. · Companies like Rearz has really been creating a lot of cute and viable AB/DL cloth diaper options. I have found and purchased several cloth inserts and diaper cover options off amazon recently as well and I highly recommend this option. There are obviously pros and cons to cloth diapers just as there are with disposable. In the case of cloth the initial cost is high, but after the initial purchase the cost is just laundry costs but as an individual who fully uses diapers I don’t want to handle the clean-up with a messy cloth diaper… so like I said… Pros and cons, but although I prefer disposable diapers I have gradually been adding several cloth and diaper covers to my collection because they are both cute, but also are a great option. · Tip Four: Find a career that allows you to live the life you want to live! · This last suggestion is for those naysayers and can nots who are gearing up in the comments to say that all of this is useless or impossible because of their job… Look, I have literally been there… The military actually has a bedwetting/incontinence policy that could be grounds for discharge. I was also worked as an armored car officer and that job would not have been a possibility for 24/7… I know that some folks have a dream job, and they can’t or won’t ever wear at their job… for others, diapers are sexual, and they can’t wear, or they’d just be humping their desk all day… This suggestion is for people like I was whose life was improved by wearing diapers and they wanted to make that leap. Wearing diapers 24/7 is a lifestyle change… so it might be beneficial to change jobs/careers as well. When I applied to my new job, I went in saying that I wore diapers 24/7 (This was only said to managers and HR) If you are not comfortable with that you can just say you may or may not have a disability that you don’t want to disclose and per HIPPA they can not discriminate against you. But my advice is to tell them because if a company will accept you for you then its already a good place to be. I hope you find these suggestions helpful to you. I plan on writing several more articles that I think might help others. If there is a topic you would like me to address or discuss, please let me know in the comments. If you have other ideas of suggestions let me know. Like I said at the start, I’m dedicating my time to discuss this to try and help that one person that needs this, so if that is not you or this particular topic isn’t helpful that’s fine, but please keep your naysaying to yourself and let me know what topic you’d like me to discuss, and I will. Happy Padded Life to All – J.p.

Before reading this... yes, I'm aware the images aren't there. I attached a PDF that contains them. Also... unlike many of my builds for the changing table there are better options in my opinion that would not require DIY modifications. I have added one such model as an example at the end of the article. I hope this helps! Baby Jp Building an AB/DL Changing Table file:///C:/Users/DarkS/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image002.jpg Recommendation: Although this build worked out for me, I would not repeat this build and would not recommend it unless you already had one of these massage tables and wanted to convert it into a changing table. There are several options on amazon that are the same product, and the cost of the table is the same it all the labor materials and time it would take to build this table. Parts List · Massage Table file:///C:/Users/DarkS/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image004.png Amazon.com: BestMassage Massage Table Portable Massage Bed Lash Bed 2 Fold SPA Table 24 inch Wide Adjustable Salon Bed with Non-Woven Bag for Spa Footmassage Facial CareSpa Tattoo : Beauty & Personal Care · 2 x 8’ 4x4 Pine lumber · 1x1 inch popular square dowel · 2 x 1/4-inch-thick sheets of MDF · 4 x Cube storage containers file:///C:/Users/DarkS/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image006.jpg Amazon.com - DECOMOMO Storage Baskets, 13x15x13 Storage Cube Bins with Labels for Organizing Shelves Kallax (Kallax / 4pcs, Black) · 4 x 2” x 8’ Pine boards · Pack of one inch carpentry screws Tools Required · Router with a 1/4 inch cutting bit. · Drill · Basic hand tools (To disassemble the Table) · Saw Starting off, this build can be completed without any DIY or modifications depending on what massage table you select to be your starting project. I produced this build concept after attending CapCon for the first time and saw that all the changing rooms had a foldable massage table to be used as a changing table. It was such a brilliant idea for me that I decided to buy one as we were driving home. That being said… if I were to do it all over again, I would not have gotten the table that I purchased. I am incredibly happy with it now after the modifications I made, but I had purchased the cheapest table available on Amazon. It had skinny wooden adjustable legs and never felt very solid unlike the ones at CapCon. file:///C:/Users/DarkS/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image008.jpgfile:///C:/Users/DarkS/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image010.jpg Improving the table was easy enough. I removed the original legs by unscrewing the single screw that secured each leg and then I cut six 4x4 pine posts to my desired leg height. I then marked where the 1x1 inch legs had been on each of the posts and then using a router I removed a two inch long by 1 inch channel in each post so that it would match up with the leg slots. I then glued in the one-inch dowel rod. file:///C:/Users/DarkS/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image012.jpgfile:///C:/Users/DarkS/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image014.jpg To add an under shelf and to add more stability to the legs I cut a 1/4-inch groove using the router in each of the posts on the left and right and two on the two middle posts so that I could slide two MDF sheets between them to act as shelves. file:///C:/Users/DarkS/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image016.jpg Lastly, I added a strip of the 2-inch boards, one at the point of the shelf and the second at the top just below the tabletop. file:///C:/Users/DarkS/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image018.jpgfile:///C:/Users/DarkS/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image020.jpg My recommendation to someone looking to have a changing table of their own is to purchase a better quality and designed massage table. You could potentially find a rock-solid table and just put shelves underneath it or even simply slide a shelving unit under the table rather than having to build it. file:///C:/Users/DarkS/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image022.jpg Amazon.com: PayLessHere Massage Table Lash Bed 2 Fold Spa Bed 74”Lx28“W PU Leather Massage Bed Height Adjustable Massage Bed Heavy Duty Stationary Spa Table Salon Facial Cradle Bed : Beauty & Personal Care Building an ABDL Changing Table.pdf