Wow, thank you so much for being so open and honest. It sou is exactly like my current situation. I was reading it and I had to stop half way through and double check if I wrote it. When wearing was only occasional or my desires came and went she was accepting. As time went on and occasional turned into always accepting g turned into barely tolerated. The worst part is, she won't even talk about it and pretend nothing is wrong. Part of me wants to go see a therapist just to get it all out in the open.