Well I will say. My wife didn't really like it at first. I came out within the first year of marriage that I was abdl. She didn't reject it but didn't really want anything with it. But I could wear here and there. It did make issues between us, but we worked through it. Fast forward a few years and two kids later. I ended up with developing a bedwetting and what i guess is a OAB issues. And she with stress incontinence after multiple births. Now we both wear padding. I wear more at night and mainly pulls up during the day. My wife uses panty pads. Which here soon we both will be in pads during the day. She likes the idea of me in pull ups and pads sexier than tabs. Except at night due to bedwetting. So through medical needs we grew together in this issue. We even shop for padding and dips together now. I feel very blessed and thankful for her support of issues. And I'm proud of her through her issues to come to the realization that she needs more protection.