Giggling_Donkey

How far is that from Indianapolis?

I'm near the airport. Moved here last October, but haven't made friends outside of work. Would love to meet other abdl friends

I live near the airport. Recent Indiana transplant. Don't really know anybody. Primarily an AB little looking for friends ☺️

Enlisted. Served 5, then got out.

I use Vaseline (or any other petroleum jelly) between my diaper & thighs. This prevents friction burns from happening during my day

I've been looking for tunnel plugs for the same reason. It's why I want to "un-potty train" first Haven't pulled the trigger on one, though. Does it make pooping completely uncontrollable? Poop doesn't get stuck to the inside of tube? Here's my most recent attempt to get all that evil out;;

Served 5 years in the USMC as an f/a-18 powerline mechanic. Was stationed at MCAS Miramar in San Diego

Hi everyone. I'm having a dilemma. I have thicker thighs & thus the infamous "chub rub" whilst walking, standing, running, etc. This creates a problem for my diapers. It essentially severely bottlenecks the lower part, & causes leaks. But this is with the thinner, more discreet diapers. So my question is more directed toward those whose inner thighs rub together. Are there certain diapers you prefer that still allow for liquid to absorb to the rear of the diaper? Do you think a "waddle cut" dip is a better route to go?

Most everyone seems to be between Salem & Portland. Are there any in the southern region?

Comfort. Pure & simple. When I wear, it allows my adult mindset to decompress & lull into a state where I dont have to worry about my responsibilities for a while. Having a tight diaper around my waist with the padding underneath me gives me a sense of security. It tells me everything will be ok, & it allows me to regroup mentally & emotionally. If I could wear 24/7, I genuinely believe life would be better is so many various facets of my life

Great! You're likely in the same boat as me, honestly. I love the rear designs, too! I'll see what they have for the sample packs. I was mostly considering ABU, as I believe they're local to me here in Washington state, but if Rearz works good for you, then I'm sure they'll be good for me. Thanks for the suggestion?

Hi everyone! I'm somewhat new to the DL lifestyle & am curious what you thicker thighed people prefer? Just for reference (& really not to brag), I'm a 240lb muscular build guy who powerlifts & has a squat/deadlift over 400 lbs. I only recently returned from overseas where my only option was Tena Slip Supremes. Decent, but due to how thin they were, my thighs always seemed to crush the groin section to the point where pee couldn't travel to the rear section of the diaper, leaked bad, & I still got a bit of that "chub rub". Any suggestions on diapers with a thick bottom area?

That's fantastic! Both that you had the courage to tell her, AND that she's accepting of it. I'm still building up the courage to tell my wife about my wearing. Mine is more for a comfort thing than just fun, though. But whatever the reason, I know I need to tell her, & I can only hope she's as accepting as your girlfriend. Congrats to you! And as others.have said, take things slow & don't make the situation awkward. When you wear, just wear as if it's just a normal pair of underwear

This, by far, is my biggest gripe with tena. I pretty much have to readjust at least once, but it completely runs the fit because the fuzz get pulled up with the tabs. More than a few times I've had wet thighs because the legs couldn't seal anymore & move the wetness to the back of the diaper. Sucks, because Tena is the best available to me right now?

I always fluff now. When I first started wearing, I knew nothing about it. But now that I know, there's no going back. The method of fluffing is subjective, but I lightly pull at numerous angles, so as to spread the padding evenly. I typically don't crease like many others, since once I start walking around, it creases itself. I've found it disperses wetness much quicker, bit the total absorbency amount remains the same no matter what. Just experiment & find what works for you & enjoy the padded tooshie?