Thank you for the help. I have ordered some PUL pants, some heavy plastic ones from Leakmaster. I wear old fashion girdles and do not tuck my boy bits as I find that it is much easier to "pee in my pants" when not tucked. I have started a subscription to Wellness diapers from Amazon and love having a steady supply of diapers. I just love not having to go to a bathroom during the day or getting up at night to use my bathroom.