As title and profile pic suggest; uk babyfurfag here. 30/70 ab/dl, more lb/dl to be honest - but age is fluid.
Male Bi, Pan, Queer - perhaps easier to say, “not straight”.
I’ve been DL for six years and came to it during a period of emotional trauma. I forget exactly how it came about - its wierd that.
For me, ab and dl click for many reasons. I’m not incontinent, but have always been week (public accidents on a couple of occasions) so there is that and the convenience. Then there is the feel either wet or dry, indeed the whole sensory experience. So that takes me into kink and sexual aspects.
The most significant (and magical) thing for me, however, is how emotionally comforting being diaperd is. Idkw but they really help me deal with depression, introversion and all the other mental dysfunctions I seem to have picked up.
Anyway, aside from all that I like to think I’m a pretty rounded individual.
So... yeah