I love cloth too but only wear at home or overnight and mainly plastic backed cloth prefolds with Velcro tabs. Am looking at some of the plastic diaper liners with inserts tho not sure if they might bev better
I wear plastic pants over disposables but also love the feel without a diaper/nappy against my skin. Love the smell, feel and crinkle of my plastic pants!
I know just what you mean holding it in until you can get a diaper on to let it go! Hopefully you are finding it more natural now to go in your diaper and and are enjoying a warm, wet one right now!