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All i can think of is that it will make your pee a vibrant yellow and smell a bit more. I guess it would help with the visual and olfactory cues of being a bedwetter.

I tried it for the free week. I did get daily emails that were personalized for my goals as well as feedback on issues I was having. I wanted to bedwet but was ok with daytime wetting as well. The coach is not ab/dl himself but is very knowledgeable about it and is ok with integrating it into the program. He does not promise it will work for everyone and he is completely fine with you quitting after the first free week so it doesn't sound like he is selling a "cure-all". A lot of what he was doing was already recommended on this forum so I can see it as useful for someone who needs a support system and a personal guide to help them through it. Whether it is worth the money I leave up to you. He did help me realize that I am not ready for full time diaper dependence at this time so I feel it was worth it for that.

Keep introducing new factors into your training that increase your chances of wetting. Things like increase water intake a few hours before bed or drink a cup of green tea (good for you + it is a diuretic) before you go to bed. Eventually the scale will tip and you will have a accident.

Very happy to hear that it isn't something serious. Awesome job on the weight lost so far!

I have used both silicone and water lube. I preferred the silicone. You can inject directly into the urethra but I find it makes little difference for me. A day or two is a good time frame for a first time. I love going to sleep in a dry diaper and waking up soaked. This will give you that experience.

I will answer what I can. I enjoy the Bardia Foley catheter. If you are male go for the 5cc one. You can wear any type of diaper with them but you will be constantly leaking from the tube so a higher end diaper is recommended. My favorite is any ABU diapers but a Abri-form level 4 is a good cheaper alternative. I have never used the holey-Foley method so I can't help you there. When inserting I highly recommend you prelube the catheter. Watch some videos before you do your first one and if it really hurts, stop. It will feel weird and uncomfortable when you are breaching the bladder muscle when inserting it. Keep everything as sterile as possible, especially when inserting. There is no such thing as overkill here. Look at some of the other threads to find some procedures people go through when inserting. Also, be aware the even if you are really safe you can still get an UTI. Make sure you are comfortable telling the doctor the truth of what you were doing because you may just have that conversation with them.

It is possible but there are a few logistical issues that make it very difficult for someone with a consumer level machine. It needs to be very smooth, non-porous and made of a material that is non-reactive with the human body. This is possible but it would still be quite the project.

To answer this question, it is very simple. You refuse any exam or treatments. A doctor can't force you to be examined or treated without your permission. There are a few exceptions such as immediate danger of harm. But even that has to stop the moment the danger passes.

Hygiene is the most important thing. You will hear many routines on here to stay safe. They know what they are talking about. Make sure to wash your hands thoroughly. For now, one use per catheter. Don't open the package until you are ready to use it. Sanitize everything. Catheter is clean so don't sanitize that. Even after that, you could still get an infection. If you do then drink cranberry juice and see a doctor if possible. It will feel weird and maybe even hurt a little. If you feel stabbing/cutting pain, you are doing it wrong. Now that you are properly aware of the risk, it is fun. Get a diaper ready before hand because you are going to leak with no control. Put on a good diaper and be aware you will flood if you sit down for a while and then standing up. First time, I wouldn't keep it in over a day at most. If any veteran can chime in on anything I forgot please do.

That is awesome. How long did it take you to get to this stage?

I have been doing laser hair removal for my underarms. It has been working very well. I know a lot of studios will not do pubic hair but there are some that do. For pricing issues sites like groupon is your friend.

From what I have seen with other people's progress, at 1 month in you still have full control. Real results tend to start at earliest 6 months. Some people have reported small accidents at that time. I believe general consensus is about a year before you have lost total control. YMMV.

I know the coach you are talking about. I tried it for a week and that helped me realize that I am not in the right time and place in my life to go full time. I am interested in knowing how well it works for you though. Please do keep us up to date.