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That's like doubling diapers. I've doubled diapers and cut a slit in the under one to allow exes liquid flow into the outer one. I've come to love boosters though. It's like wearing a second diaper without so much extra weight. The boosters do a better job of quickly absorbing

I fanticize alot about being dependent on diapers, but I don't think that is what I want. I did have an accident once though. I dreamed I was wearing a diaper and started to let go in my underwear. Woke up right away wet and turned on. I finished and cleaned up.

Yea I think we should enjoy our diapers descreetly. I try to be clean. Sometimes people may smell me but when I change I make sure that the stall is cleaner than I found it.

I really only wear briefs. Of the few disposal underwear brands I've tried (4-5 brands) all of them have leaked some. Also none have been very good at dealing with a wet BM. If you have heavy flow I recommend briefs. It says the same on the website. I have found Depends 3 tab plastic briefs to hold soft BMs the best, but I wish they were more absorbant like Wellness briefs.

I agree with gah!ghost the bumper is a little too narrow, but the absorbanc is great. I wore a pair for 9 hours at work and didn't hold it at all even during walking rounds. Just before leaving work I changed. I had a very soft BM driving home and ended up with a tiny leak. So far Depends 3 tabs have been the best for BMs. Thy are not absorbant enough though. Perhaps I'll try booster pads.

It started as purely sexual, but now I find comfort in it as well and it helps relieve stress.

I am kind of in this boat. When my wife and I were dating in college we used to urinate on each other during sex and once I pooped during sex. She wasn't really into the poop, but be both liked the urination. Anyway now we have been married 15 years and have a 14 year old and 11 year old we hardly have sex at all and I am really stressed about the finances. I'm always working nights so we hardly even sleep together in the same bed. I enjoy being in diapers and messy while she is away. I hide it cause I'm not sure she will understand what a stress reliever it is and how it kind of curbs my loneliness when I'm working 60 hours a week and doing military National Guard stuff. I'm sure she kind of knows though, cause she has found my diapers once and hasn't said a word. If I get caught I'll just come out completely. Sometimes I wish I would get caught so It wasn't a secret. I wouldn't want my kids to know though. I wouldn't mind if my kids did it, but they have to clean up after themselves which they don't usually do. Yesterday I was almost caught. I put on a diaper after work, donated plasma, ended up changing a tire and got a haircut. I did #1 the whole time, but I messed after the hair cut and came home. I made supper and ate with my family and walked the dog. (I was double diapered and it wasn't very runny so there really wasn't a smell) Anyway I went into the shower and started to un-diaper myself and my wife came down to used the bathroom. I hopped into the shower before she saw me in the diaper--we pretty much walk in on each other all the time when we are taking a shower. Anyway she didn't see the diaper, but part of me wishes she would have so it could be in the open.