I can say. It gets easier the more you wear. As someone who wears on and off at work. I have never thus far had anyone notice. I even had times where I had to bend over in front of them and nothing has been noticed. Like stated above, get a store brand diaper. I use the CVS brand pull ups and diapers and they work great. Pulls up take 2-3 good wetting and the diaper takes 5 wettings and still aren't that noticable. The key is to relax and enjoy the feeling of being in diapers in public. It's pretty dang cool.