Hi SuperNES...I understand exactly what you are talking about. I enjoy a diaper as I find it diminishes my masculinity. I never thought of them making me feminine, but now that you mention it...it all falls into place. I'm a straight, a married guy on the outside, but when the rare man presents himself. I prefer the feminine role of being penetrated and usually in a fashion that limits my movement so he is in control. Lately I've had more fantasies about being the subordinate 3rd in a hetro 3 way. Wearing a diaper would effectively lock me up and keep me in a position of not being taken seriously as a man.