As far as telling your therapist, that is up to you. If it is relevant to your treatment, it might be worth sharing. If you do share with them, my recommendation would be to say something like "I have something I want to share with you. It out hard for me to share this with you because it is something unconventional. I ask that you let me explain to the end and then ask any questions you need to do that you understand." Once they agree, you can go ahead and share. Make sure you mention that you are not in any way attracted sexually to children. As far as partners go, my opinion is you should be completely honest with them. If they are not willing to accept that part of you, why would you want to be with them? There are many discussion threads about when and how to tell your partner, but it is generally agreed that before marriage is the most respectful to your partner. Personally, I tell a new partner once I am confident that if things didn't work out, they wouldn't out me; basically, I tell new partners once I trust them. Hope this helps you. Feel free to send me a DM if you want to discuss this with new further. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk